there are always different view of the same story depending on who you listen to.
But you have basic right to decide who you want to live with and who you do not want to live with. It is good you have courage to prove you have right to decide who you want to live with and let that toxic people fuck off.
Just stick to it and get things done, it is easy to say than done. But it is the right time I think, since your kid decides to stay with you. Once you made the decision, don't go back. Things will get better and better, it is not late. Best luck to you
Ask the lawyer to make it happen to evict them !!!!!
When they stay in the house to ruin your life for so long, do they even have a second to feel sorry for you or showed any sympathy to you.
When it is time for them to make your life miserable, do you think they will hesitate for even a second that they might mess up your life because of their selfishness?
If you dont do it, it is unfair for you and it just allows asshole people not paying for their toxic behavior. Being old is not an excuse to ruin other people's life. God is fair for everyone, everyone got a few years to live, nobody has the right to live other people's life. It is NO FAIR
Who will compensate for all the time you lost, and all the suffer you went through. Some people you have to handle with cold heart, only way to go
是他们先不仁的,他们打你,联合起来欺负你时,可从来没有于心不忍啊
别冲动。美国法律很好,很正义,很厉害的。
+1, 关键是在理而不是看年龄。
But you have basic right to decide who you want to live with and who you do not want to live with. It is good you have courage to prove you have right to decide who you want to live with and let that toxic people fuck off.
Just stick to it and get things done, it is easy to say than done. But it is the right time I think, since your kid decides to stay with you. Once you made the decision, don't go back. Things will get better and better, it is not late. Best luck to you
正解。楼主一定要让他们知道你的立场。让律师写下来,你转给你老公,说你reserve your rights to do so if they continue disturbing your life. 这样主动权在你手上。以后上法庭或者协商的时候,你手上还有一张牌。
后面看到你要按照律师的建议做。百分百支持!已经铁了心了,就按照自己的利益最大化来。毕竟你自己的利益最大化就是你孩子的利益最大化。为了孩子,也要这样。
祝以后幸福
一般的老母不一定教唆,但是99%的婆婆喊着说跟她离~~~~一样刺激媳妇. 不住在一起就是唯一办法, 没别的办法..中国人这种非要住一起的习惯简直太不仁道了
anyway是过去式了。 离开这一家人会过的很好的
其实说离婚对孩子伤害大的,是跟美满和谐的家庭相比的。那些不离婚天天吵架打架的, 还不如离了呢, 大家可以和平过日子, 我小时候我父母吵架, 我都是劝他们离婚的, 离了清净。
When they stay in the house to ruin your life for so long, do they even have a second to feel sorry for you or showed any sympathy to you.
When it is time for them to make your life miserable, do you think they will hesitate for even a second that they might mess up your life because of their selfishness?
If you dont do it, it is unfair for you and it just allows asshole people not paying for their toxic behavior. Being old is not an excuse to ruin other people's life. God is fair for everyone, everyone got a few years to live, nobody has the right to live other people's life. It is NO FAIR
Who will compensate for all the time you lost, and all the suffer you went through. Some people you have to handle with cold heart, only way to go
lz mm 千万别心软,不管此男将来如何哀求不要再上当,离开这样的一家人,你将来和孩子一定会越过越好!!!
对对,一定要有筹码。我一同事就告诉过我,没经历过离婚根本不会想到跟自己婚了那么多年的男有会有多渣!千万别高估了男人的人品底线!
坏人有报应是他们自己应得的,不要有任何罪恶感和不忍心,他们欺负别人的时候可没有一丁点不忍心?!
有没有可能把以前的家暴报警,这样孩子就不要分给猥琐男周末的时间。猥琐男也需要交抚养费。
猥琐男可能也爱孩子那么一点,但公婆一定会给孩子不停的洗脑。为了孩子的心理健康,远离猥琐男一家。
妹妹记住人善被人欺,该你的利益一定要全力争取,让恶人也知道恶是有代价的。
也没忍20年吧 2013年楼主还想生老二呢
嫁华男,必须看清父母良善
你可以不那么做,但是当时吓唬吓唬他还是可以的。当时可以马上拍照取证,然后出门说找医生检查留证据。至少在以后争取财产上,主动权大一些,他要不让步就告他家暴让他坐牢
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家暴没有任何商量,祝以后都好,会好起来的
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re,有些人的可怕之处在于,他们不知道自己不知道。。。
管他们认不认错,楼主一定要多分财产出口气,还有把他们一家的为人公布于众,这样没有女的再进他们家门。
恭喜mm获得新生 你和女儿都值得更好的日子
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公婆绝对不会觉的他们有错,也是觉得他们任劳任怨的帮这个小家。
楼主,坚强点,祝福。 ---发自Huaren 官方 iOS APP
别出馊主意了。要做就做,不做就不做,别吓唬人又不做,等着被他老公分尸啊
还债还完了,楼主再这样生活下去精神会出大问题。
请前面引用的同学,自觉删掉。
谢谢!
既然无法和平分手,那就要争取该有的,就是你退让对方也不会领情。
让你的暴力ex和他愚蠢的家人自己过吧,阳光总在风雨后。
曾经接触过类似的家暴家庭,女儿才十岁也支持妈妈离婚带孩子走,母亲懦弱没离婚,最后女儿在这种暴力环境下性格大变,抑郁到年纪轻轻就走了。
楼主12年就对婚姻无望,已经决意离婚了,你这么做就是害死人不偿命。楼主真的回去,只能是让对方有了缓息之机制定防范转移财产,而且真的再有冲突对方父母对楼主下了黑手怎么办?常熟婆婆杀死媳妇最后怎么样?还不就是白死。
而且养老院你以为说住就能住的么?先不说排队要多几年,就算是费用也是不菲。我们这里附近养老院押金一个米,月租5000。更别提男方连女儿在家洗个澡都嫌贵的抠门!
strongly re,家暴环境下长大的孩子都有心里创伤。