just write to the first offer telling them that you have to chan
write a nice letter ASAP so that they can find another one and show respect. Nothing is more important than yourself. This is a rule of America. They will respect your decision.
no need to feel bad to say no to the first offer; no need to
feel bad to say yes to the first offer. depending on what you are looking for. Creditability is important. But if it is a life changing opportunity, go for it. Again, need to evaluate what made you accept the first offer, what made you regret. If you have to make a change, convince yourself that it is really worth it by listing out all the points. This is an opportunity to teach the kid how to make decision and how to change mind when a wrong decision was made, and what needs to be done to make the negative effect the least to yourself and others. Respect the company that gave the first offer and make their loss as small as possible. Be sincere!
The first offer might not be that bad when you really go into it, but it might as well be not as good as the second one. The decision we make in our life is never perfect and right all the time. Good practice of decision making.
If you really need to change your mind, please write to the first company to tell them you might not be able to go ASAP and thank them for giving you such a great opportunity and hope to work with them in the future.
every company has its own goal of number of interns for each summer. If you accept one offer, it is responsible to to stick with it . You never know where your life will show you the best opportunity.
谁也不愿意惹这麻烦，不得已而为之，纯讨论。
人生很长，得失心早晚要渐渐消除。实在要反悔，娃自己安心就好
我主张答应了就去，不反悔
也没什么。早告诉人家。至少会上这家公司的黑名单
What goes around comes around. 愿赌服输
write a nice letter ASAP so that they can find another one and show respect. Nothing is more important than yourself. This is a rule of America. They will respect your decision.
签了， 除非有万不得已的理由别毁。
别说是个实习的offer，就算是是个正式工作的offer都最好要信守承诺。这是一个small world，以后会在一个圈子里混，尽量不要烧桥。信守承诺也许以后带给自己更多的机会。
feel bad to say yes to the first offer. depending on what you are looking for. Creditability is important. But if it is a life changing opportunity, go for it. Again, need to evaluate what made you accept the first offer, what made you regret. If you have to make a change, convince yourself that it is really worth it by listing out all the points. This is an opportunity to teach the kid how to make decision and how to change mind when a wrong decision was made, and what needs to be done to make the negative effect the least to yourself and others. Respect the company that gave the first offer and make their loss as small as possible. Be sincere!
The first offer might not be that bad when you really go into it, but it might as well be not as good as the second one. The decision we make in our life is never perfect and right all the time. Good practice of decision making.
If you really need to change your mind, please write to the first company to tell them you might not be able to go ASAP and thank them for giving you such a great opportunity and hope to work with them in the future.
听说今年好像谷歌guaranteed match没有什么选择，不像以前可以选team, 不知道到时候会分到哪里喜欢不喜欢
the worst is that the kid thinks he can promise and then break the promise easily without consequence
签约之前当然要想清楚，不要轻易毁约。但如有不得已非得违约也是存在的。
我是不知道前因后果，只是看了主贴问的必须要毁约的后果。
every company has its own goal of number of interns for each summer. If you accept one offer, it is responsible to to stick with it . You never know where your life will show you the best opportunity.
每个公司会有自己的tier schools，有的喜欢南加大小刘，有的某部门喜欢附近的SJSU 学生
而且有能力的话，大公司也不会因为拒了一个intern的offer以后就不接受申请了。
Accepting Offer Then Reneging
https://www.wallstreetoasis.com/forums/accepting-offer-then-reneging#:~:text=Just%20tell%20them%20that%20you,come%20away%20on%20good%20terms.?
但是怎么办呀？
大不了做好准备以后不去这家就是了。再说，以后的事谁知道呢？说不定以后人家求着孩子去呢？
。说真的，美国大公司，好公司多得是。
多说感谢的话，多表示道歉，最主要的是尽早，入职前最后一周才通知，人家八成恨你一辈子。。
居然有本书名叫反悔。
Renegade: The Making of a President Book by Richard Wolffe明年暑假的实习，G面试在先，过了后等team match，一直没消息，现有一个offer，不能再延长了。有两种选择，为了去G豁出去了，死等。
2, 接了现在的offer。但是就怕G来信肯定经不住诱惑，拒了这个去G.
除非另一家差不多，就不用等了，但是谷歌先签了才能开始match 吧，这样不是变成反悔谷歌了？
其实就是一个offer的deadline到了，再等的offer还没信，接了这个怕另一个来了后悔。
一边联系G问问现在的情况，再同时申请别的公司做backup，现在才11月份。现在有的offer就不要签了。
是签了team match的表, 但是没说 Guarantee 只有macth以后才给offer，没有保障。担心放弃了这个，如果没有macth到，就没有实习了
只要让对方有足够的时间找到下一个人，就伤害不大。。。
其实如果没有G，这家也挺满意的。早定下来早心安
特别想去Google就拒了现在offer死等，还早也还可以找其他的。如果喜欢现在的，就别再纠结Google了，高年级照样可以进。
你娃有你这么纠结吗lol还是家长想太多了？
当年周润发不敢去中国大陆拍戏，怕被台湾封杀, 就推荐刘德华演那个角色.
刘德华说他是不是也该小心点不要被台湾封杀, 周润发说你还没有名气怕什么封杀.
https://v.qq.com/x/page/e08523z9p17.html
two very different career pathways, 那才值得反悔
Keeping promise 是一种积福行为， 没有绝对必要时，不值得反悔
我家的拿到两offer，一家比另一家高不少，我想当然说intern呀当然去高得多的一家，结果孩子说，不，要去另一家，低的，因为公司team好。好吧，听孩子的。
有头有脸的人常常有不光彩的过去.
https://www.1point3acres.com/bbs/thread-745199-1-1.html
我家的去的也是第一家给面试的。估计都视金钱为那啥。
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我孩子选择不等。现在毕业了也很好，在五大的另一大。做什么比在哪家做重要，而Google即使招new grad full time，事先也不知道是跟什么组做哪方面。
Offer letter signed by G CEO