1. Never shake a man's hand sitting down. 2. Don't enter a pool by the stairs. 3. The man at the BBQ Grill is the closest thing to a king. 4. In a negotiation, never make the first offer. 5. Request the late check-out. 6. When entrusted with a secret, keep it. 7. Hold your heroes to a higher standard. 8. Return a borrowed car with a full tank of gas. 9. Play with passion or don't play at all… 10. When shaking hands, grip firmly and look them in the eye. 11. Don't let a wishbone grow where a backbone should be.
12. If you need music on the beach, you're missing the point. 13. Carry two handkerchiefs. The one in your back pocket is for you. The one in your breast pocket is for her. 14. You marry the girl, you marry her family. 15. Be like a duck. Remain calm on the surface and paddle like crazy underneath. 16. Experience the serenity of traveling alone. 17. Never be afraid to ask out the best looking girl in the room. 18. Never turn down a breath mint. 19. A sport coat is worth 1000 words. 20. Try writing your own eulogy. Never stop revising. 21. Thank a veteran. Then make it up to him. 22. Eat lunch with the new kid. 23. After writing an angry email, read it carefully. Then delete it. 24. Ask your mom to play. She won't let you win. 25. Manners maketh the man. 26. Give credit. Take the blame. 27. Stand up to Bullies. Protect those bullied. 28. Write down your dreams. 29. Take time to snuggle your pets, they love you so much and are always happy to see you. 30. Be confident and humble at the same time. 31. If ever in doubt, remember whose son you are and REFUSE to just be ordinary! 32. In all things, give glory to God.
Let’s say I’m your dad and you’re my young son. And we’re playing chess. You’re still learning the game and I’m an experienced player …
In order to encourage you, I make a couple of mistakes or don’t take advantage of your errors. Because you’re a bright lad, you’ve spotted that I’m deliberately not playing my best game. And you’re not happy about it because you want to win the game on merit.
You: “Oh come on dad you’re not playing properly.”
Me: “Ask your mom to play. She won’t let you win.”
In other words your mother will play her best game without making any deliberate mistakes.
1. 切勿坐着与人握手。
2. 不要通过阶梯进入泳池。
3. 生火烤肉，当皇帝不过这个滋味。
4. 在谈判中，永远不要先出价。
5. 住旅馆，退房时间越晚越好。
6. 受托保密时，请保守秘密。
7. 让你的英雄达到更高的境界。
8. 借来的汽车，加满油归还。
9. 要么玩个爽的要么不玩……
10. 握手时，要握紧并看着对方的眼睛。
11. 该长脊梁骨的地方不要长软骨。
12. 要在海滩上听音乐，那你就错了。
13. 随身携带两块手帕，你用的放后兜里她用的放胸前。
14. 娶了那个女孩等于娶了她全家。
15. 像鸭子一样，在水面上保持冷静，水底下使劲划腾。
16. 体验独自旅行的宁静。
17. 舞厅里直接邀请那位最好看的姑娘，不要怯场。
18. 永远不要拒绝递过来的薄荷糖（除口臭）。
19. 一件运动外套胜过千言万语。
20. 试着写下你自己的悼词，并不断修改。
21. 感谢一位老兵，莫过于给他些许实惠。
22. 和新来的孩子一起吃午饭。
23. 写完一封愤怒的邮件后，仔细阅读，然后删除它。
24. 跟你妈玩，她不会让你的。
25. 礼仪造就人。
26. 给予信任，承担过错。
27. 对抗恶人，保护弱者。
28. 写下你的梦想。
29. 花时间宠爱你的宠物，它们会爱你讨好你。
30. 保持自信的同时请保持谦虚。
31. 在人生彷徨的时候，切记你是谁的儿子，拒绝平庸！
32. 凡事荣耀神。
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RULES TO TEACH YOUR SON
1. Never shake a man's hand sitting down.
2. Don't enter a pool by the stairs.
3. The man at the BBQ Grill is the closest thing to a king.
4. In a negotiation, never make the first offer.
5. Request the late check-out.
6. When entrusted with a secret, keep it.
7. Hold your heroes to a higher standard.
8. Return a borrowed car with a full tank of gas.
9. Play with passion or don't play at all…
10. When shaking hands, grip firmly and look them in the eye.
11. Don't let a wishbone grow where a backbone should be.
12. If you need music on the beach, you're missing the point.
13. Carry two handkerchiefs. The one in your back pocket is for you. The
one in your breast pocket is for her.
14. You marry the girl, you marry her family.
15. Be like a duck. Remain calm on the surface and paddle like crazy
underneath.
16. Experience the serenity of traveling alone.
17. Never be afraid to ask out the best looking girl in the room.
18. Never turn down a breath mint.
19. A sport coat is worth 1000 words.
20. Try writing your own eulogy. Never stop revising.
21. Thank a veteran. Then make it up to him.
22. Eat lunch with the new kid.
23. After writing an angry email, read it carefully. Then delete it.
24. Ask your mom to play. She won't let you win.
25. Manners maketh the man.
26. Give credit. Take the blame.
27. Stand up to Bullies. Protect those bullied.
28. Write down your dreams.
29. Take time to snuggle your pets, they love you so much and are always
happy to see you.
30. Be confident and humble at the same time.
31. If ever in doubt, remember whose son you are and REFUSE to just be
ordinary!
32. In all things, give glory to God.
喊你妈去玩，永远办不到。
可能正确的是老枪的译法。
Let’s say I’m your dad and you’re my young son. And we’re playing chess. You’re still learning the game and I’m an experienced player …
In order to encourage you, I make a couple of mistakes or don’t take advantage of your errors. Because you’re a bright lad, you’ve spotted that I’m deliberately not playing my best game. And you’re not happy about it because you want to win the game on merit.
You: “Oh come on dad you’re not playing properly.”
Me: “Ask your mom to play. She won’t let you win.”
In other words your mother will play her best game without making any deliberate mistakes.
因为这是给儿子的话，父亲会让，但母亲不会，毕竟母亲在玩方面不如父亲。
把儿加上
这条对于宾馆可能不友好，但对于粗心的儿子可能有用处吧，即检查仔细后退房。这是老爹告诫儿子的话
都穿着衣服呢
到美国人家做客人家给你grill, 千万别说三道四的，夸好就得了