My son is really closed to me and his mother. However, he is having an indian girlfriend. While we parents surely prefer to having a daugther-inlaw from east asian, I do not think we can do too much on his choice. He knows our preference; no way for us to say no to him. He has his own choice.
usually tell. For the upper class, most of them I know have much better communication skill than most of us from China. Some of the kids I know are very charming, very well educated; not sure if too many families from China can do so.
虽然我是华人,也为作为华人对中国传统文化有骄傲的一部分。
但是我觉得因为中国人大部分都是无神论,有时候没有太多的道德约束,所以国人里出轨和离婚的例子不少。
国内出轨离婚的很多,国外也这样。
而纵观印度人,甚至印二代,离婚的还是少,虽然他们很多也可能是相亲式结婚,自由恋爱比例少。但是不知道为何他们婚姻还是比较牢靠。
我不知道是不是跟他们本身的文化和信仰有关。
但是出轨少,离婚少这样的业绩,我们作为家长难道不应该看重吗?
小中男,如果找个不靠谱的白女,很多情况下白女出轨的很多啊。
一旦结婚,他再也不会爱上别的女人。印度教的男人就是这么忠贞。
一定要嫁高种性印度人。他们才是社会精英,上层。严格的印度教徒。
印度下层有妓女种性,淘粪工种性,烧尸人种性,你们外国人看不懂的。
要嫁的印度人,要皮白,素食比较正宗。
你说的感觉,到底是作为美国人的感觉,还是作为华人的感觉呢?
My son is really closed to me and his mother. However, he is having an indian girlfriend. While we parents surely prefer to having a daugther-inlaw from east asian, I do not think we can do too much on his choice. He knows our preference; no way for us to say no to him. He has his own choice.
当然婚姻不幸福的,等空巢了,如果恋爱没谈够,也可以在老人院继续谈恋爱,几个老太太追抢一个糟老头子。哈哈
种姓高的一般家教好些。很多到国外的出身低下阶层,唯利是图没什么底线。我那EX当年在中国读书时两人一房间,另一印度女孩就偷她的钱。
usually tell. For the upper class, most of them I know have much better communication skill than most of us from China. Some of the kids I know are very charming, very well educated; not sure if too many families from China can do so.
我在美国读研的四年里,一开始都是华人roommate。
大部分都还不错,但是最后一个就特讨厌。看着很小鸟依人的四川女孩,我因为半个四川人,对她就没有了防备心。
一开始搬过来说一个人。结果她结婚了,说她老公探亲,结果她老公跟她在我这里一住大半年。后来我给她下,如果她老公不走,我就搬走。她很不情愿,幸亏她老公申请了其他洲的大学,这才走了。本来以为我们相安无事。
后来我跟LD谈恋爱,经常不在宿舍呆。后来就发现我们的很多新买的衣服,穿了一次,还没有来得及洗,就不见了。
后来跟这个室友关系弄僵。一次我特意取证她是否偷我东西或是钱。
我把20快钱明晃晃放我书桌上,去实验室20分钟。后来那20块钱就不见了。气得我,赶紧搬走一个人住了
男的也是私立学校,考精英大学。都是高学历。会说高级英语,举止也文雅,你问印度人,他们看得懂。
跟美国人没啥区别,当时我家爬梯,他的手机不断,好像挺受欢迎,而且当时爬梯他还带了一个挺漂亮的白人美眉来我们家吃火锅。
断他们是低种姓吗?我的眼科医生是是很英俊儒雅的印度人。能凭他的风度判断他是高种姓吗?印度人再白也是棕色的。反倒是墨西哥人里有很白的。
还有锡克族。高大漂亮、皮肤也比一般印度人白。
小年轻搞了后,忍不住跟一两个同事说。