请教一下家有大学生的爹妈:你们跟孩子text, 孩子很客气吗?

高筋粉
楼主

我家那个最近,经常说“thank you very much", "it is very kind of you" 之类的话,感觉有点客气过头了吧!神马情况啊?

老子说两句
除非缺钱,基本不回。

你家的要表扬

高筋粉
以前不这样,这是跟我生疏了吗?心里惴惴不安啊。
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EEYY
给了什么物质利诱了吗:),我家的如果给了生活上包括钱方面的帮助,会有礼貌的Thanks。其余都是OK, Nah, 或者没回话:(
小团圆
我搬小板凳坐下了,很想知道。
老子说两句
有点时候是年龄问题。

可能更甜心了呢?小的时候想躲你越远越好。

高筋粉
没有什么特别的,就是为她做一点小事,以前不这样说的。尤其是“it is very kind of you" 莫名其妙啊!
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dandinglity
长大了懂事儿了的情况!
淘娃羊爸
羡慕你,俺句子要以问号结尾,也许能听个响:)
红尘一笑
正常! 我家的大学前和我们有仇一样, 大学后变得非常客气.

thank you mom... love you ...say hi to everyone and tell them I love them all...等等等等....

回家后走了也是房间里跟来之前一样没有皱纹....所谓的不带走一片云彩......

 

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dandinglity
哈哈。男孩子就那样
一九得九
我家的差不多,我觉得是懂事了,现在一点都不冲了。LOL
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dandinglity
太。。。鼓舞人心了
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dandinglity
其实我们的孩子们都是好孩子。。。
红尘一笑
真的是距离美!! 如果常住家庭肯定相互看不惯
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dandinglity
也不见得,可能就是长大了,青春期犯浑劲儿过了。
一九得九
没错,都是好孩子
高筋粉
真的啊?太好了!以为孩子离家,跟我们生分了 :(
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EEYY
原来是女儿,不用担心,只管偷着乐吧,她只会越来越贴心,越来越懂事,我家是儿子,还在白眼狼的阶段
终于不潜水了
哈哈哈哈,笑死了。我有次看人网上问24小时听不到儿子回短信应不应该着急,有男娃妈妈建议放宽到一个星期。
红尘一笑
没媳妇之前不会生分. LOL
红尘一笑
真的啊, 那太好了!:))
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violinpiano
上次不是有人發了個男女娃sweet的曲線圖

女娃18歲到谷底之後就一直上升了
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2008VGirl
习惯,他们朋友之间可能是这样
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-worldance-
no, but boys are different from girls.

Normal responses are " yes or no, fine, don't worry, etc.."

Mine likes to response to his interested subjects like politics, international relations, etc...

When he is home, he would like to watch and discuss movies or interesting clips on internet with me.

张小胖
Lol
张小胖
男娃儿呢?我家现在还sweet 啥时是低谷啥时还能冲破低谷?
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-worldance-
mine also left me with many books he has read,

he always have books at hands for leisure reading. If i read some of those books, we'll have a lot to talk about when he comes back from school, his trips or summer internships.

The relationship is more like a good friend whom you can share deepest thoughts with.

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-worldance-
hahaha... but it could be really worrisome if

they travel to war zones or serve in military and sent to war zones...

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-worldance-
normally, lowest point is about 9-12th gr., even into

1st yr in college, depends.

Know some kids never want to go back to repair their relationship with parents, if they were pushed too hard or unhappy when they were home.

云游世界
我家的从来都以Thank u, love you , miss u 结尾。这里长大的孩子,都习惯以这些词结尾吧!
张小胖
谢谢啦!
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SunnySmilee
我家的高中高年纪就这样了。不是生分,是成熟了。是真心感谢父母。
南礼士路
没啥,英八股用顺手了呗。
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zhiyan
haha. 你说这当爹妈的是高兴呢还是伤心呢