提上来再问一下, 关于女儿的lease

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Girlsmom92
楼主 (文学城)

她们星期一看房,星期四签字,emailed to landlord, a few hours later after email, call landlord to withdraw.
Just now, after my daughter emailed him saying "we don't have binding contract since you did not sign and gave us a copy before we withdraw". He emailed back signed lease with he dates his signature at 星期四 and threatened lawsuits. He said he lost two sets of tenants because of my daughter's group and he potentially suffer a loss of an entire year lease. But my daughter group withdrew it only a few hours after email him the lease. Also he can pick other groups if he want. 

I am now support her walk away now since I think the landlord is not nice at all. How much the possibility my daughter group will get in trouble.

also, since he emailed back the signed lease, does that means they don't intend to really find a replacement for now? Thanks!

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hz82000
为什么把牌亮给对方
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Girlsmom92
没经验。我也是这样认为的,这样告诉她的

应该怎么做?

柠檬椰子汁
不要再去惹了,走开了事,和对方吵架不解决问题。

有些人没理还吵三分,得理是不会让人的。你们合约签错了,告诉他们你们走了,本来就没事了,偏要去问他们合同签字了没有,你以为对方会怎么做?下棋还要想几步。

告诉你不要再去和对方惹了,女人不行,一定要被哄得好好的。被别人骂回来了还要去求人家再骂你吗?

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ljty1
怎么又开了一贴?楼下柠檬不是说的很清楚了?房东要起诉需要证明他确实suffer loss了,也就是从现在到8月份都没能找

到合适的房客,你觉得这可能吗?房东很明显就是在瞎咋呼,别理他就是了。

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Girlsmom92
谢谢. 我这就告诉她们不要去理了
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thankful
你们怎么这么较真?你这个当妈的也是。都说了没事,就是要walk away。这个意思就是玩失踪
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Girlsmom92
謝謝!
柠檬椰子汁
死马当活马医吧

Please change the time to actual date and time.   I think it would be nice to have a paper trail of what happened. 

Dear Landlord,

Your communication dated Friday 2 PM is received. 

On Thursday 12 PM we emailed you a signed copy of a lease, which lacks a signature from a representative from your company.  Thereafter we contacted you on Thur. 2 PM to withdraw from our lease.  At the time of the withdrawal we did not have a lease with signatures from both parties.  Therefore, the lease copy from 12 PM was merely an offer that was effectively withdrawn by us at 2 PM Thursday.  

We now received a signed lease dated yesterday.  However, we did not received your signed lease before our withdrawal on Thursday 2 PM.  Therefore we deem the lease copy received on Friday not an effective acceptance of our Thursday 12 PM offer, therefore no lease agreement was formed between us. 

We appreciate your time and sorry that we will not be renting from you  at this time.  

Sinerely

老胖妞爱小肥羊
不怪你,怪只怪你太老实太守规矩才会被制约。这种情况下房东根本就没有权利限制你女儿。你的解药就是:放心。
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Girlsmom92
太感谢了!马上发给女儿
柠檬椰子汁
不管对方说什么都不要再回了!


最好还是原来的方法,什么都不说就走了。现在越说越多并不好,耐不住你女儿硬要把对方签字的合同逼出来,所以就写了个东西给她用。说实话,我们不知道他们之间扯了什么话有没有其他的破绽。我写的东西里面有很多假设,对方可能也有反驳。所以以后不要再说了,祸从口出。

 

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FortleeNJ
我们州签了合同三天之内可以反悔。你查一下PA是否也是这样。不过就像柠檬他们说的, 应该不会有问题
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Girlsmom92
谢谢!
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MrsKwok
给柠檬点个赞,热心人儿一个
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DD2020
玩消失吧。我们地主对玩消失的人也没办法。基本都是move on. 别自己跟自己顶针,把自己顶到墙角去。
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backpack
+1
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backpack
年轻人没经验,经历这一次,就会听父母的话了。
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oldmansea
柠檬高明!听柠檬的没错,没交钱直接开路,不要再理他
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backpack
妈妈也别跟着上火了,还没交押金,就忽略那个房东的回复,让孩子沉住气。
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Girlsmom92
谢谢!
楚悠悠
大家都在好心幫助樓主和她女兒。我看呢,這事樓主女兒有點不在理,往後還是要吸取教訓,

不要輕易簽字,簽字了不要輕易撕毀合同,長遠地看,還是講信譽的好。

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windyLL
对,年轻人要学会讲信誉的重要性。工作上要是这么来,多少bridges都会burn掉啦。长期看很不合算。
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wlwt123
對, 如果這事由小中處理,大部分會選擇跟地主合作。小中的心還是比較純的。
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Girlsmom92
主要是刚开始打电话给房东时,房东答应的。

但后来emailed 又反悔。刚开始我们也认为房东没签,所以可以有选择。所以这样告诉孩子。我们当了十几年房东。从来就不会有这样的事发生。小孩就是因为care credit, 所以为难。但我現在倒支持她們walk away since the landlord is hard to deal.

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windyLL
事到如今你们只有walk away了。其实当初应该想清楚再签lease的,反悔的第一个电话一打,人家房东就立刻把你拉黑了

房东也不会把你们怎么样,就是气愤了想给你们添点堵而已。从房东角度想,这种为了小便宜出尔反尔的人是一定拉黑的,打死也不会把房子租给这种人的。

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Girlsmom92
你的意思是我的女儿不是小中?
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Girlsmom92
你怎么知道她们为了小便宜?
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windyLL
这只是一个例子而已,你真是缺乏情商啊。这么跟房东打交道肯定会招惹人气愤啊。
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Girlsmom92
我缺乏情商跟房东有关系吗?

我只和guests or tenants 打交道,也跟这里房东聊天。不跟女儿的房东打交道

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Girlsmom92
你认为他们有binding contract 吗?

她们withdrew before the landlord sign the lease!

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Girlsmom92
如果房东当时巳经emailed back the signed contract, 她们

也不会想到要改主意。

一只特立独行的猪
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