看得上 谈得来 过得惯 - 非灵魂而是生活伴侣. Plato soulmates of spiritual practices.
看得上 谈得来 过得惯 - 非灵魂而是生活伴侣. Plato say about soulmates of spiritual practices...?
Who created soulmates? The idea of a soul mate comes from the ancient tale of Aristophanes, a comic playwright, and contemporary of Plato. He told a story of some two-headed hermaphroditic giants who were cleaved apart by a jealous Zeus, fated thereafter to seek their other halves forever. How did Plato define love? Platonic love (often lowercased as platonic love) is a type of love that is not sexual or romantic. ... Platonic love, as devised by Plato, concerns rising through levels of closeness to wisdom and true beauty, from carnal attraction to individual bodies to attraction to souls, and eventually, union with the truth. What does Plato say about soulmates? According to Plato 'Symposium', "Love is a desire for beauty - a value that transcends the particularities of the physical body." Plato's idea about soulmates is "[Each] one longed for its other half, and so they would throw their arms about each other, weaving themselves together, wanting to grow together." For many, the solution to loneliness is the soul mate, someone with whom one can relate to perfectly and vice versa, as if one person. Plato addressed the idea of two people coming from one. When did soulmates become a thing? It is commonly accepted that one will feel 'complete' once they have found their soulmate, as it is partially in the perceived definition that two souls are meant to unite. The term "soulmate" first appeared in the English language in a letter by Samuel Taylor Coleridge in 1822.
说说伴侣先。
我的要求其实挺葛的，首先是看得上－－之所以看得上，总归是因为人家有我没有的优点，就是我特别想要有却做不到的，但是人家可以，不佩服不行。当然这个前提是先对自己有足够了解。比如这几年你欣赏某个优点，过两年你又看不上了。因为自己改变了想法，而看对方不顺眼，不是对方的问题。
有“欣赏对方”打底，后面就是得谈得来。“有话讲”还不够，得“总有话讲”，才是老来相伴的人。一开始觉得话特多，过一段就觉得跟这人讲话好累，那就说明不对。人生长着呢。。。
其次就是可以过得到一起去，收入水平生活习惯饮食爱好等等等，相看不厌。这中间也包括双方的距离感（也算习惯之一），比如有的人特别粘人，我吃不消。这一条有的是可以磨合出来。
最后一条，对方对你也有同样的感觉。
此地无处安放灵魂，所以没有灵魂伴侣。
忘了，，，我说了啥
自己的灵魂靠自己安抚和安放，每个人的灵魂所追求的目标不同，找到可以安放自己灵魂的爱好就很满意了。
这需要时间去了解自己。
很多时候很多人的婚姻或同居生活不满意，不是因为看不上对方，而是自己满脑子官司都没理清楚，是自己的问题困扰自己，把自己的问题发泄在对方身上。
试想一下，如果是自己的至亲被他人如此对待，心里感受如何？
还是要将心比心。
借你的帖子说两句观感。小手绢都咬破了～～～
合着没有灵魂伴侣啊
你这还是女人找对象的条件，第一条就是要钦佩，如果不是葱白或敬仰的话
男人找女人，绝对不是
我老公就特服我
你咋看不出来，，，
首先是要长得帅
首先道出了一个重要道理，是首先能不能自省。
其次是距离感。
要求人家有我没有的优点，不佩服不行 。。。这个嘛，同一个国家出来的，大家优缺点差不多
“总有话讲”。。。得是信息来源有些不对称。 两个人都看新华社通稿，或者都看 Le monde 也没啥好继续讲的了
过得到一起去，饮食爱好等等 。。。 这个法国人跟中国人比较相近。
然后， 双方的距离感可以是两个国家的距离， 如果哪天你愿意。
最后一条，对方对你也有同样的感觉。。。 这个就是缘分了。
是看你漂亮吧
你去问问
需要持续的学习能力和好奇心。
我也喜欢帅的，斯文的。
我们有时出去散步半小时，基本一句话也没有，有时，一路不停的说个没完。
其实这不正常嘛？漂亮的才愿意接近，看不上就抛弃。。。
“我说啥了，忘了”。
很轻松。夫妻之间，坛友之间，轻松说话，前后一致，不用费心记自己说了啥。自然的流露。
不至于那么快就自己左手摸右手的感觉。不过还得两个人频段比较接近，而且愿意共同成长
自省就得看各人悟性了
看得上 谈得来 过得惯 - 非灵魂而是生活伴侣. Plato say about soulmates of spiritual practices...?
Who created soulmates? The idea of a soul mate comes from the ancient tale of Aristophanes, a comic playwright, and contemporary of Plato. He told a story of some two-headed hermaphroditic giants who were cleaved apart by a jealous Zeus, fated thereafter to seek their other halves forever. How did Plato define love? Platonic love (often lowercased as platonic love) is a type of love that is not sexual or romantic. ... Platonic love, as devised by Plato, concerns rising through levels of closeness to wisdom and true beauty, from carnal attraction to individual bodies to attraction to souls, and eventually, union with the truth. What does Plato say about soulmates? According to Plato 'Symposium', "Love is a desire for beauty - a value that transcends the particularities of the physical body." Plato's idea about soulmates is "[Each] one longed for its other half, and so they would throw their arms about each other, weaving themselves together, wanting to grow together." For many, the solution to loneliness is the soul mate, someone with whom one can relate to perfectly and vice versa, as if one person. Plato addressed the idea of two people coming from one. When did soulmates become a thing? It is commonly accepted that one will feel 'complete' once they have found their soulmate, as it is partially in the perceived definition that two souls are meant to unite. The term "soulmate" first appeared in the English language in a letter by Samuel Taylor Coleridge in 1822.