Lying on the trampoline in the backyard, watch the blue sky over me. It's so peaceful, even the noises from the cars driving by can't disturb this peaceful feeling.
A vulture is circling around. Maybe she is searching for food. She is so graceful even when she is hungry. Two small birds fly back and forth chasing each other. Are they playing the “Tag, you're it” game or are they mad at each other? Crows are noisy. They never worry about how other creatures would think of them. They voice their emotions loudly and freely. Today, even their croaking does not bother me.
I'm in a good mood and feeling groovy.
What is happiness? At this moment, I feel happy.
Happiness I think is not about what you have or you have what you deserve to have. It’s a state when you don't have much desire and when you are in harmony with the environment. Those wants could make us unhappy. We are often told we deserve to have this and that, and we keep yearning for things we believe we deserve. We go after those things without knowing what really makes us happy. We don't really need much to be happy. What we need first and foremost is the willingness to be happy.
I'll consider that I have a happy day if I have some happy moments on that day.
我没見過。
不幸和自認不幸的人却見到很多。
我説幸福或许是有的。
吾說没有。
吾喪我。
或者,世上有幸運的人,没有幸福的人。
或者,幸福衹是一種傳說、
一個民间故事約定俗成的結尾:從此過上了幸福的生活 . . .
昨夜,孔丘入我夢。子曰:中庸可為也,幸福不可能也。
幸福 is impossible 。
是了,才想起幸福英语怎麽說我都不知道。
有誰見過幸福的人?
請告訴我 . . .
这是我十分感兴趣的 topic,
说得出来的, 都不是幸福. 其实就是这么简单.
我从不问别人 "你幸福吗?"
每个人对幸福的定义不同.
此刻的我,是幸福的
The wisdom is, not to seek 幸福 . It is elusive at best.
Not to try to hold it either.
或者在少阴老阴少阳老阳的循环中,只在少阳阶段发生。
喜欢window shopping的Ladies,大概是找hap。kids 容易happy。不喜欢有任何hap的中年男,脾气就会很大。
前半生用加法,努力努力再努力;后半生用减法,看淡那些虽然努力却没有得到的东西(大多不重要),珍惜和感恩所得到的身边的所有。没有任何东西是应该有的,有随手可得的东西,别人可能一辈子不会拥有。画了个圆,即使它不是个正圆,椭圆、扁圆也是圆。感恩包括感恩自己。圆满的感觉就会慢慢盈满心窝。
Willingness to BE Happy
Lying on the trampoline in the backyard, watch the blue sky over me. It's so peaceful, even the noises from the cars driving by can't disturb this peaceful feeling.
A vulture is circling around. Maybe she is searching for food. She is so graceful even when she is hungry. Two small birds fly back and forth chasing each other. Are they playing the “Tag, you're it” game or are they mad at each other? Crows are noisy. They never worry about how other creatures would think of them. They voice their emotions loudly and freely. Today, even their croaking does not bother me.
I'm in a good mood and feeling groovy.
What is happiness? At this moment, I feel happy.
Happiness I think is not about what you have or you have what you deserve to have. It’s a state when you don't have much desire and when you are in harmony with the environment. Those wants could make us unhappy. We are often told we deserve to have this and that, and we keep yearning for things we believe we deserve. We go after those things without knowing what really makes us happy. We don't really need much to be happy. What we need first and foremost is the willingness to be happy.
I'll consider that I have a happy day if I have some happy moments on that day.
Translated by Google (With some editing):
躺在后院的蹦蹦床上,看着头顶上的蓝天。 好安静,就连汽车驶过的噪音也无法打扰这种宁静的感觉。
一只秃鹰在周围盘旋。也许她正在寻找食物。即使她很饿,她还是那么优雅。两只小鸟互相追逐飞来飞去。它们是在玩“标签,你就是它”的游戏还是在生对方的气?乌鸦很吵闹。它们从不担心其他生物会如何看待它们。它们大声而自由地表达自己的情绪。今天,即使是它们的呱呱叫也没有让我觉得烦。
我心情很好,感觉很棒。
什么是幸福?这一刻,我感到幸福。
我认为幸福不在于你拥有什么,也不在于你拥有你应得的。幸福是一种没有太多欲望、与环境和谐相处的状态。那些欲望可能会让我们不快乐。我们不断地被灌输,我们值得拥有这个、那个,而我们一直渴望得到认为自己值得的东西。我们追求这些东西却不知道什么真正能让自己快乐。我们其实并不需要太多就能快乐。最重要的是我们需要有想要快乐的意愿。
如果一天中有一些快乐的时刻,我就会认为我度过了快乐的一天。:)
绝对的幸福。
如果这样定义后,可以说我见过这样的人。让我感慨这些人类似太阳,不是电灯。差别何在,一般电灯依赖条件才能亮或暗,都可能被人turn down。但我见过那种永远不会被人或环境turn down/ turn off的人。类似太阳,无论地球发生什么,她总是发光,不会被人turn down。
当然,这是我的理解,以及我对对方的信。