Gee.... I really feel sorry for him. I actually read his suicide note, very carefully. I can only say that he had suffered a lot during his 27 years of life. He was raped repeatedly as a 4-year old kid, I totally understand the huge negative impact on his life. For a person with his experience, I don't blame him and definitely wouldn't call him a coward~~~
But I do blame his parents for bad parenting. If you read his notes, his parents are fundamentalist Christians who take religion very seriously and narrowly. I do feel that his life would be much better if his parents can see him as a SON, not an unsaved person who is doomed for Hell~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ How can some people "love" God so much that they hate their own child.........
Maybe it is some pastor in some church...... He didn't name the person in his notes, but his dad is a pastor. So I guess he went to Church quite often as a kid? The funny thing is that his dad really believes that every Catholic is going to Hell too~~~ How can people be so stupid and naive????
Maybe it is some pastor in some church...... He didn't name the person in his notes, but his dad is a pastor. So I guess he went to Church quite often as a kid? The funny thing is that his dad really believes that every Catholic is going to Hell too~~~ How can people be so stupid and naive????
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”they kicked him out of the house at age 19 because he refused to attend church at least seven hours each week.“
I feel there must be something happened in the church....
Sigh, go to sleep now~~~ Hopefully, most people in this post will show some sympathy for him not just kidding about his Niu or Not Niu~~~ Schools are really nothing compared to a lot of things in life ~~~
Gee.... I really feel sorry for him. I actually read his suicide note, very carefully. I can only say that he had suffered a lot during his 27 years of life. He was raped repeatedly as a 4-year old kid, I totally understand the huge negative impact on his life. For a person with his experience, I don't blame him and definitely wouldn't call him a coward~~~
But I do blame his parents for bad parenting. If you read his notes, his parents are fundamentalist Christians who take religion very seriously and narrowly. I do feel that his life would be much better if his parents can see him as a SON, not an unsaved person who is doomed for Hell~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ How can some people "love" God so much that they hate their own child.........
Sigh, go to sleep now~~~ Hopefully, most people in this post will show some sympathy for him not just kidding about his Niu or Not Niu~~~ Schools are really nothing compared to a lot of things in life ~~~
Gee.... I really feel sorry for him. I actually read his suicide note, very carefully. I can only say that he had suffered a lot during his 27 years of life. He was raped repeatedly as a 4-year old kid, I totally understand the huge negative impact on his life. For a person with his experience, I don't blame him and definitely wouldn't call him a coward~~~
But I do blame his parents for bad parenting. If you read his notes, his parents are fundamentalist Christians who take religion very seriously and narrowly. I do feel that his life would be much better if his parents can see him as a SON, not an unsaved person who is doomed for Hell~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ How can some people "love" God so much that they hate their own child.........
I did read his note carefully too. And I absolutely agree with you
I feel so sorry for him. but with no blame at all. People who are not him would not feel what he suffered for 23 years. His parents were too restrict to him on the religion issue, though i dont want to judge the religion itself. Hope he could get peace forever. I was thinking of the possibility to lose his memory in surgery, which might be better for him.
A very very sad story. He has been so lonely for so long... I'm wondering if his parents were more normal parents, would he tell his parents about the truth earlier?
And I really don't understand how can a 4 year old kid kept the secret so well without letting the parents know. As he mentioned that he actually got some physical damage as well. How could his parents not find it!!!
I feel sorry for his parents. Maybe they are really not the kind of person Bill thought they are but his deep wound let him view the whole world differently.
Gee.... I really feel sorry for him. I actually read his suicide note, very carefully. I can only say that he had suffered a lot during his 27 years of life. He was raped repeatedly as a 4-year old kid, I totally understand the huge negative impact on his life. For a person with his experience, I don't blame him and definitely wouldn't call him a coward~~~
But I do blame his parents for bad parenting. If you read his notes, his parents are fundamentalist Christians who take religion very seriously and narrowly. I do feel that his life would be much better if his parents can see him as a SON, not an unsaved person who is doomed for Hell~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ How can some people "love" God so much that they hate their own child.........
because they are selfish, they only care if they can go to heaven after death. If Jesus ever exist, itself is very selfish, he determines someone to go to hell or heaven only depends on whether they believes him or not. [此贴子已经被作者于2011/1/15 14:03:14编辑过]
I had an american friend who told me that she ever didn't like her mom, because her mon married with her father who was not a christian! She told me that's made her shameful, at last her farther became a christian in a few year's time
做父母的千万要小心啊，美国这方面的禽兽太多了
新闻链接：http://www.nj.com/news/index.ssf/2011/01/princeton_grad_student_commits.html
遗书：http://documents.from.bz/note.txt
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太想不开了，bless...
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他的research方向挺有前景的唉
按版里规矩这人不牛啊，本科是Trinity College的。
英国那个trinity不比ivy差吧
太想不开了，bless...
按版里规矩这人不牛啊，本科是Trinity College的。
本科无所谓吧 ...
But I do blame his parents for bad parenting. If you read his notes, his parents are fundamentalist Christians who take religion very seriously and narrowly. I do feel that his life would be much better if his parents can see him as a SON, not an unsaved person who is doomed for Hell~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ How can some people "love" God so much that they hate their own child.........
太想不开了，bless...
按版里规矩这人不牛啊，本科是Trinity College的。
一看child molestation我就想到了神父……
Maybe it is some pastor in some church...... He didn't name the person in his notes, but his dad is a pastor. So I guess he went to Church quite often as a kid? The funny thing is that his dad really believes that every Catholic is going to Hell too~~~ How can people be so stupid and naive????
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英国那个trinity不比ivy差吧
美国的那个trinity差
so what? 烂校也能考清华研究生么...
烂校就只能一辈子烂么...
Maybe it is some pastor in some church...... He didn't name the person in his notes, but his dad is a pastor. So I guess he went to Church quite often as a kid? The funny thing is that his dad really believes that every Catholic is going to Hell too~~~ How can people be so stupid and naive????
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”they kicked him out of the house at age 19 because he refused to attend church at least seven hours each week.“
I feel there must be something happened in the church....
so what? 烂校也能考清华研究生么...
烂校就只能一辈子烂么...
我可不是那意思，我也是烂笑的。。。你可以把我理解成有看帖后遗症。。我爱联想。
爱哑哑， 居然若人生气了。。不说了。。。。
可怜的孩子
Gee.... I really feel sorry for him. I actually read his suicide note, very carefully. I can only say that he had suffered a lot during his 27 years of life. He was raped repeatedly as a 4-year old kid, I totally understand the huge negative impact on his life. For a person with his experience, I don't blame him and definitely wouldn't call him a coward~~~
But I do blame his parents for bad parenting. If you read his notes, his parents are fundamentalist Christians who take religion very seriously and narrowly. I do feel that his life would be much better if his parents can see him as a SON, not an unsaved person who is doomed for Hell~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ How can some people "love" God so much that they hate their own child.........
Mm I absolutely agree with you...
Sigh, go to sleep now~~~ Hopefully, most people in this post will show some sympathy for him not just kidding about his Niu or Not Niu~~~ Schools are really nothing compared to a lot of things in life ~~~
Sigh.. I just ignore those replies
我没生气阿... 烂校出来的牛人很多的...
特别是美国 很多孩子本科不奔藤校
”they kicked him out of the house at age 19 because he refused to attend church at least seven hours each week.“
I feel there must be something happened in the church....
读了以后我觉得molester就是他爸,also a Christian pastor.
Amy chua 那个 no sleepover 真是对的。希望他再天堂能摆脱痛苦。
是啊。
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真可怜。但是我想问个技术问题？男孩子也会被人那啥么？我实在不懂。。。
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那你以为同性恋(男)之间怎么办事儿?
为啥church里会发生这种事啊....好多起了...经常听到....
没说是church吧
没说是church吧
不是说那个男的高中的时候拒绝参加教会么...猜测与此有关.
Gee.... I really feel sorry for him. I actually read his suicide note, very carefully. I can only say that he had suffered a lot during his 27 years of life. He was raped repeatedly as a 4-year old kid, I totally understand the huge negative impact on his life. For a person with his experience, I don't blame him and definitely wouldn't call him a coward~~~
But I do blame his parents for bad parenting. If you read his notes, his parents are fundamentalist Christians who take religion very seriously and narrowly. I do feel that his life would be much better if his parents can see him as a SON, not an unsaved person who is doomed for Hell~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ How can some people "love" God so much that they hate their own child.........
I did read his note carefully too. And I absolutely agree with you
不是说那个男的高中的时候拒绝参加教会么...猜测与此有关.
这个不一定 我感觉是幼儿园 汗
他不是说幼儿园他不敢上厕所么
I did read his note carefully too. And I absolutely agree with you
我也读了 这个note让我真得觉得
死有时候比或者好多了...
我也读了 这个note让我真得觉得
死有时候比或者好多了...
是的。我仔细的读了，一字一句都让我感觉到他的痛。
个人认为他的父母对这个孩子短暂的一生里的痛苦负大部分的责任。
bless!
People who are not him would not feel what he suffered for 23 years.
His parents were too restrict to him on the religion issue, though i dont want to judge the religion itself.
Hope he could get peace forever.
I was thinking of the possibility to lose his memory in surgery, which might be better for him.
A very very sad story. He has been so lonely for so long... I'm wondering if his parents were more normal parents, would he tell his parents about the truth earlier?
And I really don't understand how can a 4 year old kid kept the secret so well without letting the parents know. As he mentioned that he actually got some physical damage as well. How could his parents not find it!!!
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有的痛苦能排解减缓，有的不能吧，想想这些年他内心所受的痛苦和挣扎，应那句这世界每秒钟都有人在痛苦中挣扎。
英国那个trinity不比ivy差吧
美国的trinity也是个很不错的文理学院啊
为啥对文理学院不熟悉还老贬低人家呢
美国的也不错啊，是liberal arts,很少人知道罢了
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以下是引用jiucaihezi在1/15/2011 2:00:00 AM的发言：
按版里规矩这人不牛啊，本科是Trinity College的。
为什么不把那只狼公开出来！？不要让它逃脱应有的惩罚！
r。i。p。
美国的trinity也是个很不错的文理学院啊
为啥对文理学院不熟悉还老贬低人家呢
re,这个帖子的point压根不是学校排名好歹，怎么啥都能联系上学校的牛还是烂。。。
只能bless。。。。
为啥church里会发生这种事啊....好多起了...经常听到....
嫩以为有宗教信仰的就一定是好人那？宗教里这种恶心的事情多着呢
人的心理承受能力
埃，号称那么爱上帝的，也不怕死后遭惩罚吗？
bless bless!
R.I.P.
设身处地的想了一下，如果我是他，可能我会花钱找几个人把那个人强暴了，至少也是揍一顿，然后脱光了扔在外面，也许这样会帮助自己relief the pain.
I actually cried reading over his notes.
May Bill rest in peace now. He had really suffered.
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我承认死对他而言是个解脱 ... 如果人生每时每刻都在受折磨 确实不如死了算了
说好死不如赖活着 我觉得从bill身上我很难苟同这点
生到这种愚蠢家长的家里真是太倒霉了。唉。
re~~~~~~~~~~~应该找出那个强奸犯,太可恶.
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几分钟的快感换取别人一辈子的痛苦，结束自己年轻的生命，这个强奸犯该下多少次地狱。
re。。。看起来好像是幼儿园厕所？他没有提到别的地方。 还反复多次，总觉得应该讲出来，让这个畜生受到惩罚
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哎 bless
Gee.... I really feel sorry for him. I actually read his suicide note, very carefully. I can only say that he had suffered a lot during his 27 years of life. He was raped repeatedly as a 4-year old kid, I totally understand the huge negative impact on his life. For a person with his experience, I don't blame him and definitely wouldn't call him a coward~~~
But I do blame his parents for bad parenting. If you read his notes, his parents are fundamentalist Christians who take religion very seriously and narrowly. I do feel that his life would be much better if his parents can see him as a SON, not an unsaved person who is doomed for Hell~~~~~~~~~~~~~~ How can some people "love" God so much that they hate their own child.........
because they are selfish, they only care if they can go to heaven after death. If Jesus ever exist, itself is very selfish, he determines someone to go to hell or heaven only depends on whether they believes him or not.
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我觉得，他对他爹肯定是相当恨的，没有指明原因，没有一句话是关于他和他爹的关系的。。。。他妈还是爱他的，就是愚昧。。。。而且他父母不可能不知道他当年所受的伤害，4岁的小孩。。。。可能有些人就是自己太邪恶了，害怕下地狱，才去的教堂吧。。。。。我觉得他已经很努力去融入这个社会了。。。对高质量生活的向往才会让他无法再生活下去了。。。至于他不说是谁害了他，一定不是陌生人。
同意。觉得那个混蛋肯定就在他父母的church里，说不定还是高层
I had an american friend who told me that she ever didn't like her mom, because her mon married with her father who was not a christian! She told me that's made her shameful, at last her farther became a christian in a few year's time
PS: I didn't keep in touch with her from then on.
criminal mind里多少罪犯都是从童年阴影来的
所以BILL真是非常非常好的一个人，他怕自己伤害到别人，决定自杀。