哈佛大学:从10个方面培养一个内心真正强大的孩子

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1. Rigid yet adaptable 固执而又变通    Rigid yet adaptable: Being firm in your belief yet be flexible enough to change when proven wrong. 固执而又会变通,坚持自己的想法,但是如果这些想法被证明是错误的时候,有足够的灵活性去改变。

2. Careful yet carefree 敏感但不执着    Careful yet carefree: Being aware and cautious yet not giving a damn to every thing that crosses my way. 敏感但不执着,对身边的各种人事物保持敏感度,但没有任何人事物可以霸占你的内心,使你裹足不前。
3. Mellow yet fervent 稳重但又热烈    Mellow yet fervent: Being calm in calamity and a cracker in celebration. 稳重但又热烈,在困境面前能保持冷静,但又能在欢庆中引爆全场。
4. Old yet young   成熟但又年轻 Old yet young: Being experienced like your grandfather yet energetic like a child. 成熟但又年轻,像你的爷爷一样饱经世事,但又像孩子一样充满活力。
5. Learned yet foolish 学了很多但又保持求知若渴的心   Learned yet foolish: Being well read though knowing you still know nothing. 学了很多但又保持一颗求知若渴的心,虽然读了很多书,但内心知道比起浩瀚的知识海洋,自己还是一无所知。
6. Sharp yet forgetful 固善记但又善忘    Sharp yet forgetful: Being intelligent with a strong memory yet deleting all the trash and negativity. 善记但又善忘,敏而好学,有很好的记忆力,但又懂得取舍,删除所有的垃圾信息和负面情绪。
7. Observant yet active 会观察但也爱尝试    Observant yet active: Being able to observe and learn from others' mistakes yet not fearing to make my own. 会观察但也爱尝试,会通过观察别人的错误总结经验,但有机会,也不害怕自己亲自去尝试。
8.  Leader yet follower 是个好领导者也能做个好的跟从者   Leader yet follower: Being the one that all look up to yet not looking down upon them. 是一个很好的领导者同时也能做一个好的跟从者,能做大家都愿意追随的领导者,但也从不轻视任何一个队员,能跟他们和睦相处。
9. Selfless yet selfish 无私但又自私    Selfless yet selfish: Being able to help others yet making provisions for your own self. 无私但又自私,愿意帮助他人,但也会为自己争得应有的回报。
10. Patient yet restless 既耐心又不安分    Patient yet restless: Being able to accept defeat with grace yet not resting a moment to achieve success once again. 既耐心又不安分,能带着感恩的心坦然接受失败,不怨天尤人,同时自己也不会停下去不断尝试成功的脚步。
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