zt: Four Surprising Ways to Get a Better Night’s Sleep

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fuz
楼主 (文学城)

https://greatergood.berkeley.edu/article/item/four_surprising_ways_to_get_a_better_nights_sleep

 

Mindfulness meditation

A recent analysis of several high-quality studies (randomized controlled trials) concluded that mindfulness meditation programs help people fall asleep more easily and experience better-quality sleep overall.

 

Self-compassion

Self-compassion is something all of us could use right now, especially as lockdowns drag on and we find ourselves feeling more tired, unhappy, and unproductive than usual. Getting down on ourselves for perceived mistakes and flaws could exacerbate low-grade depression, which many of us already feel.

 

Gratitude

Feeling grateful is a good way to feel happier and strengthen our relationships. Now, it appears to help with sleep, too.

 

Forgiveness

For some people, forgiving others is hard—especially if you equate forgiveness with letting someone “off the hook” and condoning their harmful actions. But those who study forgiveness consider it to be not necessarily about healing relationships between people, but mostly important for ourselves, helping us to let go of grudges that decrease our personal well-being.

 

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lawattaction
Self- compassion 那段,大哥是怎么理解的?
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street0120003
FUZ 改行当?Self-compassion-自我同情

例如:“我要对自己好一点”,而不是“我有耐心,对孩子们理解妈妈”; 或者。 “我将以对待我最好的朋友的方式来对待自己”,而不是“我的身体以这种方式令人惊奇,并且我以这种方式接受自己。”

4种提高自我同情心的方法:


1.舒缓身体。 吃一些健康的东西。...
2. 给自己写一封信。 想一想一种使您感到痛苦的情况(与情人分手,失业,演讲不佳)。...
3. 给自己鼓励。...
4. 练习自我意思。

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fuz
觉得自我调整心态很重要
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fuz
善待自己,take it easy, 别整“吾日三省”之类的,要有自我充实、满足感。别总“中流击水”,其实“随波逐流”也是种生活
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lawattaction
好像明白了,就是对自己好一点,往自己身上多花点钱。
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lawattaction
谢谢!善待自己,take it easy 好理解。你后面的话,我还是不太懂。
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street0120003
对,我认为就这个意思
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fuz
中国旧文人(现代精英)多严于律已,以求道德完美、精神无暇、为人楷模。故“日三身吾身”,时刻不放松,活得太累。
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kingfish2010
大哥让你别太争强好胜, 混混日子, relax。。。 共勉
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lawattaction
谢谢!终于明白了!我一直在混日子,too relax!