APAD: If you've got it, flaunt it.

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7grizzly
楼主 (文学城)

If you've got something you're proud of don't be afraid to show it off.

 

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When it comes to wealth, the mob go one step further. According to the

bestseller "The Millionaire Next Door," most people believe if you have it, you

HAVE to show it by spending on luxury, a practice the authors advise against.

The millionaires interviewed all set boundaries well within their means. To

them, looking rich and being rich are totally different things.

 

Many (including Taleb) have since pointed out the survivor bias of the data

collated in that book, i.e., all misers do not become well off, but that IMO

does not hurt its main message: keeping wealth requires financial discipline.

 

If discipline is only self-love, can we conclude that most people don't really

love themselves?

移花接木
对啊,还有秀恩爱死的快的说法
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7grizzly
哈哈。Never heard of that one!
方外居士
人生得意须尽欢 莫使金樽空对月!thanks for sharing!
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7grizzly
欢 == to gratify the senses and to get stoned in particular?
方外居士
Yes. It is more than show off as it does not care show-off
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7grizzly
OK. Next time, I'll take my paycheck to the bar :-)
方外居士
I just need a free beer
暖冬cool夏
Fake it till u make it. But when u make it, u try to hide it
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7grizzly
Great strategy many failed to follow:)
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7grizzly
Is that a brand? I’ll have a Blue Moon.
盈盈一笑间
东西方文化的差异。低调的奢华,会不会更有意思呢?:)
盈盈一笑间
老美常说 Fake it till u make it。,是不是会hide就因人而异了。:)
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waterfowl
这年头,还是低调点好。
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7grizzly
Make sense. The Tao said "国之利器,不可以示于人。"
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godog
most people do love themselves, but love not disciplining
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godog
themselves more
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7grizzly
Except when it's business and not personal.
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7grizzly
Most indulge themselves. That's for sure.