这娃这么优秀都没进好学校

一年好时节
楼主 (文学城)

this admissions process has made me feel like absolute trash, has caused me to absolutely break down, and I seriously contemplate about life. I had straight As, took 22 advanced/AP classes throughout high school, had won state/national awards, interned at UT Austin for two years to do research, leadership positions in all clubs, had a 1560 SAT (with 800 in math), had great recommendations from my teachers (they showed me and they said I was one of the best students in their careers) and a UT Austin biology researcher (who used words like “exceptional” to describe me), and great essays talking about my passion for scientific research (I reviewed all my essays with my English teachers, parents, and they said they were exemplary). Although I had some health issues junior year that caused my GPA to slip a bit to A- average, I explained that in my app and in my first semester of senior year, my grades increased back to normal with a 96 average and I explained that it is not an issue anymore (I am in top 7% of class in a school that’s top 3% in the whole USA). I sacrificed so much social time and free time for school throughout the years. And yet I was STILL capped (basically rejected) by UT Austin, rejected from JHU/UCLA, waitlisted from UC Santa Barbara, and just now rejected from USC (my dream school). I didn't think that having worked so hard for 4 years, I would get nothing in return (these colleges aren't like Harvard-level). Ever since I was in elementary school, I had dreamed of being at a prestigious university. They say it gets better. They said it after the UT rejection. They said it after the JHU rejection. I was hopeful, and I wanted to believe them. I remained optimistic. But clearly it has never gotten better, it has in fact gotten worse every time. Several people with less extracurriculars and lower grades than me got into UT Austin (I am not saying they don’t deserve it, they are smart and absolutely do, I just wanted to show more context behind this). I was so hopeful that I would get several acceptances, considering the profile of students who have gotten into those schools, but to my horror, it has not happened. I do have Rice University, Ivy League schools, and Stanford yet to hear back from but obviously given this context I feel absolutely hopeless from how colleges have been responding. I feel treated like crap and the effort that I have put into all of this is all worthless in the end. I am just going to get rejection after rejection in life and nothing good in response to my hard work thru years. The only colleges I have gotten accepted to are my safety school and University of Washington. I really really want to go to the University of Washington (they gave me some scholarships), but it is still expensive as an out of state student from Texas, and I am doing my best to try to find scholarships, but I will never give up. UW is one of my dream schools. It is such a great school for my field and I would do anything to go there, but if I don't find enough money I may have to wind up going to the safety school, which I don’t like honestly. Never in a million years have I thought this would be the result after so much hard work (same result I could have gotten if I would have just done no extracurriculars and only had just average grades). I feel absolutely betrayed, ashamed, and cheated by life and colleges, and I feel hopeless that any good things will come in my life in college. I feel like everything is just for nothing. I hate this.

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STEMkid
美国公校课程太水,那么多全A,大学录取也没办法。top7%不够上UT A
人言可畏
让一直努力上进的学生心生恨意实在是录取制度的失败。
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borisg
this is actually a good experience for this kid.
成功的G
文革的时候学校好学生送到农村修理地球,大老粗被推荐上大学。异曲同工。美国文革进行时
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fakegreen
报没报NW?
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madapple
说什么好呢?能感到这孩子心中的怨和怒. 这种情况会越来越多,各行各业. 孩子不够优秀亦或评审假冒专家?各有各的说法. 几家欢喜几
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madapple
几家忧.还是希望孩子能多点兴趣点,能失之东隅 收之桑榆.
大西洋里来的人
每年这样的venting都有很多。能看开了,move on就行
节度使
别急,好的还在后面
追求平凡
确实有很多亮点。或有明显的短板吧。另外,如果UT researcher 是他家的朋友,他是怎么知道老师写的推荐信的内容?

“… had great recommendations from my teachers (they showed me and they said I was one of the best students in their careers) and a UT Austin biology researcher (who used words like “exceptional” to describe me), and great essays talking about my passion for scientific research…”

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fish100
9,10年级都是A,加上 11年级只在前7 %,说话11年级的成绩很差
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yzhl888
是那小韩吗?人家不水啊,22门ap,一堆5分啊。感觉是割喉高中。这两年割喉高中的娃被打击啊。
追求平凡
感觉一美家的娃比主帖里的娃强很多。另外,榜还没发完呢。好消息或在路上。预祝所有申学娃成功!
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yzhl888
一年一年排的,感觉是割喉高中,孩子应该不差。割喉本来就是牛娃一堆,没啥比了就军备竞赛ap课。学业很重的
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gossipgirl8
可怜的孩子,州立大学不收这种学生很不合理。尤其德州的同学们真的应该诉告大学。

不过这孩子看着像个亚裔孩子,让人心疼,高中一直为了进入名校拼搏奋进。

孩子通篇并没讲到为何想入名校,想学什么。。。

希望孩子经历这道坎,能明白人生一些道理并从中成长。

这么一看我们熊孩子家长也没啥好抱怨了。高中头两年吊儿郎当,现在一点点进步都能让人欣喜。

哎,都是perspectives。

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yzhl888
这娃去个普高100%进ut了。ut的破规矩每年拒一堆割喉高中的好孩子去外州读书。都是把自己洲的聪明脑袋拒掉了。
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FollowNature
这个学生比俺的孩子优秀,俺家的被UCLA录取了,或许他的学校其他学生也很好,都报了同样的学校。
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gossipgirl8
和你们州长抱怨我觉得有用啊。LOL 即使割喉高中,这孩子gpa也是很好吧。拿个A-就不行了不可能吧。

德州其他几个州立比Austin差很多吗?

估计州内上一年再转是很容易的事情吧。

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yzhl888
疫情前割喉高中起码15%可以进ut的。但现在搞多元化后,割喉高中的录取差了很多。
人言可畏
就是,公立高中是公立大学的主要生源,学习好的孩子被本州大拒情理不通。
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gossipgirl8
希望孩子家长能懂这个道理。我觉得这种情况州内转学会很容易。后面录取也可能有很好的消息。家长多鼓励孩子不要泄气。
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Numero
可能好的还在后头。从他写的东西感觉到可能essays写的不够好,比如他说的:

I sacrificed so much social time and free time for school throughout the years.

。。。

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yzhl888
去年和今年德州割喉高中娃实惨。我真搞不懂当时办这些选出来的公立高中意义在哪里?是集中起来淘汰吗?nnd
人言可畏
笑死我了:集中起来淘汰,又是名言警句。
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yzhl888
如果选计算机专业年级3%就肯定被cap 了。去年朋友的孩子就是这样去gt了
人言可畏
这句可能只出现在这篇venting文章,申学没写。
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Numero
也是,被气得。非要鸡蛋里挑骨头,他做这些事的时候

貌似不是自己真正有兴趣特别愿意投入的 ,是一种不得已

 

人言可畏
确实娃无完娃,但人家娃也没要求UT象T 5。
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Numero
呵呵呵
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Lucky2022
他好像MIT 是WL, 实力还是被认可的

Reject 的学校可能认为他不是学校喜欢的类型,录了可能不去而影响yield。另外他曾有心理问题怕以后会复发,康或M 会有担心。

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randomness
Top 7%. 说明成绩还是低了点。UT 好专业比较难进。他看不上A&M吗?都没申请?

外州申请的学校多吗?申一堆ivy 的确定位有点不准。大公立7%的话,前面得有好几十个比他更强的。

成功的G
这是为取消特殊高中埋下伏笔。
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randomness
他进了,CAPed 而已。他要是申请普通专业就录进专业了
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yzhl888
很多牛娃看不上农工的,农工也相对土,外加排名不够高。不过这两年因为aa, 农工的生源高不少,割喉大部队去农工了。
放羊
UT这两年申请是有些难

7%应该可以录取但是专业可能不好,或是发配去其他分校。申请A&M应该没问题。

话说我们被T5录的也被UT的专业剧了,还不是CS。

州大傲娇的很呢

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randomness
人人想UT CS 那还能怎么办呢?这孩子7%,就本高中排他前面的就50个不止吧
放羊
现在UT CS 据说是要rank 前10,而不是2% 了
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yzhl888
如果这样的录取模式还是取消吧,真别害孩子了,那么苦逼学那么多ap,结果还是被拒的可能更大
无言无语无声
Heartbroken 这也太不公了。人说了同学比他各方面差得多都取了所以7% 不是理由。
无言无语无声
有几个真心拯救地球的啊。不公平正是学校乱猜人家动机,随便扣一个太从众。
凤姐虎弟
没人觉得是假的?

怀疑AO卧底。啥问题都包括了。Hard working, rejection, money. 大学怕共愤吧。安慰贴。

眼花的童鞋,这娃是德州的,昨天小韩是弯曲的。

胖胖爸
就是想做网红罢了 他说的可能夸张 但德州最好的公高7% 一般是前50名 没突出的ec

是去不了ut cs和商学院这些热门的 说普高更有利是胡扯 普通公高前几名没有突出ec都进不去 如果你比较他的成绩和进去的亚裔中产家庭男生 就会看到没什么不公平的

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oops_yz
这样成绩才7%,这学校太水
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Rockeymountain
哎, 同质孩子太多。同意燕子换个普通学校可能大不一样。

今年普高结果很不错。

胖胖爸
不是一个pool没法比
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k宝妈妈
你说反了吧,明明这个娃stat强多了。一美家除了学校成绩还行以外就没亮点了
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trivial
如果是CS这样大热专业,确实不够。我们高中6% 以外能进UT的,都是比较冷门的专业
恒妈
赞UW, 对小亚很友好
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yzhl888
两年课题研究,哪里是没有ec?
追求平凡
一美家纽约第一高中Top之一。方方面面都强。这个才7%,还不知道是什么level的高中。
一天到晚想吃鱼
safety school is TAMU?
家有好宝-夏静子
确实如此!心疼孩子们。