June 26, 2023by Christopher Chambers, Organizer I just wanted, first of all, to thank everyone for their heartwarming generosity. In the midst of this darkest of times for our family, your love and compassion have given us hope.
With your support I know we can find a beautiful place to lay Beidi and Elyse to rest, side by side, for all time. Somewhere, one day, I hope to join them.
We will forward information about their services the moment we have it.
The medical examiner has not yet released their remains pending DNA identification. That was our car at the scene, and my girls haven't returned home, but bureaucracy demands its due.
Thank you, from the bottom of our hearts.
With love, Christopher, Ethan, and Guiyu (Beidi's Mom)
https://gofund.me/5eaadc69
他要募款找一块离家近的墓地把老婆和女儿葬在一起。他老婆是个独生女,老婆的妈妈也被提到了。
他写的小文,heart-wrenching。在链接里。他已经筹到了他要的数字。这是他的更新。遗体还在等DNA鉴定,还没到他手上。这理赔估计也要一段时间。
With your support I know we can find a beautiful place to lay Beidi and Elyse to rest, side by side, for all time. Somewhere, one day, I hope to join them.
We will forward information about their services the moment we have it.
The medical examiner has not yet released their remains pending DNA identification. That was our car at the scene, and my girls haven't returned home, but bureaucracy demands its due.
Thank you, from the bottom of our hearts.
With love,
Christopher, Ethan, and Guiyu (Beidi's Mom)
美国当地公司老美同事朋友什么的还没有要大家捐款买墓地的, 基本是买花大家缅怀一下. 国外中国朋友有新冠去世打算给孩子一万,坚决不要说保险公司批下来有大概20万人寿保险
自己的一个安慰。
网上要大家捐款买墓地的没听说啊, 反正不是中国传统
都是老婆去世了有什么差别? 我们那个朋友也是不到五十今年春节还说话呢. 连最后送老婆一程都不肯花自己的钱,不是有人寿保险吗?还是国人重情重义
人家家里万一缺现金流怎么办呢?
这个老公不是说了,验尸官还没有出证明吗,保险支付、卖房子也要走一定程序,需要时间的吧
但他墓地现在就要选起来,葬礼也要安排,一笔笔现金现在就要付出去了。不能等着吧?
再说这家平常没准也为他人捐过款。gofundme不就是自愿伸一把手帮一下有急需的个体吗?
这家够惨的了,捐款的人有力出力,不想出力的给些安慰话,
不帮忙、不安慰的,也用不着这么腻腻歪歪的judgement 人家吧?