That comment wasn't really that bad for it was obviously groundless and meant to curse only. The bad ones usually have some ground to build upon in some manipulative fashion. Of course, if you are rather new with your online experience, it is then undestandable. I was the same. I had been called with many cursing names too. Some were almost entertaining: A mind filled with dark mist, a reduced right-brain, shameless this...shameless that... You can't take them personally. If I recall correctly, you work as a psychologist? You shouyld know better.
Now I may understand better where it came from with your reactions to some of my harsher comments on others. My comments are always grounded and I don't manipulate facts.
The Internet is a world outside of the real world. If they lose their heart on the Internet, they become a villain in reality.
I am not a psychologist, but I know that the greater the contrast between a person's actions on the Internet and their reality is, the more likely it is to cause emotional anxiety.
心中有佛, 眼见为佛; 内心肮脏, 眼见握踀.
在茶轩, 曾因为写《乳香》一文, 被一位网名貌似是女性的 ID 狂泼污水 “半老徐娘, 骚首弄姿, 恬不知耻, 恶心死了”. 家人知道我在文城玩耍, 但不曾入过这座城. 看我哭得梨花带雨, 伤心欲绝, 下达一道 6 字命令: 你撤退, 我掩护. 霎那, 铃兰破涕为笑.
对鄙恶不堪的网络攻击, 本可以视而不见 / 蔑视, 然而, 不甘当众被羞辱, 遂发射 Trident II（D5） 巡航导弹; Ta 叫我 “大姐”, 我回赠 Ta “奶奶”, 战略性防御, 漂亮的帖子, 因为有人告状, 被删.
其后, 我将事件的相关资料, 封存于一个档案里, 锁在云端的保险箱, 云记, 我忘记.
我的记忆保护机制健全, Defensive mechanism / Selective memory loss 十分强悍.
无论是潜意识被动的或/和主动的选择, 记忆库内储存的悲哀愈多, 人相对忧郁些; 记忆库内如果选择删除创痛, 人相对轻松些.
真情, 善意, 花香, 鸟语, 记住, 牢牢的. 有些事, 包括不想重蹈覆辙的, 也记牢了. 遭受的某些伤害, 尚残存记忆, 选择原谅 / 放下.
师太有一句话, 6 个字, 字字铿锵: 辱人者必自辱. 论坛上的留言, 既见情商智商, 更见人品.
昨天, 一位大侠问铃兰: 你有被人网上霸凌吗? 我回答: 没有, 就算有, 已随风而逝啦. 《 Pasión 》Sarah Brightman & Fernando Lima
值得学习。说我是“骗子”者，面目狰狞---你不是也见过了？---哈哈：）
他们是茶坛的笑料，没有，也不像茶馆了吧？：）
而 Ta 是恶意的.
我再大度, 也是一介女人, 那些委屈, 很难受, 你懂的.
不要哭，姑娘是个明白女孩.其实大部分人都识好歹.只是大部分人都不肯为别人站出来罢了。有的值得分辨，有的不值得.有的是误会.有的是真犯坏.：）
谢谢姐
我们北方人大概是面食吃的都比较敦厚朴素.：）比较含蓄.我说的是以前啊，现在不大清楚了。：）
嘻嘻，虽然我仍然会生气，不过告诉我自己就一下下就好了~~~
你还是被欺负少了
That comment wasn't really that bad for it was obviously groundless and meant to curse only. The bad ones usually have some ground to build upon in some manipulative fashion. Of course, if you are rather new with your online experience, it is then undestandable. I was the same. I had been called with many cursing names too. Some were almost entertaining: A mind filled with dark mist, a reduced right-brain, shameless this...shameless that... You can't take them personally. If I recall correctly, you work as a psychologist? You shouyld know better.
Now I may understand better where it came from with your reactions to some of my harsher comments on others. My comments are always grounded and I don't manipulate facts.
The Internet is a world outside of the real world. If they lose their heart on the Internet, they become a villain in reality.
I am not a psychologist, but I know that the greater the contrast between a person's actions on the Internet and their reality is, the more likely it is to cause emotional anxiety.
现实世界, 有人说我 sharp, 但说 warm 多一些.
那不就是“内心肮脏, 眼见握踀.”？
good night