这事是这样的，在周一周会上同事E 报告说有一个客户要求召开一个技术咨询会议，我说请加我，我也想Follow. It will be helpful when I back to work on this system from the developing of the new system. 此人当时说好的。结果，今天周三，他组织开完会了，跑来跟我说他忘了，你说，他就敢这样说。
不知我是否应该就心眼大些，不提这事了吗; 我说不出来"it is OK, it does not matter".
或者我这样说: I am not saying you are on purpose letting me NOT following this meeting, this issue. At the Monday meeting you and I we agreed to include me in this new meeting, but you just recalled what we agreed on right after the meeting finished- sounds not like a human mistake issue, more like an excuse, this does make me feel uncomfortable at your way of dealing this. I do not feel team work spirit at this matter. This system after all is not mine, neither yours. It is our team's. I do not like what I am hearing about this now.
I'd like to remind you that it is imparative that I attend all meetings with XXX. You forgot to notify me of this Monday's meeting, I hope this is the last time it happens.
When you have a chance, please send your summary of this Monday's meeting to me.
最近我被调去研发一个新的系统。但是我还在坚持主持现有客户的一个系统周会。其中一个原因是我不想丢掉我过去的工作技术，再者主持会议对我不是什么负担。 这个周会是每周一。。这个现有系统现在是由我同事E 一个人维护。这个E 技术强，但是心眼小，平时说话经常呛人。大家知道他技术好，都让着他。
我今天的烦恼是，同事E 跑来告诉我说，哎呀，我开完那个会我才想起来你在周一会议上说你想参加，我忘了邀请你参加这个会了。我就像吃了一个苍蝇一样，我不知道如何回答他的小心眼，我继续忙我的新系统开发，索性就不回他的信息。
这事是这样的，在周一周会上同事E 报告说有一个客户要求召开一个技术咨询会议，我说请加我，我也想Follow. It will be helpful when I back to work on this system from the developing of the new system. 此人当时说好的。结果，今天周三，他组织开完会了，跑来跟我说他忘了，你说，他就敢这样说。
不知我是否应该就心眼大些，不提这事了吗; 我说不出来"it is OK, it does not matter".
或者我这样说: I am not saying you are on purpose letting me NOT following this meeting, this issue. At the Monday meeting you and I we agreed to include me in this new meeting, but you just recalled what we agreed on right after the meeting finished- sounds not like a human mistake issue, more like an excuse, this does make me feel uncomfortable at your way of dealing this. I do not feel team work spirit at this matter. This system after all is not mine, neither yours. It is our team's. I do not like what I am hearing about this now.
大家看看，明天我这样回他，怎样?
Dear John,
I'd like to remind you that it is imparative that I attend all meetings with XXX. You forgot to notify me of this Monday's meeting, I hope this is the last time it happens.
When you have a chance, please send your summary of this Monday's meeting to me.
Thank you,
MiaoMiao
我会抄送头儿，但是否抄送依你的情况而定。
不过也对，我明天会在skype 上问他会议详情。因为他也许会讲得更多一些。但是据我了解此人他
不会说什么有用的东西的。
那么多人参加会，总有人会愿意把会议邀请转给你的吧？这次没有就开始培养。你若真是技术大拿，客户都会关照你。
还是那句话，多看看工作环境。领导是啥态度。如果领导偏向你，小人物翻不起大浪。反之，... ...
What was the meeting summary? 他给我讲述了结果。我们简单讨论了一下。没有问题。这事就过去了。
经过一晚冷静处理。我并没有显示自己的不满情绪。
这个会是他们三个人开的。一个小会。
谢谢楼上两位网友！
What was the meeting summary? 他给我讲述了结果。我们简单讨论了一下。没有问题。这事就过去了。
经过一晚冷静处理。我并没有显示自己的不满情绪。
这个会是他们三个人开的。一个小会。
谢谢楼上两位网友！