second opinion. Find a good specialist to make sure it is crystal clear what the problem the fetus might have. My baby measured thick as well. Also had several other marks like bright spots on heart scan, and short leg bone. But I was told for Asians it is not uncommon to see those marks. Our baby was born healthy and happy. Not a representative case but do check out with the best specialist you can find before you rush to something.
second opinion. Find a good specialist to make sure it is crystal clear what the problem the fetus might have. My baby measured thick as well. Also had several other marks like bright spots on heart scan, and short leg bone. But I was told for Asians it is not uncommon to see those marks. Our baby was born healthy and happy. Not a representative case but do check out with the best specialist you can find before you rush to something.
re.the doctor could be wrong
不过,如果是我,可能会理性选择(没当过妈的)。当过妈的来提提意见。
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http://www.babycenter.com/400_thick-nuchal-fold-in-2nd-trimester-screening_1985766_975.bc
BTW,有什么家族遗传病史么?象MIT那位大侠说的Noonan Syndrome就是一种遗传病。这个要和家里的老人们问清楚。剩下的就是做抉择了,take a risk or not.
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BLESS,还是再找个医生看吧,我朋友的朋友,当时做羊穿后,医生很确定的说孩子有问题,生下来是弱智,朋友的朋友最后还是决定生下来,不管是什么样的,她也养他一辈子。结果,生下来是个非常正常的小男孩,真是庆幸啊,当初没有听医生的,不然一个小生命就这么没了。
怎么会有这种事情啊?!无语了
现在的问题是,当爸的已经倾向不留了, 如果楼主坚持, 就算孩子是正常的, 也要到生了才知道,后面这几个月怎么熬?万一孩子有问题, 估计家就散了。
我觉得出现这种情况需要选择的话,当爸的都会选择拿掉。毕竟孩子是在妈妈肚子里,身体上的痛苦也是妈妈承受的。只有当妈的才割舍不下啊!bless lz!
我们家国内邻居也是这样,当时医生说生出来一定有问题,但是邻居当时年纪大了,想说就这个小孩算了,好坏都是她了!!打算好有问题,结果生出来个小美女,没啥问题!
不过lz还是要多听听医生的意见!毕竟这里不是很多医生会建议中止怀孕的,一定是出了问题!
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看了这个还有之前那个羊穿有问题然后生下来没问题的宝宝真的觉得是不是有很多被迫拿掉的宝宝其实都是正常宝宝呢?好难过啊!
祝福
我老板43岁的时候怀了第二个,医生诊断说有问题的孩子,而且说都不想做她的接生医生,结果她还是坚决要生,,说take risk,认了,结果生下来还正常,所以建议在决定前先确诊
以后还有机会啊,生个健康的宝宝多好!~~
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