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Yesterday I am sad for the entire evening. I feel that my LG is not ready to be a father yet. I don't know what I can do.
My LG and I live 4 hours away for 3.5 years b/c of his job and my Ph.D. program. Now I am 7 months pregnant and has moved to LG's place. I plan to take a semester off to have my baby girl and take care of her till this August. However, I recently found that my LG is reluctant to face the upcoming changes in lifestyle and really felt worried.
For example, he is still interested in inviting people to home to have dinner. He would be very happy to cook if having others to come. But he would not be that happy to cook a single dish for me. Moreover, he would be excited to do things with young female officemate from his company, such as playing video games at her home, taking her out for shopping, balling, having dinner together, etc. I don't know what he is thinking. Also he is hesitated to spend money when I would like to buy baby stuff at BabyandUS.
i think you two need to have an open discussion. More problems will appear if you don't solve it now. My suggestion is to find out why he is behaving like this, without judgement and then ask for his plan. Bottom line is he cannot continue what he is doing now.
Just posted in Chinese, but could not be shown in normal characters. Let me try in English then.
Yesterday I am sad for the entire evening. I feel that my LG is not ready to be a father yet. I don't know what I can do.
My LG and I live 4 hours away for 3.5 years b/c of his job and my Ph.D. program. Now I am 7 months pregnant and has moved to LG's place. I plan to take a semester off to have my baby girl and take care of her till this August. However, I recently found that my LG is reluctant to face the upcoming changes in lifestyle and really felt worried.
For example, he is still interested in inviting people to home to have dinner. He would be very happy to cook if having others to come. But he would not be that happy to cook a single dish for me. Moreover, he would be excited to do things with young female officemate from his company, such as playing video games at her home, taking her out for shopping, balling, having dinner together, etc. I don't know what he is thinking. Also he is hesitated to spend money when I would like to buy baby stuff at BabyandUS.
Is this normal?
楼主mm，你今天都发了5次同样的帖子了。。。。
. What if LG is not ready to be a father yet
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3. What to do if LG is not ready to be a father yet
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4. 老公没准备好当爸爸咋办?
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5. 老公没准备好当爸爸咋办?
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我把你其他都锁了，咱们集中在一个帖子里提问题，回答问题，好不好？谢谢