APAD: Spend more time with my family

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7grizzly
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Meaning:

   A euphemistic way of describing being made redundant.

 

Background:

   `I am looking forward to spending more time with my family' has become a

   familiar formula used by UK politicians to make the best of things when they

   are obliged to leave office at short notice, and that's where this expression

   originated.

 

   British Prime Ministers, especially recent conservative PMs, have developed a

   reputation of overnight purges of their cabinets when they see trouble ahead.

   

   Many of the purged were wealthy landowners and might well have welcomed the

   opportunity to return to their estates to spend more time with their

   families. However, none of them used that mantra: that was left to Norman

   Fowler and, contrary to expectations, he wasn't forced from office, he

   actually did voluntarily leave his cabinet post as Employment Secretary in

   January 1990, to spend time with his family.

   

   Whether Fowler was entirely happy with that choice isn't clear, but he did

   return to front line politics two years later.

   

- www.phrases.org.uk [edited]

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Wow. I heard it countless times and have never suspected a story behind such a

simple phrase. I'd imagine Fowler a rare case even among wealthy landowners. How

many high on the pig's back would cast a discreet look around and stop working

voluntarily?

 

Before passing away at 43, my best friend Sheng(RIP) from my Beijing days was

the model Silicon Valley workaholic, living nextdoor to work, talking about

nothing but IC chips, and churning out patents like hotcakes for the firm,

before colon cancer brought him to his knees. On his death bed, he confessed

that he'd love to spend more time with his family.

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VerySorry4 Sheng. When I worked 4CSCO I knew people whoSlept
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onOfficeFloor;-((. But can't trust words from politicians as
移花接木
Hahah, it is even a proverb. remembered when a worker was
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their spent time w/ family == looking 4 next "big Job" ;-))
移花接木
late. coz he was drunk during the night, his department boss
移花接木
was his drinking buddy. Fair excuse to forgive!!!!

In China

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hahahaha, spent more time drinking&covering 4"drunk family"
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7grizzly
I used to work hard but then found better ideas come after
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7grizzly
a good night's sleep.
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7grizzly
From now on, the phrase starts sounding cynical :-)
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4sure. CSCO was a sweatshop then&deadlineCouldn't b changed
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7grizzly
At one point, I asked: who am I fooling while suffering?
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I know. just the constant bottom 10% layoffs was a killer ..
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hahahaha, it always IS (2 me ;-)))
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7grizzly
yes, and especially when one just starts a career.
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7grizzly
a proverb seer :-)
妖妖灵
I do. I love cooking recently. I cooked spaghetti, citrus
妖妖灵
Braised beef noodles(手工面条),Jambalaya~YouTube is my best
妖妖灵
teacher!:)
最西边的岛上
seer == (AC) Seasonal Energy Efficiency Ratio. Thx ;-))
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but where is the AC now? only the beaming Sun&Hot air ;-))
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7grizzly
And the best part: your family like it! :-)
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7grizzly
Nothing beats good timing :-)
暖冬cool夏
Me too that it could carry more than its literal meaning:)
暖冬cool夏
Work & life should always balance. RIP Mr. S!
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7grizzly
I tried but my family couldn't stand me :-)
最西边的岛上
a secret: bring flowers made of chocolate, they'll b 2busy
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eating 2 notice u (just kidding ;-))
天边一片白云
Sorry to hear the story of Mr S. Many young people does not
天边一片白云
Take care of his health very well.
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7grizzly
They're brought up believing all kinds of stories but health