The detectives and laywers fees are losses. She was very generous to gave her ex husband 2 months of salaries before they get married ( and she did not stop loss and still get married), and her ex-husband actually took advantage of her original family. Also she was decent that let her in-laws to have enough shopping money, which now aday a lot of women did not have that virtue. And she paid that across door Nanny so much while only the across door kids baby sitting her daughter and the little girl even got pnumonia. She has her own pricipal before. It is the stress and the fear of retirement poverty which she let all accumulative benefit go too easily ( loss in stock, giveup too much in China) cause her ilusion. no matter what I still feel sad for Mr S.
that money must from her own, S will not pay for these cost
I am sure. She has some allowance and saving ( when you loss to stock market, you still have 5% or 10% balance, unless that stock filed banckruptcy, which I did loss huge, damn it!) while no spending, since everything is covered by S already, maybe even gift to the dancer companion Kim wa covered by S too.
本月博客人气榜首席肯定是佩妮燕京人，她在第261篇的最后有一句是，美国不是一切都是光明美好的。
1994年有部21集电视剧《北京人在纽约》播出，北航副教授佩妮在之前一年赴美可能错过收看。同年，电视剧获得第12届电视金鹰奖，而佩妮因交流项目结束逾期不回国被单位除名。中国高级知识分子在美国成为无产阶级的一员，餐馆打工、卖保险、居家保姆等。
燕京人比北京人更突出她的文化背景，政权更替打碎了家族的文化买办优势。国籍已经不是身份的唯一界定，当有机会回到梦开始的地方，在中国的所有都可以放弃，在美国什么样的挑战都能够勇敢面对。
丰子恺曾讲过人生三层楼，物质生活、精神生活和灵魂生活。佩妮是燕园长大，弹钢琴跳交谊舞、游泳旅游，饮食荤素搭配加点海鲜，完全是踏上二层楼的人。美国丈夫学历低，旅游游泳之外没有其它爱好，吃喝要求一般，性生活要求很高的样子，和大多数中国人美国人一样留恋在一层楼，年过古稀要爬到二层楼难度太大了。
最近文章讲夫妻矛盾，其实当时双方结婚主要是解决身份，以照顾男方吃喝拉撒为交换条件。还是清官难断家务事，二人的命都是很硬的。
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是因为她找不到比司更好的。既然觉得司配不上她，她完全可以自食其力，或者让她女儿养活呀。这家人就是不能亏了自己。她和她女儿都是。
其实当时双方结婚主要是解决身份，以照顾男方吃喝拉撒为交换条件。佩妮除了在司身体好的时候，带他去看病，旅游，还干什么了？她和司去的那些地方，她当保姆可没钱去。司在最需要照顾的晚年，是大儿子照顾了9年，她不仅没尽义务，还要每个月2000刀美金。司真是被它拿捏的死死的，一点不像美国人。大儿子后来要求只付500刀，她不是大闹吗？老头的葬礼人家都不邀请她，可见恨她到什么地步了。当然后面她完全可以写她自己不想去。
这个关系里面司是完全的失败。佩妮得到了她想要的一切。因为比司年轻，还能在司死后诋毁他和他的家人。网友们实在看不下去了，还有给她洗白的。真是服了
前面不说了，司带她旅游，她也做家务，带着看病。最后的9年呢？最需要她照顾的时候她不在身边，还要每个月给她2000刀。当然你会说，那是因为他们吵闹。我现在突然觉得，这不会是佩妮早计划好的吧？整天抓奸，把老头闹得受不了，去找儿子。她也不用伺候老头，还能每月拿2000刀。搞好了，还能把老头送进精神病院，自己把一套纽约的房产落到手里。她是出准了司的后代也是弱鸡。看看人家金，早看出她是什么人，就是不上当
白？一会年龄，一会性格的。我看她把司耍得一愣一愣的，这性格她可是一点没吃亏呀
通过网友你一句我一句地脑补，要么把当事人升华成“神”，要么把当事人妖魔化为十恶不赦的“魔”。她就是一个人，跟你我一样的人。
只能说我不清空会得到更多而已. 你还没一个亿呢， 损失个鬼啊
取代女主人，可惜富人还是眼光毒辣，没让她得逞。这倒是可以称得上损失吧
The detectives and laywers fees are losses. She was very generous to gave her ex husband 2 months of salaries before they get married ( and she did not stop loss and still get married), and her ex-husband actually took advantage of her original family. Also she was decent that let her in-laws to have enough shopping money, which now aday a lot of women did not have that virtue. And she paid that across door Nanny so much while only the across door kids baby sitting her daughter and the little girl even got pnumonia. She has her own pricipal before. It is the stress and the fear of retirement poverty which she let all accumulative benefit go too easily ( loss in stock, giveup too much in China) cause her ilusion. no matter what I still feel sad for Mr S.
And apology to MaLaiRen that I call her low.
I am sure. She has some allowance and saving ( when you loss to stock market, you still have 5% or 10% balance, unless that stock filed banckruptcy, which I did loss huge, damn it!) while no spending, since everything is covered by S already, maybe even gift to the dancer companion Kim wa covered by S too.
当呀。就和摔猫一样，怎么做都是她的理。
出狱后活到90多岁死的。太成功了吧！
有什么办法，她的能力得到司已经最好了。她想要的不是都得到了吗。司离婚离不了，她不伺候，每个月还给2000刀，还要怎么样？
是两人共同商量的生活费吧。这些不都是正常范围内的事吗？