APAD: Be there or be square

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7grizzly
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Meaning:

    Turn up to an event or be boring or no fun and be left out and excluded.

 

Background:

   The common phrase `be there or be square' is believed to originate in the

   jazz scene in the United States in the 1950s.

   

   Before this time, the word square was used to depict anything straightforward

   and measured, in contrast to the off-beat jamming sessions of jazz music, so

   in the 1940s, the term `square' was used to refer to someone who failed to

   appreciate jazz music, and someone who was seen as out of touch with the

   trend.

 

   The phrase `be there or be square' was popularised by the 1950s. The meaning

   of the phrase `be there or be square' expanded over time to mean `be there or

   be someone who doesn't appreciate trending counter culture', or in other

   words, someone who isn't cool. With its catchy rhythmic appeal, it's no

   surprise the phrase caught on.

 

   Since its use in the jazz scene, the phrase has come up again and again in

   other contexts, including in the 1960s disco scene, and later in the 1970s

   and 1980s the punk rock scene.

 

   If you don't wish to offend someone by saying that they are boring or uncool,

   it would be best to avoid this phrase and to use an alternative phrase

   instead, such as `I hope you can make it'.

 

   The phrase `be there or be square' is best used when you expect the person or

   people to turn up to the event in question.

 

- www.phrases.org.uk [edited]

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The gym hosted seminars a couple of times per year, and members enjoyed

discounts to the annual camp taught by BJJ luminaries. Not everyone took the

opportunities, however. Chris, my old training partner, stopped going after a

year.

 

"The professors were great and their skills amazing. It was only that their

teachings went in one ear out the other and I'd forget the lessons in three

weeks," he griped.

 

"What about the camaraderie? The stills sure show folks having a great time," I

reminded him.

 

"While soaked in the buddy-buddy vibes and the oneness of the tribe, you forget

lieutenant Tessio's parting shot, that it was only business!" he snorted. "To

truly know people, you have to watch how they treat those who can't do anything

for them."

 

"That's true," I have to concede. "But no pressure for you?"

 

"Me? I'm not dying to belong. I'm an old bird addicted to the joy of missing

out. I won't be there, I'd rather be square!"

最西边的岛上
hahaha, if Chris is the only "square", he is already "there"
妖妖灵
I thought you were talking about “Jazz Square”:

 

最西边的岛上
imho, beThere != inFashion, but ==active in MindOrAction;-))
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7grizzly
Don't have to be there to be active.
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7grizzly
Nice. Good to learn.
最西边的岛上
exactly! We r going 2b home today: beHome or beSquare! ;-))
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7grizzly
Good timing. The rain's coming. Have a safe ride!
妖妖灵
哈哈,城头看到这条新闻,逗S我了:

https://www.wenxuecity.com/news/2024/11/10/125864487.html

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7grizzly
It's a thankless job. I'd be happy when the end is in sight.
移花接木
Now I see exactly why they call German square head
最西边的岛上
;-)) Also Y F-Canadian call E-Canadian “ tête carrée” :-))
最西边的岛上
French word 4 square head:-))
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7grizzly
Great to know the colorful usage of square. Thank you both!
天边一片白云
跟扭秧歌挺像的。
天边一片白云
原来“square”还有这个意识。只知道“Square one".
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7grizzly
Square one is a good one!
暖冬cool夏
I'm an old bird addicted to the joy of missing out. Me too:)
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7grizzly
Have a great trip!