I sent the math class change request right after received his schedule. He took the Algebra 2 regents exam on time and got a score which shows his true level. You said he would be placed at a math class based on his test score. Based on his score, he should be placed at Precal Honors during the summer if everything went right as it should be. I have sent many emails during the Summer to all the staff who were responsible for class change request just to make sure everyone there was doing their job to place my son to the right class at the first day of school.
You told me he should be assigned to the right class at the first day of school. But he was still assigned to his initial class as for now.
Please, please help him. Nothing is impossible. We are not breaking any rules or policies here. I know a class assignment will be directly affecting his GPA.
As a parent, I have done my best to help my son who is deserved to be placed at a right class at this point. If his other class schedules have to be changed in case PreCal Honors is assigned him, please let me know and we can discuss that. He likes math since he was very little. A regular math class will definitely not meet his needs since it will be taught using a different material from Honors class and progressing very slow not say he might have known most of topics already.
数学要是现在在honors几何课，对将来升学有影响吗？
儿子按学校规定开学前考到precal honors. 但因为我一封不太友好的email，激怒了副校长。本来他同意给儿子分到precal honors，现在恐怕要呆在Geometry honors。
现在非常难过。
怎么融洽同子女的关系?
·不要监控孩子的电话，尊重其隐私权。
·对孩子的朋友要和蔼可亲，但不要同他们过于亲近。不要侵入他（她）的天地。
·不要在他人面前夸奖孩子，这样会使其尴尬。
·不要在他人面前批评或斥责孩子。如果必须要这样做的话，应该在无人的时候。
·母亲在他人面前要注意服饰。母亲的形象不整洁，孩子会感到羞耻。
·如果你的孩子参加学校的演出，他（她）在舞台上时你不要打手势，这样会令他（她）紧张，甚至出错。
·孩子和你一起坐自己家的车出门时，不要把汽车收音机调到你所喜爱的频道。让孩子挑选电台，但可要求他调低音量。
·在子女需要帮助时要给予帮助，但要注意方法。
·子女在一定的阶段就像需要食品一样需要爱抚，但是爱抚要适可而止，不要在公开场合这样做，更不要在朋友面前这样做。
·不要让你的孩子在外人面前表现他的“本事”，如朗诵、唱歌、跳舞或弹钢琴。如果你为他的本领自豪并希望让人家看到，那就对他提出请求。如果父母坚持让他们在外人面前表现本领，有的孩子会感觉自己像马戏团的猴子。
·不要向他的朋友和亲属讲他的怪癖，尤其不要当他的面前。任何孩子都不愿意别人知道自己的隐私。
·不要让他失去对你的信赖。他向你透露的秘密，你不要告诉别人。你一定要完全尊重他的意愿。
·在他面前不要说谎。他看到自己的父母说谎或弄虚作假，就会感觉不好。例如，父母在某人背后说坏话，而当面又装出热情的样子，孩子就会反感。
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学校就是巴菲特去了也要弯腰哈着老师和校长。他们才是你娃的祖宗。
BTW，高中数学就那么几门课，都上得完滴。。。。。
最后升学当然没问题。只是数学不拔尖了。如果9年级 Precal，那是很拔尖的。我们学校都没有这样的选择。
本来想说横嫂T20，可一想这个记录紫檀还没人打破。降低一点目标。横嫂T10比较容易。
有时间学习其它东西
纽约公校和加州公校在学生，家长和学校老师校长的关系处理上有很大不同。我女儿在10年级的春假，我约了加州的两个女朋友带孩子一起去国外旅游她们的孩子都去的是名公校，她们对学校选什么课还什么几分的课都了如指掌，怎么能在开学前提前学到学校只拿分高的课，每天老师留什么作业，老师批作业给多少分？哪个同学考试中得多少分她们的手机群全部都有，而且随时代表孩子向老师提意见，天呐！真把我给震晕了整个假期时间就是谈孩子们的分数，补习班，这两个妈完全不相信她们说的这些我们都是女儿自己处理，完全不相信我没有班级家长群，我告诉她们我女儿的成绩都是老师发回来卷子和成绩单上看到的，我们高中根本不会让父母参与学校的教育参与老师的工作，她们根本不相信。纽约特殊高中还是重视人文，独立思考教育的比较多。我不知道你们之间发生了什么，只是突然想到会不会是这个原因。你孩子才9年级没是的明年还有机会争取。
Dear Mr. xxx
Thank you. I understand the situation.
I sent the math class change request right after received his schedule. He took the Algebra 2 regents exam on time and got a score which shows his true level. You said he would be placed at a math class based on his test score. Based on his score, he should be placed at Precal Honors during the summer if everything went right as it should be. I have sent many emails during the Summer to all the staff who were responsible for class change request just to make sure everyone there was doing their job to place my son to the right class at the first day of school.
You told me he should be assigned to the right class at the first day of school. But he was still assigned to his initial class as for now.
Please, please help him. Nothing is impossible. We are not breaking any rules or policies here. I know a class assignment will be directly affecting his GPA.
As a parent, I have done my best to help my son who is deserved to be placed at a right class at this point. If his other class schedules have to be changed in case PreCal Honors is assigned him, please let me know and we can discuss that. He likes math since he was very little. A regular math class will definitely not meet his needs since it will be taught using a different material from Honors class and progressing very slow not say he might have known most of topics already.
Thank you for your help!
Best regards,
xxx
其实绝大多数的美国私校里的中产及以下阶层人家的孩子都多少心态会受影响，不知道家长都怎么想的？
不接砖，因为家长冷暖自知。
前2天听到一个case,几乎跟你这个一模一样，但是幼升小，abc女校长竟然直接跟家长说不喜欢就转学
我觉得你的祸根可能从暑假就埋下了，为啥非得在一颗树上吊死啊...安慰一下
课程放低了，正好是easy A呀，孩子正好有时间做点别的。要显示数学水平，可以参加竞赛啊或者找大学老师做研究。对小中男光GPA高没优势。知道有孩子都参加国际奥物了，在学校也只能按部就班地学ap physics 2，人家把物理课当自习课用正好用来写作业，或者自学自己感兴趣的东西。