When you separate your "self" from the rest of the world,
you'll envy less. Jealousy stems from a weak boundary between the "self" and the outside world. The "self" is either too feeble or too permeating, i.e., there's no clear separation.
In Genesis, Adam and Eve became self-aware. Then they could no longer stay in the Garden of Eden. No sensible adults fantacise of Garden of Eden. Self-awareness is a measurement of maturity.
It can also be a reflex, conditioned in childhood by circumstances that are long gone. How much do you want your past experience, which has no relevance today, dictate your presence?
Or, do feel it, but do not dwell on it. Feelings are a liability. Engage your cerebral faculty as quickly as you can, unless you want to distract yourself to abandon your responsiblity to yourself.
我真心想改嫉妒心
我真心想改
你小的时候父母对你的期待值太高了？因为他们本身也很优秀？
有挫败感
To start up employee
这个不是她自己的，是VC 的idea 而建立的studio。实际上是VC的。她的任务是作为CEO如何带这个studio 得到下一轮融资，走出孵化阶段
她有一个她自己的，目前还没有曙光：）
嫉妒一般是别人有的自己没有的，但一想还有自己有的别人没有的，那不就扯平了。
或者自己虽然没有，但自己的朋友或亲人有，孩子有，那也只有为他们高兴，而不是嫉妒。
一旦嫉妒，我就不是我了，还有可能失去我自己的东西，所以也就不愿去嫉妒了。
不过如果孵化成功，她就是名副其实的CEO, owns 30% of the startup
都是她自己搞定。我是在她读MBA后才进入她的世界
我唯一做得好的，就是舍得出钱， 不计较成功失败
当妈妈的嫉妒人家有女儿自己没有。还第一次听到当爸爸的也嫉妒人家有女儿。
你为啥还没躺平，不会嫉妒得又要去g面试了吧lol
you'll envy less. Jealousy stems from a weak boundary between the "self" and the outside world. The "self" is either too feeble or too permeating, i.e., there's no clear separation.
In Genesis, Adam and Eve became self-aware. Then they could no longer stay in the Garden of Eden. No sensible adults fantacise of Garden of Eden. Self-awareness is a measurement of maturity.
It can also be a reflex, conditioned in childhood by circumstances that are long gone. How much do you want your past experience, which has no relevance today, dictate your presence?
Or, do feel it, but do not dwell on it. Feelings are a liability. Engage your cerebral faculty as quickly as you can, unless you want to distract yourself to abandon your responsiblity to yourself.