去年好像是 AP world history(?) 老师来邮件抱怨不上第一节课,都在家睡觉。 说了孩子一顿,好像好一点了。
刚才 AP Macro 老师来信。 最近的5节课都没上,而且 missed a quiz this week.
as part of classroom policy, any student who misses school for unexcused reasons may not be able to make up quizzes and tests. This would be extremely detrimental to her grade in the class.
Again, I mention this out of concern for the fact that she has missed so much school recently. I would appreciate any insight you can give into the matter.
Hello! This is XXXX and I have Jane Doe in AP US History. I wanted to reach out with concerns. In particular Jane Doe seems to be struggling with making it to my first block class. In looking over her attendance record, she’s consistently missed class (at least once a week recently) and I worry she might miss out. She was absent again today, and the thing that's got me particularly frustrated is that she attends other periods--so there's an issue specifically with 1st block.
Luckily I post all my resources on Its Learning and for a highly capable student like Jane Doe I’m not too worried that she’s totally lost, and it’s not that her grade is suffering, but just in general I’m concerned about her well being and wanted to make sure you’re aware of Jane Doe's attendance issues. If there are particular circumstances that would explain Jane Doe's attendance gaps (besides missing for excused reasons like her recent trip to XXXX), I’d appreciate any insights you’d be willing to share.
Thanks in advance for your support and I look forward to hearing from you soon.
去年好像是 AP world history(?) 老师来邮件抱怨不上第一节课,都在家睡觉。 说了孩子一顿,好像好一点了。
刚才 AP Macro 老师来信。 最近的5节课都没上,而且 missed a quiz this week.
as part of classroom policy, any student who misses school for unexcused reasons may not be able to make up quizzes and tests. This would be extremely detrimental to her grade in the class.
Again, I mention this out of concern for the fact that she has missed so much school recently. I would appreciate any insight you can give into the matter.
原来非常自推的孩子现在坏毛病越来越多了。高中阶段就晚上不睡,白天不起的。缺课要么是在家睡觉,要么是自己溜出去去餐馆吃饭。 越来越过分了。
美国高中对缺课是什么样的政策? 不去上课,但是考试没有问题,会影响最后的成绩吗? 还是出勤率也影响最后的成绩?
歌喉大公校没这问题,不做作业不出勤肯定没有A,运气不好连B也不会有。
孩子这两年是明显飘了
不影响成绩。如果没有家长请假,校方会干涉。
我们也是大公校,这样就不是影响GPA的问题了。迟到,缺课,包括看病和外出比赛缺点的总数,超出有限的次数,是要留级的。
我们所有矫牙预约都是4点后,结果经常因为乐队排练要reschedule。
这是他们程序set好的
的同学去逛mall。最后是送到寄宿学校去了。家长实在管不了了。最后的结果也不理想,虽是有大学上,上了没多久,还是退学了。跑到餐馆打工,跟厨师同居了。
我儿子每学期都故意旷课,学校会打电话给我们,只要没有超过不可以毕业的天数就行。有时候他完全没有理由,只是要用旷课来休息,最后一年旷课最多,但这不影响他代表毕业生发言,大学里他很少旷课,除非是星期五。
唉,我家也有这个问题。我们都不愿意打电话了。
学校没有邮件通知。 除了这两个老师
小学和初中有
Hello! This is XXXX and I have Jane Doe in AP US History. I wanted to reach out with concerns. In particular Jane Doe seems to be struggling with making it to my first block class. In looking over her attendance record, she’s consistently missed class (at least once a week recently) and I worry she might miss out. She was absent again today, and the thing that's got me particularly frustrated is that she attends other periods--so there's an issue specifically with 1st block.
Luckily I post all my resources on Its Learning and for a highly capable student like Jane Doe I’m not too worried that she’s totally lost, and it’s not that her grade is suffering, but just in general I’m concerned about her well being and wanted to make sure you’re aware of Jane Doe's attendance issues. If there are particular circumstances that would explain Jane Doe's attendance gaps (besides missing for excused reasons like her recent trip to XXXX), I’d appreciate any insights you’d be willing to share.
Thanks in advance for your support and I look forward to hearing from you soon.
俺们那个年代中国又是那么的落后,压根没有人觉得她有问题,老师和家长都要么施压之后干脆置之不理。后来她自杀了,从教学楼跳了下去,没有留下只言片语,父母老师竞不知道她为什么自杀。俺来美后回想起来认为是抑郁症,她长期沉默寡言,从来不笑。
只不过以前EC,生病都有正式请假的。 这样只要考试成绩好,不影响 GPA 就行。
现在是明显飘了,觉得这些课是浪费时间,不想去上。
如果和老师协调好,不影响考试,不影响 GPA我们也不管。
但是现在这种情况看起来越来越严重,有可能会对申请大学造成很大影响。
update 一次。
他同学逃课的很多,尤其后面考AP阶段,有的连着几天都不去学校
俺娃小时候有一段时间迷上了一个系列的书,天天晩上不肯睡觉一定要读完,第二天上学无精打采,自由活动时也不跟小朋友玩了,坐在一旁,老师观察后写email 给俺,因为俺娃以前和小朋友一起非常活跃的,老师问俺是不是有什么事。俺回老师说沒事儿,她就是太累了,看小说晚上不肯睡觉
如果有需要看咨询师,看咨询师。如果有医生可以证明mental illness,成绩可以和学校商量,给补上。
有医生背书的话,啥都好商量。有时候孩子不肯和家长打开心扉,也许会愿意和professional讲。
每天迟到,逃课在宿舍睡觉。当时挺快乐的。就是懒得去上课。反正也没人管。
但最后一学期他经常不告诉我们,我们只是收到电话录音才知道,不过我们没有去解释,我儿子说他还可以旷好几天课。
她本来就没怎么正经在学校上过课。 11年级 GPA 还是年级第一。
这次是真的担心了。 居然连着5节课没有去上。 她现在说是在忙申请大学。 考试也和老师说好了,改日期了。 是老师忘记了。
我准备和老师好好谈谈
也无所谓,最好带孩子去儿医那里评估一下,这个时候听之任之,不是好办法。一个是要和学校沟通,看看可以缺多少课,另外就是看心理医生,找到解决问题的方法
上了高中就9年级上学期正常上课.然后是疫情网课。 疫情后 回学校上10年级,因为疫情 hybrid 学校不计考勤,从那个时候起,就养成了坏习惯。觉得不重要的课第一节就不去上。参加比赛缺课也多。这样高中本来就没正经上个什么课。 前三年 GPA, PSAT, SAT 都是第一。所以我们也懒得管她。
以前都只是第一节课受影响。 而且也不是每天都迟到。她的 EC确实搞得太多,太花时间了。以前我们不太计较也不算太离谱。 这次太过分了。 连着 missed 5 classes, 甚至 missed a quiz。Quiz 成绩是计在GPA 里。 如果不让重新补考,一次 quiz 0分 必然会大大影响 GPA。 这就不是小事了。
还是得和老师谈谈,希望给个机会,让她能够补考。以前确实没有管过她学校的事情。 以后盯紧她一点。
这样有可能也有理由补作业补考。原因 health issues。stress也是 health issues。 好好和孩子谈谈,家长要督促孩子上学出勤。周末要求他好好睡觉,不要玩过去了。
考了 97 分。她周二联系老师了。 希望能够把周二的 quiz reschedule 到周五。 老师也回复同意了。 五次课没有去上是真的。说是忙着一个比赛和这周开始准备 STS。 没办法, 一到学校上课就没劲, 一搞这些 EC 就和打了鸡血一样。晚上熬到二三点是常事。
只能好好说她。 希望以后别这么过分了。都 12 年级了, EC 可以放一下了。 偶尔一两次缺课要提前和我们说。 我们好去提前请假。不要一连5次课都不去。