Dare to be Different

亦舒
楼主 (文学峸)

ZT

"If you desire to make a difference in the world, you must be different from the world.” 

— Elaine S. Dalton

If you want to change things, you need to rattle some cages, shake things up, and go for the bold.

You have to find the edge.

And, then push past it.

The way to change the world, or at least your world, is to dare to be different.  When you dare to be different, you step out of the mold, and you make space for your creative twists.  When you dare to be different, sometimes you stand alone.  But alone is where your unique creative contribution can thrive.

It’s what leaders, great artists, and inspiring minds, do.  They take us beyond the edges of conformity to pave brave new frontiers.

In the book, Creative Anarchy: How To Break the Rules of Graphic Design for Creative Success, Denise Bosler encourages us to dare to be different and to boldly go where no one has gone before.

Ask Yourself Why Everyone is Doing It

Always question WHY.  Just because everybody else is doing it, doesn’t mean it’s a good idea or even that it’s working.

Bosler writes:

“Breaking the rules is not for the meek designer or timid client.  It takes guts to go against the industry norms.  Fear breeds an attitude of, ‘Everybody else is doing it so I should probably do it, too.’
But ask yourself: Is there a valid reason why everyone is doing it, or is everyone doing it just because everyone else is doing it?  The creative anarchist always questions why.”

Beware the Lemming-Like Attitude

One way to kill your creativity is to do the same as what everybody else is doing.

Bosler writes:

“Perfume advertising is a great example of this lemming-like attitude.  A sullen, handsome, chisel-faced male looks longingly into the distance.  A stunning girl comes to him.  They embrace, almost kiss, and exchange smoldering looks like posing as beautifully as possible.  That’s it for 90 percent of perfume advertising.  Creativity? Innovative concept? “

Take Risks

When everybody else is doing the same thing, sometimes the best thing you can do, is something totally different.

Bosler writes:

“Too many industries do the same thing over and over again.  But once in a blue moon, an advertiser dares to be different.  Dari Marder, chief marketing office or Iconix Group, Inc, turned the advertising world on its head when she suggested that the 1997 Candie’s shoe advertising campaign feature Jenny McCarthy sitting on a toilet.  With underwear around her ankles and Candie’s shoes on her feet, McCarthy, and Mader, created a provocative, controversial, and highly-successful ad campaign.  The target audience girls loved it–the moms, not so much.  Shoe advertising was never the same again.”

Provocative, Unexpected, and Spectacular

Stir hearts and minds with your creative twist.  The bold can be beautiful.

Bosler writes:

“’Provocative’ is music to the ears of the creative anarchist.  Other great words and phrases include: unexpected, infectious, viral, unusual, shocking, spectacular, double-take, visual surprise, ‘I want to hang it on my wall,’ and ‘I want to show everyone.’  In fact, try to make hearing those words your goal when pushing design boundaries.”

Sometimes the best way to find the edge that people are looking for, is to look beyond your own boundaries.

 

u
usanyc80
我祝福你早日找到你想要的幸福,但是别太迷信,有钱人并不是品德一流或德高望重,别为了有钱人委屈自己迎合他人没有自我,做你自己就很好
l
lookatme..
咱还是老老实实做人,down to earth 为好

拖家带口,不敢头上长角

O
Oona
意识到这一点就已经是美好人生的开始了,不必一样,自己知道自己想要什么想要做什么,就去做,谋事在人,成事在天。
a
aha123
想要不同

那就去找个没钱的

h
hhtt
Born to be wild, look for a rich guy and marry him until death w
有个用户名
你这些事儿其实也不算啥事儿。你唯一的不同是全晒出来。我围观不是因为你另类,而是从某些角度警戒一下自己
l
lookatme..
她曾经

和一学生哥好过,不是吗?

桃子苹果
哈哈。。。刚喝了一口水,差点喷出来。。
咪呜
哈哈哈哈哈

笑死了

D
DoraDora2008
如果找到了,可以开班授课了,肯定踊跃报名。
l
lookatme..
我对钱没啥反应,也不喜欢吃大餐
名校FAN
安娜晴天好像没写过这方面的,她的意大利游记是我喜欢的..
j
julie116
调皮捣蛋:)
b
borisg
Oh yeah, listen to this one...

 

军大衣
哈哈哈
j
julie116
孩子小的各种框框多
s
sansemao
晴天自身强大,生活富足。

她找人一定是情投意合,不会出来说的。

h
hhtt
我对男人也没反应,也不喜欢吃巴肥!
名校FAN
哈哈,都是单妈嘛..
l
lookatme..
那你混女人堆干吗?
螺丝螺帽
还真没有。她还活在梦里, 寻找梦里的浪漫。她为对方解读太多, 还往高大上靠。。。

假如我是她, 我不会直播寻找的过程。

偶尔写之, 可能。

 

直到找到了那个高大上, 最主要是他爱我, 我爱他的款式, 就来个大鸣大放, 大庆祝。

 

嘿嘿, 她现在的样子, 我就觉得不靠谱。

p
purple123
你们找的都是没钱的,,,
咪呜
老姐姐就是与人为善,照顾别人情绪
h
hhtt
看你这问题问的?我对女人是绝对有反应!而且很大!都不好意思说了!我这不是在等梅拉妮和老川离婚吗?
有个用户名
她变成圣人那多没意思
咪呜
因为我想与众不同,所以找了个没钱的
咪呜
老糊涂突然清醒了一下
p
purple123
所以她要与众不同
螺丝螺帽
哈哈!我

喜欢山寨梅拉妮的搭配

咪呜
你意思她想与我不同而已
S
Sequoia_CA
哈哈,笑死我了!
雨女
你好像每次都大泼冷水。
雨女
我也不太明白这么隐私的话题,怎么全部都写出来了。
雨女
哈哈哈哈哈。。。。。今天最强贴。
S
Speedy2426
哈哈哈
b
better.life
哈哈哈,每次都被你的幽默呛到
k
kingfish2010
哈哈,赞糊涂兄不忘初心
S
Speedy2426
螺姐你教教她怎样撩,她不行
军大衣
笑到喷饭
螺丝螺帽
我在生活中看到会撩得, 但是, 不是我

我在边上看的云里雾里的, 哈哈!