and I never plan to go over there again. There are many reasons for that.
The most important reason is that for this person mentioned above or for me there's neither needs nor desire to go to China. Food is the major reason some people are attracted to China, not me. I don't have any craving for foods.
Once you get off craving for the foods, the most intricate, personal connection to China is over.
I don't want to see anyone there, and I'm very concerned about the political atmosphere. What if there's no way back?
Just thinking about the Chinese authorities and bureaucracy makes me fringe. You never know what can happen.
I have nightmares about living in China, seriously. I used to dream of being sentenced to death, and close to be executed.
It's just so fearful to me, seeing so many people being killed every year when I was a child. It was brutal witnessing the
atrocities. Should everyone of those people deserve to be shot and killed and humiliated in public? I doubt it.
I've seen people got sentenced and executed for totally wrong reasons, for a brawl on the street or being a speculator.
Someone got killed in a street fight, the perpetrator escaped, the one dumber youth, who was my neighbor, was caught.
He was executed at 18 years old. I don't want to see anyone being put to death that way. I don't want to revisit China.
我以为是自己听错了，或者是人家故意这么说的。后来听另外一个跟她父母住的很近的老同学说是真的。太让我感到意外了。中国和北美无非十几个小时的飞机，便宜的时候机票才几百块。真的想不出这么多年结婚生子养育起一双儿女怎么就找不出个时间回国看看。
所以你们说成年儿女多长时间回父母家看看，看的话住多长时间。可能也是视情况而定吧。
父母年纪大了别麻烦他们了, 一回去一大家子那么多人做饭都累死个人了, 要不就回去自己伺候自己, 别指望别人伺候
但是她弟弟居然就收下了，也是故意借着父母的糊涂装糊涂欺负姐姐。
为了保持心理平衡，希望老公家也这样，只传男
我就是来美16年后才回国的，当然我父母早已不在。
回国对我来说是很痛苦的事，如果没有道德绑架，我真心觉得远离，忘却是最好的治愈。
故土以后也就是一般的旅游区。
如果和家里人关系不好的话，一辈子不来往也正。
and I never plan to go over there again. There are many reasons for that.
The most important reason is that for this person mentioned above or for me there's neither needs nor desire to go to China. Food is the major reason some people are attracted to China, not me. I don't have any craving for foods.
Once you get off craving for the foods, the most intricate, personal connection to China is over.
I don't want to see anyone there, and I'm very concerned about the political atmosphere. What if there's no way back?
Just thinking about the Chinese authorities and bureaucracy makes me fringe. You never know what can happen.
I have nightmares about living in China, seriously. I used to dream of being sentenced to death, and close to be executed.
It's just so fearful to me, seeing so many people being killed every year when I was a child. It was brutal witnessing the
atrocities. Should everyone of those people deserve to be shot and killed and humiliated in public? I doubt it.
I've seen people got sentenced and executed for totally wrong reasons, for a brawl on the street or being a speculator.
Someone got killed in a street fight, the perpetrator escaped, the one dumber youth, who was my neighbor, was caught.
He was executed at 18 years old. I don't want to see anyone being put to death that way. I don't want to revisit China.
孩子们小的时候有限的假期都用在孩子生病上了。哪有回国的时间。可以理解。
过国，好像是回国会影响他们拿身份，我不在美国，不懂为什么会影响拿身份
老师带队走到山上枪毙反革命分子的现场， 让我们远远地围观。此后噩梦不断。
其中一位还是我们的教授邻居， 名字上打着红叉， 也跪在地上。谁知道他是绑去陪法场的，检验他是否真的有精神病。。。
都是211学校的大学生，一个系的。学校送出来的一水儿学生
影响拿身份的应该是黑下来的
就觉得不看看有点儿遗憾。毕竟是地球上发展最快的地方
没什么特别抓马的事情
人的一生，说一晃就过去了
这家父母是在装糊涂