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Yesterday I am sad for the entire evening. I feel that my LG is not ready to be a father yet. I don't know what I can do.
My LG and I live 4 hours away for 3.5 years b/c of his job and my Ph.D. program. Now I am 7 months pregnant and has moved to LG's place. I plan to take a semester off to have my baby girl and take care of her till this August. However, I recently found that my LG is reluctant to face the upcoming changes in lifestyle and really felt worried.
For example, he is still interested in inviting people to home to have dinner. He would be very happy to cook if having others to come. But he would not be that happy to cook a single dish for me. Moreover, he would be excited to do things with young female officemate from his company, such as playing video games at her home, taking her out for shopping, balling, having dinner together, etc. I don't know what he is thinking. Also he is hesitated to spend money when I would like to buy baby stuff at BabyandUS.
Just posted in Chinese, but could not be shown in normal characters. Let me try in English then.
Yesterday I am sad for the entire evening. I feel that my LG is not ready to be a father yet. I don't know what I can do.
My LG and I live 4 hours away for 3.5 years b/c of his job and my Ph.D. program. Now I am 7 months pregnant and has moved to LG's place. I plan to take a semester off to have my baby girl and take care of her till this August. However, I recently found that my LG is reluctant to face the upcoming changes in lifestyle and really felt worried.
For example, he is still interested in inviting people to home to have dinner. He would be very happy to cook if having others to come. But he would not be that happy to cook a single dish for me. Moreover, he would be excited to do things with young female officemate from his company, such as playing video games at her home, taking her out for shopping, balling, having dinner together, etc. I don't know what he is thinking. Also he is hesitated to spend money when I would like to buy baby stuff at BabyandUS.
〉he would be excited to do things with young female officemate from his company, such as playing video games at her home, taking her out for shopping, balling, having dinner together, etc.
〉he would be excited to do things with young female officemate from his company, such as playing video games at her home, taking her out for shopping, balling, having dinner together, etc.
Just posted in Chinese, but could not be shown in normal characters. Let me try in English then.
Yesterday I am sad for the entire evening. I feel that my LG is not ready to be a father yet. I don't know what I can do.
My LG and I live 4 hours away for 3.5 years b/c of his job and my Ph.D. program. Now I am 7 months pregnant and has moved to LG's place. I plan to take a semester off to have my baby girl and take care of her till this August. However, I recently found that my LG is reluctant to face the upcoming changes in lifestyle and really felt worried.
For example, he is still interested in inviting people to home to have dinner. He would be very happy to cook if having others to come. But he would not be that happy to cook a single dish for me. Moreover, he would be excited to do things with young female officemate from his company, such as playing video games at her home, taking her out for shopping, balling, having dinner together, etc. I don't know what he is thinking. Also he is hesitated to spend money when I would like to buy baby stuff at BabyandUS.
Is this normal?
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Just posted in Chinese, but could not be shown in normal characters. Let me try in English then.
Yesterday I am sad for the entire evening. I feel that my LG is not ready to be a father yet. I don't know what I can do.
My LG and I live 4 hours away for 3.5 years b/c of his job and my Ph.D. program. Now I am 7 months pregnant and has moved to LG's place. I plan to take a semester off to have my baby girl and take care of her till this August. However, I recently found that my LG is reluctant to face the upcoming changes in lifestyle and really felt worried.
For example, he is still interested in inviting people to home to have dinner. He would be very happy to cook if having others to come. But he would not be that happy to cook a single dish for me. Moreover, he would be excited to do things with young female officemate from his company, such as playing video games at her home, taking her out for shopping, balling, having dinner together, etc. I don't know what he is thinking. Also he is hesitated to spend money when I would like to buy baby stuff at BabyandUS.
Is this normal?
〉he would be excited to do things with young female officemate from his company, such as playing video games at her home, taking her out for shopping, balling, having dinner together, etc.
你劳工岂止是没准备好当爸爸，他连当丈夫（夫妻俩人一起生活的那种）都没准备好。
慢慢教育吧。找张纸，写下你认为他最需要改的项目若干，争取每个月改掉一项。改了奖励颗星星，犯了画个红叉叉。。。
〉he would be excited to do things with young female officemate from his company, such as playing video games at her home, taking her out for shopping, balling, having dinner together, etc.
你劳工岂止是没准备好当爸爸，他连当丈夫（夫妻俩人一起生活的那种）都没准备好。
慢慢教育吧。找张纸，写下你认为他最需要改的项目若干，争取每个月改掉一项。改了奖励颗星星，犯了画个红叉叉。。。
RE
这个LG不仅仅是没准备好当爸爸的问题,连LP都不知道怎么去爱
楼主mm，你今天都发了5次同样的帖子了。。。。
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2. what to do if lg is not ready to be a father yet
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3. what to do if lg is not ready to be a father yet
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4. 老公没准备好当爸爸咋办?
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5. 老公没准备好当爸爸咋办?
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我把你其他都锁了，咱们集中在一个帖子里提问题，回答问题，好不好？谢谢