APAD: The best revenge is not to be like your enemy

最西边的岛上
楼主 (文学城)

 

About the time to go back to Stoicism. 

The best revenge is not to be like your enemy.” – Marcus Aurelius

The phrase means that the most effective way to respond to someone who has wronged you is not to stoop to their level by acting with negativity or malice, but instead to rise above and demonstrate your own positive character by being a better person than they are.

It encourages individuals to resist the temptation to mirror negative behaviors and instead choose to be the better person, even when faced with adversity.
 
- Source: dear Google (with editing)
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Canada has a new Prime Minister since last night.  Knowing little about politics, I have no idea how long the new PM will be in office wrt the inevitable coming election, as there were so many examples of  "won the battle but lost the war".

What interests me is the live debate during a political race. Often I felt like watching a clown show .

People can hide under cover of a well prepared statement, but their true personality and quality will show in a live debate.

I admire those who use facts and reasoning, instead of personal attack, to get their points across, even when themselves being personally attacked.

Those are the ones take the high road, and know that the best revenge is not to be like your enemy!

Cheers!

 

硅谷居士
From Seinfeld: the best revenge is living well.
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7grizzly
The next best is to serve it cold, say after 10 years.
永远老李
Michelle Obama曾经有一次在评论美国总统选举时的电视辩论时说不要像对方那样撒泼打滚

而是要"take the high road"

这确实是讲面子的人的做法,可是,这不管用的,这年头,美国时兴的是不必拘泥于政治正确,而是要玩糙的玩LOW的。

最西边的岛上
Yep! living well and laughing to the end :-))
最西边的岛上
hahaha, my life in WXC is only 2 years old ;-))
最西边的岛上
“流氓政治”吗? 叹气,唉 。。。
永远老李
看看前几天床铺VANCE与乌克兰总统的公开吵架就知道了,不顾体面,吃相难看

但是,很多人会辩解说老床讲话直率,没啥不对的。MAGA。

最西边的岛上
IMHO:没有礼貌 != 直率。Especially on world stage. Ha.
永远老李
Did you ever watch day time TV show “Jerry Springer”?

That was one hell of low life entertainment show. 
If you missed it, don't worry. White House is doing that show right now. It will last four years.

最西边的岛上
No.knewHisFace fromSomewhere but neverWatched/listened2him.
移花接木
Mark Carney is an established economist, head of bank Ca.
移花接木
Gov. bank Eng. hated by sb. calling him Carbon tax Carney,
移花接木
dual citizen of Canada&England
最西边的岛上
+Ireland citizenship ;-) but said 2 renounce both UK&Ireland
最西边的岛上
haha, that's definitely a false accusation by this sb. ;-))
移花接木
He is gaining popularity still behind PP, thanks to Trudeau
最西边的岛上
"Don't count Ur chickens before they hatch" ;-) So we'll see
移花接木
Could be an easier traitor
最西边的岛上
he's a politician after all (I know & trust none ;-)
永远老李
眼不见为净
暖冬cool夏
Great writeup! The world responded today w a crashing market
移花接木
sb know nothin'think Carney don't know nothin'but CarbonTax
永远老李
WOW. MAGA party time.
最西边的岛上
哦,justChecked, SPY-4%,TSX-2%(28ofOurOwn38Stocks/ETFs r down)
最西边的岛上
could b worse, may b time (or a bit later) 2 buy more ? ;-))
最西边的岛上
哼!
永远老李
淡定。 Mexico will pay for it
最西边的岛上
What? Hahahaha… ROFL …
移花接木
Not career politician