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Yesterday I am sad for the entire evening. I feel that my LG is not ready to be a father yet. I don't know what I can do.
My LG and I live 4 hours away for 3.5 years b/c of his job and my Ph.D. program. Now I am 7 months pregnant and has moved to LG's place. I plan to take a semester off to have my baby girl and take care of her till this August. However, I recently found that my LG is reluctant to face the upcoming changes in lifestyle and really felt worried.
For example, he is still interested in inviting people to home to have dinner. He would be very happy to cook if having others to come. But he would not be that happy to cook a single dish for me. Moreover, he would be excited to do things with young female officemate from his company, such as playing video games at her home, taking her out for shopping, balling, having dinner together, etc. I don't know what he is thinking. Also he is hesitated to spend money when I would like to buy baby stuff at BabyandUS.
Moreover, he would be excited to do things with young female officemate from his company, such as playing video games at her home, taking her out for shopping, balling, having dinner together, etc.
〉he would be excited to do things with young female officemate from his company, such as playing video games at her home, taking her out for shopping, balling, having dinner together, etc.
But he would not be that happy to cook a single dish for me. Moreover, he would be excited to do things with young female officemate from his company, such as playing video games at her home, taking her out for shopping, balling, having dinner together, etc. I don't know what he is thinking.
〉he would be excited to do things with young female officemate from his company, such as playing video games at her home, taking her out for shopping, balling, having dinner together, etc.
Just posted in Chinese, but could not be shown in normal characters. Let me try in English then.
Yesterday I am sad for the entire evening. I feel that my LG is not ready to be a father yet. I don't know what I can do.
My LG and I live 4 hours away for 3.5 years b/c of his job and my Ph.D. program. Now I am 7 months pregnant and has moved to LG's place. I plan to take a semester off to have my baby girl and take care of her till this August. However, I recently found that my LG is reluctant to face the upcoming changes in lifestyle and really felt worried.
For example, he is still interested in inviting people to home to have dinner. He would be very happy to cook if having others to come. But he would not be that happy to cook a single dish for me. Moreover, he would be excited to do things with young female officemate from his company, such as playing video games at her home, taking her out for shopping, balling, having dinner together, etc. I don't know what he is thinking. Also he is hesitated to spend money when I would like to buy baby stuff at BabyandUS.
Is this normal?
没有人理的时候可以自己顶一顶，或者耐心等一下
重复发帖子是不允许的
很多孩子生出来，新爸爸也要一段时间适应呢，找到爸爸的感觉
Moreover, he would be excited to do things with young female officemate from his company, such as playing video games at her home, taking her out for shopping, balling, having dinner together, etc.
This is not good.
不过，如果我累了，会要求他做，他就会带我外面吃，就当是他做的了
凡事往好里想，往好里做。 别累着自己，别委屈自己，对老公提要求让他尽快进入角色。 不过态度要好点哦，不要埋怨。 男人多数都是讲道理的。
楼主mm，你今天都发了5次同样的帖子了。。。。
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我把你其他都锁了，咱们集中在一个帖子里提问题，回答问题，好不好？谢谢
家小有一日一水贴的要求的。嘻嘻。下次麻烦注意一下
你劳工岂止是没准备好当爸爸，他连当丈夫（夫妻俩人一起生活的那种）都没准备好。
慢慢教育吧。找张纸，写下你认为他最需要改的项目若干，争取每个月改掉一项。改了奖励颗星星，犯了画个红叉叉。。。
But he would not be that happy to cook a single dish for me. Moreover, he would be excited to do things with young female officemate from his company, such as playing video games at her home, taking her out for shopping, balling, having dinner together, etc. I don't know what he is thinking.
我觉得这个问题很严重，得赶快解决~~~
〉he would be excited to do things with young female officemate from his company, such as playing video games at her home, taking her out for shopping, balling, having dinner together, etc.
你劳工岂止是没准备好当爸爸，他连当丈夫（夫妻俩人一起生活的那种）都没准备好。
慢慢教育吧。找张纸，写下你认为他最需要改的项目若干，争取每个月改掉一项。改了奖励颗星星，犯了画个红叉叉。。。
NOD. 他还处于单身状态, 可能是你们长期LONG DISTANCE的结果. 现在你得先让他转化成一个负责任的LG.
he will be ready once the baby is born
能转变这么快的恐怕连十分之一都不到。不信，咱们开个投票贴统计一下。
感觉你们夫妻感情有问题。
你有这些感觉， 应该和他当面说呀， 比如你不舒服他和其他女生单独出去玩， 家里朋友聚会的是2， 有些人就是喜欢热闹， 倒没什么。
就是他和女同事的事， 我想你得好好和他谈谈。
[此贴子已经被作者于2009-1-9 19:42:05编辑过]
你老公在感情上有问题，可能在你们ld期间就出问题了。