gifted money to you alone is not subject to division .
If a parent gives a gift to their child and their spouse, it is marital property subject to equitable distribution at a later time. If a parent gives an asset to their child, and it is contaminated by co-mingling, it may also become marital property. A gift should be to your child only and the gift must not be comingled with other marital assets.
The article itself is not important, the important thing is that there is CA constititution provision that is relevant to your situation. You have to show him the relevant law, such as CA consitution or CA statute.
So many know CA is community property state. It means any community property belongs to both spouse. However, there is also a separate property in CA marriage. Separate property is not community property and does not have to be divided in 1/2.
If you want to do this right, get a lawyer. You cannot DIY.
If a parent gives a gift to their child and their spouse, it is marital property subject to equitable distribution at a later time. If a parent gives an asset to their child, and it is contaminated by co-mingling, it may also become marital property. A gift should be to your child only and the gift must not be comingled with other marital assets.
https://www.kgglaw.com/articles/problems-with-gifts-from-parents.shtml/#:~:text=If%20a%20parent%20gives%20a,may%20also%20become%20marital%20property.?
其实这个规矩在哪里都一样，中国婚姻法也有规定。
第十七条 夫妻在婚姻关系存续期间所得的下列财产，归夫妻共同所有：
（一）工资、奖金；
（二）生产、经营的收益；
（三）知识产权的收益；
（四）继承或赠与所得的财产，但本法第十八条第三项规定的除外；
（五）其他应当归共同所有的财产。
夫妻对共同所有的财产，有平等的处理权。
第十八条 有下列情形之一的，为夫妻一方的财产：
（一）一方的婚前财产；
（二）一方因身体受到伤害获得的医疗费、残疾人生活补助费等费用；
（三）遗嘱或赠与合同中确定只归夫或妻一方的财产；
（四）一方专用的生活用品；
（五）其他应当归一方的财产。
https://heleneltaylor.com/inheritance-separate-property/
The article itself is not important, the important thing is that there is CA constititution provision that is relevant to your situation. You have to show him the relevant law, such as CA consitution or CA statute.
So many know CA is community property state. It means any community property belongs to both spouse. However, there is also a separate property in CA marriage. Separate property is not community property and does not have to be divided in 1/2.
If you want to do this right, get a lawyer. You cannot DIY.
你提供的资料对我很有帮助，我会去请律师来解决的。 另外我想问一下，如果现在就这笔钱补开一张我向母亲的借条，会不会也能有帮助？
錢是如何轉過來的? 十幾萬美元，你的先生是否有參與這個錢的轉移?
同時這筆錢在你的帳戶中還是兩人的聯合帳戶?
如果有利息是否按規定報稅?
钱是这些年我母亲利用自己每年的5万美元额度、还有借用其他亲朋好友的5万美元额度一点一点换成美元后wire过来的。这边都是我一个人在操作，他没有任何参与，但是最后两笔5万因为无法从国内寄到我的银行，所以借用了他的银行接收的，到账之后就立即转到了我自己的银行。现在所有的钱都存在我一个人的账户，所有的利息每年也都按时报税。
当然如果律师请得好，离婚对方又通情达理，也还能办。
Gift tax in US is paid by the giver. LZ's mother is a chinese national, she's not subject to US tax.
There is no need to do that, gift to one person is not marital asset.
If you make a promisory note now, the other party can say you are commiting fraud. Since loan is not needed, I'd suggest not to do it.
借用他的账户，就是co-mingle，这十万元有根据说是community property。你就给五万作为妥协吧。
你現在應該知道，老貓為什麼會問那幾個問題。
老貓的下一個問題是，誰主動要離婚? 同時什麼原因?
主动提出离婚的是他，原因很简单，双方在一起早已无话可说了
太感谢老猫详尽的回复了！确实如你所说，先时间换空间，然后做妥善规划，应该是我现在能做的最好办法了。你说的那种买安养之家床位再排队，也是一个很好的办法，以前我都没留心过，从现在起要好好关注啦。
再次诚挚感谢老猫和其他网友们为我提供的宝贵建议!