I''m really sorry you''re in this difficult situation—it sounds overwhelming. But there are options and support systems that can help you manage while you''re recovering. Here’s a breakdown based on your needs:
🛒 Grocery Shopping OptionsOnline Grocery Delivery Services:Instacart, Amazon Fresh, Walmart Grocery: You can order online and have groceries delivered to your door. Some stores accept EBT/SNAP benefits online—check if you''re eligible. Local Charities or Churches: Many offer food pantry delivery for people who are injured or homebound. Try local community centers or United Way (call 211) to connect with services near you. Neighbors, Friends, or School Community: Don’t hesitate to ask for help—often people want to help but don’t know you need it until you ask. School parent groups or neighborhood apps like Nextdoor might be helpful for finding volunteers. Meal Programs: Some areas have services like Meals on Wheels, even for families with short-term disability or injury. 🤒 If Your Kids Get SickTelehealth Services: Use your family doctor’s virtual appointment options or platforms like Teladoc, Amwell, or your insurance provider’s telehealth service. Many issues (fever, rashes, mild infections) can be diagnosed virtually. Urgent Care with Transportation Help: Some cities have urgent care centers that offer transportation—check local options. Contact non-emergency medical transport services or your Medicaid provider (if applicable); many plans include ride services. School or Local Public Health Clinics: School nurses may offer initial assessments or refer you to low-cost clinics. Community health centers may offer sliding scale or walk-in appointments. 🚗 Getting to the Doctor or PharmacyRideshare with Assistance: Apps like Uber Health or Lyft Concierge can schedule rides for non-drivers—sometimes covered by insurance. If you’re on Medicaid, check if you qualify for free non-emergency transportation.Community Volunteer Drivers: Many communities offer free or low-cost rides to medical appointments for people with temporary disabilities. Try calling 211 or your local Area Agency on Aging (they sometimes help all ages in crisis). 💡 Extra Help Short-Term Home Aid: If your injury is severe, you might qualify for in-home help through Medicaid, social services, or temporary disability support. Disability Leave/Assistance: If you work, check if you''re eligible for short-term disability insurance or FMLA.
新冠后遗症都是有人有基础病不知道或免疫力低下，我是前者，工作2月申请short term diability被拒，现在没产出就没工作，没保险看病，不知该多吃饭还是少吃，血糖高内分泌让控制，营养师让多吃，吃饭恶心，不知该运动还是不运动，骨质疏松要抗阻，但好像影响腰椎，股骨头，补了钙片，但24小时尿钙高，会肾结石，内分泌让停，免疫科医生让补，我也快没力气看医生了，帐单一摞高，老人，孩子也身体不好，一直给他们看病，就是走不下去了
买人寿保险。 提前找监护人。 。。。。。。
不过我觉得你死不了。我见过好多说什么新冠后遗症的，各种症状层出不穷，没一个死的。
你是不是之前发过帖子，好象身体没什么大问题，就是很焦虑的感觉。
得亲爹对孩子好才行啊。
谁不能自理， 好久没洗澡？站不稳，可以拿板凳坐着洗澡。 联系你所在地方的社工吧，可以派人上门辅助你ADL。 你家孩子不上学吗？为什么说语言不通？？？ 你的故事，很多地方都说不通。
出门买菜其实可以看看邻居amazon fresh/kroger/walmart delivery这些。 孩子也稍微懂点事吧。。。妈妈病了，不能去一个party哭什么哭？真要妈妈死了还是怎么回事？ 可以跟孩子交代一下你的实际情况，不要一个人死撑吧？ adversities build character...你也顺便看看你孩子到底是个啥材料。 熊孩子的话，你停了活动就更不要自责了好吧？ 好孩子，那就一件件事情慢慢解决，一起度过难关。。。
看得心痛。希望你好起来。
可以买这个穿
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还有就是。。。附近的小区邻居，朋友，你所在的其他 community比如教堂啊，学校啊什么的都问问。。。 社工，如果指的是CPS。。。那确实不靠谱。 你也可以问问chatgpt？
🛒 Grocery Shopping Options Online Grocery Delivery Services: Instacart, Amazon Fresh, Walmart Grocery: You can order online and have groceries delivered to your door. Some stores accept EBT/SNAP benefits online—check if you''re eligible. Local Charities or Churches: Many offer food pantry delivery for people who are injured or homebound. Try local community centers or United Way (call 211) to connect with services near you. Neighbors, Friends, or School Community: Don’t hesitate to ask for help—often people want to help but don’t know you need it until you ask. School parent groups or neighborhood apps like Nextdoor might be helpful for finding volunteers. Meal Programs: Some areas have services like Meals on Wheels, even for families with short-term disability or injury. 🤒 If Your Kids Get Sick Telehealth Services: Use your family doctor’s virtual appointment options or platforms like Teladoc, Amwell, or your insurance provider’s telehealth service. Many issues (fever, rashes, mild infections) can be diagnosed virtually. Urgent Care with Transportation Help: Some cities have urgent care centers that offer transportation—check local options. Contact non-emergency medical transport services or your Medicaid provider (if applicable); many plans include ride services. School or Local Public Health Clinics: School nurses may offer initial assessments or refer you to low-cost clinics. Community health centers may offer sliding scale or walk-in appointments. 🚗 Getting to the Doctor or Pharmacy Rideshare with Assistance: Apps like Uber Health or Lyft Concierge can schedule rides for non-drivers—sometimes covered by insurance. If you’re on Medicaid, check if you qualify for free non-emergency transportation. Community Volunteer Drivers: Many communities offer free or low-cost rides to medical appointments for people with temporary disabilities. Try calling 211 or your local Area Agency on Aging (they sometimes help all ages in crisis). 💡 Extra Help Short-Term Home Aid: If your injury is severe, you might qualify for in-home help through Medicaid, social services, or temporary disability support. Disability Leave/Assistance: If you work, check if you''re eligible for short-term disability insurance or FMLA.
找找附近的教会帮忙啊，教会的兄弟姐妹很多热心肠的，帮忙轮流送饭，接送孩子。妹妹，为了孩子，为母则刚，精神不能垮，身体慢慢修养恢复。一定会好起来的。
亲爹去世了？孩子多大了？这是不要申请政府领养了？
不要太焦虑孩子和老人的事情， 让家里的气氛轻松愉快一些， 当然该做的安排还是要做， 老人福利申请起来， 我知道很多人的父母从国内来， 申请到了政府的养老房， 就是要等待。孩子也慢慢让她了解一些独立需要的知识， 比如说告诉她家里钱在哪里， 万一出了事找谁， 找找当地的朋友， 华人教会， 公司同事， 银行账户股票401k都把beneficiary写好， 孩子大了社会福利机构也不大会收走（你再坚持几年， 到了15，6岁人家就不要了：）不能开车也没关系， 现在uber lyft很方便。
然后自己好好照顾自己， 关键心情要放轻松， 说实话， 老天爷的安排， 咱么焦虑也没有用， 自己稍微锻炼一下， 锻炼可以改善人的情绪， 该吃吃该喝喝。
一定有组织可以照顾你们的，只是不知道你们在哪里，不明白为什么你公司不让你申请short term disability，给的是什么理由？还有一般是需要医生开证明的，对了，你的这种求助也可以问问医生，他们知道的比我们多一些的，你问过吗？
看下来是在华人小公司上班吧，“没有产出就没有保险”，计件打临工的？这种小时工不做也罢，不做了说不定还能申请到政府免费医疗Medicaid, 你咨询一下。