关于男女关系

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Dreamer
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对于单身的人,不管男女,但特别是女人,我支持sex and city里所有女性包括
Samantha的生活态度,不伤害别人,知道自己要什么、按自己的想法活。我没有每集都看,不追究细节了,只是支持她们的生活态度。

对于因为爱情走到一起、已婚的,包括那些在有法律保障的de facto 关系中的,不管
男女,我支持结婚誓言:I, ____, take you, ____, to be my (husband/wife). I
promise to be true to you in good times and in bad, in sickness and in
health. I will love you and honour you all the days of my life.

这不是说我反对离婚,如果合不来,衡量各方得失后该离就离,不要委屈自己、欺骗对方。假设还在婚内或者还没有同意分居各自精彩,就要诚实。吃着碗里,看着锅里,时时算计着找下家的我很不齿。不要说男人也怎样怎样,男人行事作风不是女人的标准,更不是榜样。我心目中的女权从来不是要学着男人的风格,而是活出自己,不然你永远是活在男人的阴影里。

不来虚的,来点实在的,看看这篇报道,事业有成的男人不傻,能被你玩于股掌之间的,呵呵。。。。

多年前路透社报道的真实事件。一个25 岁的女性在Craigslist 上登广告找年薪一百万的丈夫,下面是一个符合条件的银行家给她的回复。

"Your looks will fade and my money will likely continue into perpetuity ... in fact, it is very likely that my income increases but it is an absolute
certainty that you won't be getting any more beautiful!" the banker wrote.

"So, in economic terms you are a depreciating asset and I am an earning
asset," he said. "Let me explain, you're 25 now and will likely stay pretty hot for the next 5 years, but less so each year. Then the fade begins in
earnest. By 35 stick a fork in you!"

"It doesn't make good business sense to "buy you" (which is what you're
asking) so I'd rather lease," he said.