It's your subconscious mind and the surrounding world, to which you respond, that cause you stress, tension, anxiety, thoughts, and emotions. But your subconscious mind is not your true self. Nor is the surrounding world. Your true self, therefore, is the belief that you are who you decide to be, and nothing else, not even your subconscious mind, can determine it for you. By insisting on being your true self, you do not respond to stimuli and disturbances from your subconscious mind as well as the world. For if you do, you are simultaneously at the mercy of them, and can no longer be your true self.
Consequently, your true self must be in infinite tranquility. From there, you observe your subconscious mind and the world with superior indifference. When confronted with your true self, all the perturbation caused by your subconscious mind and the world will gradually melt, disappear, vanish, subside by themselves, for they are powerless in front of your infinite tranquility, and can no longer serve the purpose.
1，过度敏感、自尊，缺乏内抚慰训练，过度自我；
2，不适应环境与不能整体理解问题与事物 ；
3，感性成型，思维层次低，无辩证思维；
4， 人际关系圈小，角色不能旋转 ；
5，对未来的不确定性恐惧，能力欠缺，无依靠；
6，磨难太少，一切智慧源于苦难
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It's your subconscious mind and the surrounding world, to which you respond, that cause you stress, tension, anxiety, thoughts, and emotions. But your subconscious mind is not your true self. Nor is the surrounding world. Your true self, therefore, is the belief that you are who you decide to be, and nothing else, not even your subconscious mind, can determine it for you. By insisting on being your true self, you do not respond to stimuli and disturbances from your subconscious mind as well as the world. For if you do, you are simultaneously at the mercy of them, and can no longer be your true self.
Consequently, your true self must be in infinite tranquility. From there, you observe your subconscious mind and the world with superior indifference. When confronted with your true self, all the perturbation caused by your subconscious mind and the world will gradually melt, disappear, vanish, subside by themselves, for they are powerless in front of your infinite tranquility, and can no longer serve the purpose.
婚姻出了问题，但她们没有能力改善夫妻关系又没有勇气离婚，或者离婚了自己没能力过好，所以无所适从。
没能力挣钱，不知道这个世界的游戏规则，只一味地想当然是大多数这类人的问题。
专门喜欢合伙找软柿子捏，从“弱者”手里抢夺，你又没能力改变，还不得不混迹其中，慢慢地就会把自己封闭起来，心理健康受影响