For first-time parents, the best time to find a doctor for your child is before birth. Your pediatrician will need to come check your baby at the hospital before he or she is discharged.
Start asking family, friends and co-workers -- and even from your own healthcare provider -- for recommendations in your second trimester, and begin calling and interviewing in your third trimester. A typical interview takes 15-20 minutes and is either free or at a nominal cost. If a physician is unwilling or "too busy" to meet with you, take that as a sign that they're not the best candidate to handle your child's care.
Some interview questions are designed as much to give you information as to help you decide whether you are compatible and comfortable with this person.
Here are some interview questions to get you started: 1. What are the office hours? Do you have evening or Saturday hours? 2. If I called for a routine visit right now, how soon could I be seen? 3. How much time is allowed for a routine visit? 4. Will you or other physicians/nurses in the practice discuss health problems over the phone? Do you charge for such "telephone time?" 5. What happens if I have an emergency outside of office hours? 6. Are you a member of the health plan I belong to? 7. Does my health plan provide you with financial incentives? 8. How must I pay for care? 9. Will my child see you each time we have an appointment, or will other physicians in the practice see him/her? 10. If my child needs hospitalization, which hospital will he/she be admitted to? 11. How do you feel about obtaining a second opinion? 12. What is your medical training and where did you go to medical school? 13. Are you board certified in your specialty?
Questions of philosophy? It's important to have a healthcare provider you feel comfortable with -- after all, this person will be making important decisions about your child. Here are some additional topics you might want to bring up during the interview, focusing on how he or she gels with your philosophy. ? What are your views on breastfeeding? ? When do you recommend starting solid foods? ? Do you recommend circumcision? ? What are your thoughts on vaccinations? ? How often do you prescribe antibiotics?
我还会问医生关于alternative medicine的看法, 比如我们会用中药之类的...
Overview and assessment ?After the interview, it's time to take stock of what you learned. Make some notes and consider a few more topics, including: ? Do you have a compatible philosophy on medical care? ? How do your personalities and styles of handling situations mesh? ? Do you feel comfortable with this person making healthcare decisions for your child? ? How did your child react to the doctor? ? Were the office staff friendly and helpful? ? Was the waiting room and office clean and child-friendly? ? How convenient was the location? Was parking or public transport available?
Labor Bag Suggestions The Labor bag you will take with you when you go into the hospital or birth center.
Personal toiletries (also used postpartum): Mouthwash, Breath mints, Toothbrush &Toothpaste (for partner too!) 牙线 o Lip balm/chapstick o Bodysoap /gel 浴球, shower cap o Shampoo/conditioner o Deodorant o Facial soap and moisturizer o BodyLotion o Prescription medications you're taking o Glasses or Contact lenscase/lens supplies o HairBrush/comb o Barrettes/PonytailHolders/Hairbands for long hair 还带了自己的旅行电吹风
? Watch with a second hand for timing contractions – should be using this before going to the hospital ? Waterproof pads for the car ride (if your water breaks – a beach towel over a plastic garbage bag will also work) ? Admission forms/papers (if not already done and on file at hospital) ? PED's contact information ? Health insurance card & ID ? Two copies of your Birth plan ? Camera and/or video camera – extra memory cards, CDs, DVD or tapes as needed, extra batteries or power cord to charge ? Cell phone and battery charger or Calling Card for Long Distance Calls ? List of contact names and numbers to share the good news ? Cash for vending machines for your partner (change and small bills) ? Lollipops (for dry mouth) ? Focal point (if using a photo or something paper you will hold, laminate it) 这个我觉得没啥用... ? Lotion, Oil and/or powder (cornstarch works well) for massage ...也觉得没啥用 ? Aromatherapy oils and cotton balls or pads ...同上,觉得没啥用 ? Tennis balls or massage tools 据说这个管用. 不过我就不带了. 倒是打算带个热水袋去 ? CDs of favorite music or MP3 player ? Change of clothes for your partner ? Snacks for your partner (protein or meal replacement bars) ? Thick socks if your feet get cold (not white – might get bloody) hospital may provide ? Eyeshade (might use to help rest) ? Books/magazines ? Baby Book if you want the foot prints done by the nurse when she does the paperwork (check with hospital during tour if they do foot prints) ? Anything else that brings you comfort or is relaxing!
For first-time parents, the best time to find a doctor for your child is before birth. Your pediatrician will need to come check your baby at the hospital before he or she is discharged.
Start asking family, friends and co-workers -- and even from your own healthcare provider -- for recommendations in your second trimester, and begin calling and interviewing in your third trimester. A typical interview takes 15-20 minutes and is either free or at a nominal cost. If a physician is unwilling or "too busy" to meet with you, take that as a sign that they're not the best candidate to handle your child's care.
Some interview questions are designed as much to give you information as to help you decide whether you are compatible and comfortable with this person.
Here are some interview questions to get you started: 1. What are the office hours? Do you have evening or Saturday hours? 2. If I called for a routine visit right now, how soon could I be seen? 3. How much time is allowed for a routine visit? 4. Will you or other physicians/nurses in the practice discuss health problems over the phone? Do you charge for such "telephone time?" 5. What happens if I have an emergency outside of office hours? 6. Are you a member of the health plan I belong to? 7. Does my health plan provide you with financial incentives? 8. How must I pay for care? 9. Will my child see you each time we have an appointment, or will other physicians in the practice see him/her? 10. If my child needs hospitalization, which hospital will he/she be admitted to? 11. How do you feel about obtaining a second opinion? 12. What is your medical training and where did you go to medical school? 13. Are you board certified in your specialty?
Questions of philosophy? It's important to have a healthcare provider you feel comfortable with -- after all, this person will be making important decisions about your child. Here are some additional topics you might want to bring up during the interview, focusing on how he or she gels with your philosophy. ? What are your views on breastfeeding? ? When do you recommend starting solid foods? ? Do you recommend circumcision? ? What are your thoughts on vaccinations? ? How often do you prescribe antibiotics?
我还会问医生关于alternative medicine的看法, 比如我们会用中药之类的...
Overview and assessment ?After the interview, it's time to take stock of what you learned. Make some notes and consider a few more topics, including: ? Do you have a compatible philosophy on medical care? ? How do your personalities and styles of handling situations mesh? ? Do you feel comfortable with this person making healthcare decisions for your child? ? How did your child react to the doctor? ? Were the office staff friendly and helpful? ? Was the waiting room and office clean and child-friendly? ? How convenient was the location? Was parking or public transport available?
mm准备的太详细了，俺真是太粗了 俺今天见了一个ped 就问了要不要给男宝宝割皮，问了问生后检查的schedule，还问了问黄疸的事儿 女医生看起来挺舒服的，她说她的grand grand father是从中国来的，我们决定就用她了 嘿嘿
Postpartum Bag Suggestions The Postpartum bag you can leave in your car until after the baby is born.
For Mom: ? Maxipads (Hospital will provide some – ask for extras to take home - but you may prefer your own) ? Underwear (Hospital may provide disposable maternity underwear, they’re surprising comfortable and you don’t have to wash them! Ask for extras to take home.) ? Bathrobe & Nursing Pajamas (Hospital gowns are great for nursing and you don’t have to wash them! Not enough coverage? Put a second one on backwards to cover your back side.;) ? Nursing (sleep/comfort) bras & breast pads ? Socks & Slippers ? Loose, comfortable outfit to go home (You’ll still feel about 6 months pregnant.)
For baby: ? Car seat installed in car (rear facing!) tour的时候护士建议把car seat先拿到房间里来调整带子, 把宝宝放好, 盖上毯子, 这样放进车里就不用再调整了 ? Receiving blankets (这个我们医院是要收回去的, 所以自己得备一条出院用.我准备了一条fleece的swaddle me套在外面) ? Going-home outfit with hat/cap (医院给小帽子和贴身衣服 ) ? Hospital may provide the following – ask during hospital tour: o Clothes o Hat/Cap o Diapers & Wipes (我的医院给液体奶, tour的时候护士说尽量多拿)
Postpartum Bag Suggestions The Postpartum bag you can leave in your car until after the baby is born.
For Mom: ? Maxipads (Hospital will provide some – ask for extras to take home - but you may prefer your own) ? Underwear (Hospital may provide disposable maternity underwear, they’re surprising comfortable and you don’t have to wash them! Ask for extras to take home.) ? Bathrobe & Nursing Pajamas (Hospital gowns are great for nursing and you don’t have to wash them! Not enough coverage? Put a second one on backwards to cover your back side.;) ? Nursing (sleep/comfort) bras & breast pads ? Socks & Slippers ? Loose, comfortable outfit to go home (You’ll still feel about 6 months pregnant.)
For baby: ? Car seat installed in car (rear facing!) tour的时候护士建议把car seat先拿到房间里来调整带子, 把宝宝放好, 盖上毯子, 这样放进车里就不用再调整了 ? Receiving blankets (这个我们医院是要收回去的, 所以自己得备一条出院用.我准备了一条fleece的swaddle me套在外面) ? Going-home outfit with hat/cap (医院给小帽子和贴身衣服 ) ? Hospital may provide the following – ask during hospital tour: o Clothes o Hat/Cap o Diapers & Wipes (我的医院给液体奶, tour的时候护士说尽量多拿)
2＃楼已建： http://www.huaren.us/dispbbs.asp?boardid=380&id=798641&star=1&page=1
本楼缘自2010年1,2月孕妈楼:
http://www.huaren.us/dispbbs.asp?boardid=380&id=594001&page=1&star=299 。
有孕楼相册access的mm们都可以用baby010210／相册密码 登陆，管理宝宝楼。
2010年1,2月孕妈没有得到相册access的，可以向[email protected]发邮件，附带宝宝详细信息 （孕妈huaren ID, 宝宝due date, 宝宝gender）及宝宝／孕妈照片一个得到用户名／密码。
楼内msn 群地址是 [email protected]。 mm可以加群地址到自己的msn联系名单等待管理员批准。加入群后请更新自己的群内昵称为华人id加宝宝名字以便大家方便说话。更改方法是在消息窗口内打入"/nn" 紧跟着要改的名字，然后回车发送消息即可。
目前管理规则如下：
1. 女宝用粉色字，男宝用蓝色字，未知男女宝就默认字体。
2. 添加表格条目的方法是进入“代码模式”编辑信息，copy最后一组 从“<tr>” 至“</tr>”的代码，paste到 "</tbody></table>"之前，然后编辑相应信息，返回“设计模式”，查看信息及格式，最后“发表”。
3. 更新已有表格条目的信息无须进入“代码模式”可以直接在“设计模式”内修改内容，字体格式，字体颜色等，然后“发表”。
4. 有关产经，月子，宝宝护理等资料的mj id也可以自行贴上。为了避免资料日积月累太多，资料只要回复在当前最后一层楼内，然后把link放在第一页就好。
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No.
Name
Birth Date
Boy/Girl
Mom's ID
Due Date
Location
Note
1
12/25/2009
Girl
tobeygong
1/6/2010
Bay Area
7lb3oz，非常顺利
2
12/26/2009
Boy
TakemeHome
1/8/2010
6lb15oz，顺产
3
12/29/2009
taco
1/4/2010
6lb 2oz,顺产
4
1/01/2010
Girl
miaommiaomm
2/7/2010
Oregon
剖腹产
5
01/04/2010
Girl
宜浓易淡
1/10/2010
Bay Area
6lb 13oz,超级大顺产
6
桃桃
1/05/2010
Girl
zhjier
1/2/2010
6lb15oz,顺产
7
NICHOLE 昵称:可可
1/06/2010
Girl
minttea
01/15/2010
8lb，20.75inches。顺产，二度撕裂
8，9
小布丁+小果冻
1/06/2010
Girls
啃啃小兔兔
洛杉矶 Pasadena
剖腹产5磅8和5磅14盎司
10
Chloe
1/07/2010
Girl
irislilimsvs
1/5/2010
西雅图
7lb12oz,顺产（催产）
11
1/08/2010
Girl
zigzag
1/9/2010
7lb12oz,顺产
12
01/08/2010
Boy
violetnjohn
1/8/2010
TX
7lb5oz，17小时顺产加个小侧切
13
01/10/2010
Boy
peachplum
1/15/2010
8lb2.4oz,臀位，刨
14
大鱼
01/10/2010
boy
枕戈待旦
1/21/2010
2.6KG
15
图图
01/10/2010
boy
guolen
01/11/2010
bay area
顺产，8磅13盎司，55厘米
16
1/11/2010
boy
youyoull
1/11/2010
西雅图
8 lb 3oz， C
17
圆圆
1/12/2010
girl
blueorchid
1/14/2010
bay area
8lbs6oz,顺产
18
1/12/2010
girl
咯吱豆丁
1/14/2010
6lb14oz
19
Ethan
1/14/2010
boy
cfhqckwl
1/15/2010
NJ
6lb12oz 剖腹产
20
1/16/2010
girl
snopy123
1/29/2010
calgary, canada
21
1/16/2010
girl
panda2004
1/14/2010
bay area
5lb15oz,顺产加侧切
22
1/16/2010
girl
全职美妈
1/25/2010
7.3斤，剖腹产
23
1/19/2010
boy
bocai
2/1/2010
NY
7lb3oz
24
1/19/2010
girl
gougoukkad
1/19/2010
VA
6lb1oz,剖腹产
25
1/19/2010
girl
closette
1/24/2010
San Jose, CA
8lb2oz,剖腹产
26
Max
1/22/2010
boy
nanouril
1/29/2010
Los Angeles
7磅11oz，剖腹产
27
1/22/2010
boy
tweetiebird
7lb12oz，顺产
28
1/23/2010
girl
nnzz
6lb半,顺产
29
闷闷
1/24/2010
boy
emarald
1/23/2010
3050g(6lb11oz)顺产
30
Oliver
1/26/2010
boy
amigoinca
2/2/2010
7lb，剖腹产
29
QQ
1/27/2010
boy
forever_21
2/13/2010
7lb2oz，顺产
30-31
1/28/2010
twin(boy and girl)
btmofocean
2/12/2010
哥哥 7lbs6oz
妹妹 5lbs14oz
剖腹产
32
贝贝
1/29/2010
girl
xihumei
1/30/2010
7lb1oz，顺产
转至8楼
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1. tobeygong: http://www.huaren.us/dispbbs.asp?boardid=380&id=683880&page=1&star=3
2. 宜浓易淡: http://www.huaren.us/dispbbs.asp?boardid=380&id=683880&page=0&star=11
3. zigzag: http://www.huaren.us/dispbbs.asp?boardid=380&id=683880&page=1&star=167
4. zhjier: http://www.huaren.us/dispbbs.asp?boardid=380&id=683880&page=1&star=170
5. irislilimsvs : http://www.huaren.us/dispbbs.asp?boardid=380&id=683880&page=1&star=217
6. peachplum: http://www.huaren.us/dispbbs.asp?boardid=380&id=683880&page=243&star=342
7. 枕戈待旦: http://www.huaren.us/dispbbs.asp?boardid=380&id=683880&page=1&star=402 (后页有补充)
http://www.huaren.us/dispbbs.asp?boardid=380&id=683880&page=1&star=403
http://www.huaren.us/dispbbs.asp?boardid=380&id=683880&page=1&star=525
8. blueorchid: http://www.huaren.us/dispbbs.asp?boardid=380&id=683880&page=1&star=426
9. bocai: http://www.huaren.us/dispbbs.asp?boardid=333&id=689149&page=1&star=1
10. emarald: http://www.huaren.us/dispbbs.asp?boardid=380&id=683880&page=1&star=566
11. xihumei现场直播（627-633页）: http://www.huaren.us/dispbbs.asp?boardid=380&id=683880&page=0&star=627
12. forever_21: http://www.huaren.us/dispbbs.asp?boardid=333&Id=696337
13.searchcc： http://www.huaren.us/dispbbs.asp?boardid=380&id=683880&page=1&star=699
14.standingAtTheCorner: http://www.huaren.us/dispbbs.asp?boardid=380&id=683880&page=1&star=776 15.fangerwu：http://www.huaren.us/dispbbs.asp?boardid=380&id=683880&page=1&star=812#editform
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待产包：
1. Labor Bag Suggestions (provided by superzhou) :
http://www.huaren.us/dispbbs.asp?boardid=380&id=683880&page=1&star=3
2. Postpartum Bag Suggestions (provided by superzhou)
http://www.huaren.us/dispbbs.asp?boardid=380&id=683880&page=1&star=3
儿科医生面试问题清单：
1. Interviewing Doctors and Pediatricians (provided by superzhou)
http://www.huaren.us/dispbbs.asp?boardid=380&id=683880&page=1&star=3
月子资料：
1. http://www.huaren.us/dispbbs.asp?boardid=333&Id=575921 （xihumei 提供link）
2. http://www.huaren.us/dispbbs.asp?boardid=333&id=535627 (provided by btmofocean)
3. 月子食谱： http://www.huaren.us/dispbbs.asp?boardid=380&id=683880&page=0&star=635 (provided by superzhou)
Birth Plan:
1. http://www.happyhealthypregnancy.com/info/pregnancy_tools/preg_birth_plan.aspx (provided by superzhou)
产后会阴护理：
1. http://www.huaren.us/dispbbs.asp?boardid=333&Id=628251
[此贴子已经被作者于2010/2/1 14:41:40编辑过]
采购清单像册邮箱里面有三份，一份是fangwu提供的tiaotiao的用品推荐pdf文件，一份是xihumei整理的，一份是StandingAtTheCorner整理的。
关于PIS (Medela Pump in Style)吸奶器使用的七七八八
1.http://www.huaren.us/dispbbs.asp?BoardID=333&ID=682637&skin=0
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蜡烛包： https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CSYPqGtFBYQ （provided by 枕戈待旦）
经验之谈：
1. 枕戈待旦之用品推荐及track 宝宝哭的原因： http://www.huaren.us/dispbbs.asp?boardid=380&id=683880&page=1&star=480
2. blueorchid之新生儿喂养及产妇开奶，洗澡： http://www.huaren.us/dispbbs.asp?boardid=380&id=683880&page=1&star=481
怀孕最后一个月及宝宝出生后去胎毒：
1. http://www.huaren.us/dispbbs.asp?boardid=333&id=461736&page=0&star=4
新生儿体检以及疫苗安排一览表
http://www.pediatricphysicianspc.com/forms/checkupschedule.pdf
关于宝宝出疹子的护理：
http://www.huaren.us/dispbbs.asp?boardid=380&id=683880&page=1&star=1088
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乳房护理帮助开奶治疗堵奶:
1. http://www.huaren.us/dispbbs.asp?boardid=380&id=683880&page=1&star=359 (blueorchid 提供)
提高奶量的非器具因素:
1. http://www.huaren.us/dispbbs.asp?boardid=380&id=683880&page=0&star=681 (provided by cfhqckwl)
[此贴子已经被作者于2010/2/1 14:42:51编辑过]
No.
Name
Birth Date
Boy/Girl
Mom's ID
Due Date
Location
Note
33
Eva
1/31/2010
girl
searchcc
1/30/2010
6lb8oz，顺产
34
2/1/2010
Girl
rankiefranki
2/2/2010
7lb6oz,顺产
35
2/1/2010
Girl
frankiefrank
2/2/2010
7lb6oz，顺产
36
朗朗
2/2/2010
boy
hansomepiggg
2/7/2010
Canada
7lb14oz，顺产
37
Sophie
2/3/2010
Girl
hmitsui
2/8/2010
Los Angeles
7lb11oz,顺产
38
2/4/2010
girl
hanhan_chen
2/1/2010
8磅1盎司，顺产
39
枣枣
2/4/2010
boy
standingAtTheCorner
2/14/2010
bay area
6lb14oz，顺产
40
2/4/2010
girl
phospho
1/28/2010
bay area
6lb11oz，顺产
41
2/5/2010
Girl
hutuanapoge
2/2/2010
马里兰
5磅12oz, 19.25inches，顺产加一个产后手术
42
2/8/2010
Boy
嘉伊
2/17/2010
长岛
6磅15oz，顺转剖
43
小峻
2/10/2010
Boy
fangerwu
2/22/2010
boston
6lb6oz，顺产
44
2/11/2010
girl
roadtohana
2/1/2010
8lb3oz，顺转剖
45
Aiden
2/11/2010
Boy
starrynight
2/11/2010
7lb4oz,50.4inch。顺产，二度撕裂
46
2/13/2010
boy
jhsu
2/24/2010
6lb6oz，顺产
47
2/13/2010
boy
kissbigeye
2/24/2010
7磅，顺产
48
2/13/2010
boy
杰妮QQ
2/16/2010
canada, MTL
7.5磅
49
2/16/2010
Girl
sleepypanda
2/17/2010
西雅图
8lb 3oz,剖
50
Emma
2/18/2010
Girl
niuniuyan
2/24/2010
7 lb 15 oz,剖
51
2/18/2010
Girl
francesjj
2/18/2010
7 lb 2 oz,顺产
52
2/18/2010
boy
flyinglamb
2/23/2010
LA
剖
53
annabel
2/19/2010
girl
雪满天
2/24/2010
Atlanta
7lb11oz,顺产侧切加吸盘
54
Liam
2/19/2010
Boy
Lava
2/19/2010
7磅6盎司，顺转刨
55
雪儿
2/20/2010
Girl
甜豆
8lb12oz,顺产
56
豆豆
2/20/2010
boy
miniminnie
2/15/2010
bay area
顺产
57
2/21/2010
Boy
happyhr
2/18/2010
Boston
8lb2oz
58
2/22/2010
boy
energymom
2/21/2010
顺产
59
2/27/2010
Boy
dazzlingfall
2/28/2010
NYC
顺产
60
榕榕
2/28/2010
girl
ameyta
7磅5盎司 顺产
61
番茄
3/1/2010
girl
superzhou
2/28/2010
Atlanta
很顺利，push了不到30分钟，2度撕裂。身长20inch，重7lb3oz。
62
3/2/2010
Boy
tiggertiger
2/21/2010
Illinois
C, 9lbs, 22.5 inches
63
3/2/2010
girl
lavish
6 磅 8 盎司，剖腹产。
64
蛮蛮
2/11/2010
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shadow323
2/16/2010
7 磅 6盎司，顺产。
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1. Reflux: http://www.huaren.us/dispbbs.asp?boardid=380&id=683880&page=1&star=2248 provided by豆豆妈
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没来得及切换id, 我是StandingAtTheCorner。
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占的我都看“占”字不顺眼了。是这么写吗？ 没来得及切换id, 我是StandingAtTheCorner。
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哈哈，看得多就不顺眼了，墙面mm辛苦了！
来新楼溜达溜达
我也来报道啦
这名字太棒了阿，赞赞赞
大家辛苦了，街角mm辛苦了
请mm们查看下一楼的管理规则，如有不合适的地方，再商量着改进吧。
如今人人都是楼管啦！
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先给大家发段产经，照片要回家才能发了，忘记带数据线...
话
说那天晚上折腾到半夜两点多，我决定还是先睡一会儿，但是宫缩不仅没有变弱，反而越来越疼了，赶紧起床吃了一碗糯米饭（抗饿），走动一会儿，还是很强的宫
缩，但时间隔不规律，有时候2，3分钟一次，有时候6-8分钟一次，给医生打电话说了一下情况，医生说你还是去医院吧，别生在家里。赶紧叫上老公，一路上
几乎没车，圣诞节的早上，估计只有圣诞老人在送礼物吧，呵呵，给我们送了个宝宝
医院不到5点，检查宫口开了4指，被医院接收了，这时候已经是非常规律3分钟左右一次的宫缩，后来我换成侧睡，就变成10分钟左右一次了，7点钟换了个护
士，看到这种情况，居然问我要不要回家，我说这么疼，我怎么回家啊，她让我四处走动一下再检查宫口。结果一起来走动宫缩就变得又强又疼，检查宫口开了
4-5指，我已经疼得受不了了，本来打算开6指再要麻药，但这个护士手非常重，我被她一刺激，宫缩更加强烈，赶紧要了麻药，麻醉师手也不轻，感觉比上次打
麻药疼很多。上完麻药，再查宫口已经开到6-7指，看来二胎真是不一样，麻药对开口没有任何影响，上次生老大上了麻药后还得借助催产素开口。到中午12点
的时候已经开到8指，护士叫我侧躺帮助开指，结果我刚刚躺下，护士一检查就已经10指了，这也太快了...医生10分钟后赶到，push了10分钟，宝宝
就出来了，这次撕裂只有2度。因为产程还比较轻松，生完以后也没有那么虚弱，就是喂奶的时候子宫收缩很疼，医生说生得越多会越疼...
Interviewing Doctors and Pediatricians
For first-time parents, the best time to find a doctor for your child is before birth. Your pediatrician will need to come check your baby at the hospital before he or she is discharged.
Start asking family, friends and co-workers -- and even from your own healthcare provider -- for recommendations in your second trimester, and begin calling and interviewing in your third trimester. A typical interview takes 15-20 minutes and is either free or at a nominal cost. If a physician is unwilling or "too busy" to meet with you, take that as a sign that they're not the best candidate to handle your child's care.
Some interview questions are designed as much to give you information as to help you decide whether you are compatible and comfortable with this person.
Here are some interview questions to get you started:
1. What are the office hours? Do you have evening or Saturday hours?
2. If I called for a routine visit right now, how soon could I be seen?
3. How much time is allowed for a routine visit?
4. Will you or other physicians/nurses in the practice discuss health problems over the phone? Do you charge for such "telephone time?"
5. What happens if I have an emergency outside of office hours?
6. Are you a member of the health plan I belong to?
7. Does my health plan provide you with financial incentives?
8. How must I pay for care?
9. Will my child see you each time we have an appointment, or will other physicians in the practice see him/her?
10. If my child needs hospitalization, which hospital will he/she be admitted to?
11. How do you feel about obtaining a second opinion?
12. What is your medical training and where did you go to medical school?
13. Are you board certified in your specialty?
Questions of philosophy?
It's important to have a healthcare provider you feel comfortable with -- after all, this person will be making important decisions about your child. Here are some additional topics you might want to bring up during the interview, focusing on how he or she gels with your philosophy.
? What are your views on breastfeeding?
? When do you recommend starting solid foods?
? Do you recommend circumcision?
? What are your thoughts on vaccinations?
? How often do you prescribe antibiotics?
我还会问医生关于alternative medicine的看法, 比如我们会用中药之类的...
Overview and assessment
?After the interview, it's time to take stock of what you learned. Make some notes and consider a few more topics, including:
? Do you have a compatible philosophy on medical care?
? How do your personalities and styles of handling situations mesh?
? Do you feel comfortable with this person making healthcare decisions for your child?
? How did your child react to the doctor?
? Were the office staff friendly and helpful?
? Was the waiting room and office clean and child-friendly?
? How convenient was the location? Was parking or public transport available?
Personal toiletries (also used postpartum):
Mouthwash, Breath mints, Toothbrush &Toothpaste (for partner too!) 牙线
o Lip balm/chapstick
o Bodysoap /gel 浴球, shower cap
o Shampoo/conditioner
o Deodorant
o Facial soap and moisturizer
o BodyLotion
o Prescription medications you're taking
o Glasses or Contact lenscase/lens supplies
o HairBrush/comb
o Barrettes/PonytailHolders/Hairbands for long hair
还带了自己的旅行电吹风
? Watch with a second hand for timing contractions –
should be using this before going to the hospital
? Waterproof pads for the car ride (if your water breaks
– a beach towel over a plastic garbage bag will also
work)
? Admission forms/papers (if not already done and on
file at hospital)
? PED's contact information
? Health insurance card & ID
? Two copies of your Birth plan
? Camera and/or video camera – extra memory cards,
CDs, DVD or tapes as needed, extra batteries or power cord to charge
? Cell phone and battery charger or Calling Card for Long Distance Calls
? List of contact names and numbers to share the good news
? Cash for vending machines for your partner (change and small bills)
? Lollipops (for dry mouth)
? Focal point (if using a photo or something paper you
will hold, laminate it) 这个我觉得没啥用...
? Lotion, Oil and/or powder (cornstarch works well) for
massage ...也觉得没啥用
? Aromatherapy oils and cotton balls or pads ...同上,觉得没啥用
? Tennis balls or massage tools 据说这个管用. 不过我就不带了. 倒是打算带个热水袋去
? CDs of favorite music or MP3 player
? Change of clothes for your partner
? Snacks for your partner (protein or meal replacement
bars)
? Thick socks if your feet get cold (not white – might
get bloody) hospital may provide
? Eyeshade (might use to help rest)
? Books/magazines
? Baby Book if you want the foot prints done by the
nurse when she does the paperwork (check with
hospital during tour if they do foot prints)
? Anything else that brings you comfort or is relaxing!
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后天我们要去和PED面谈了, 搜集了一些问题, 供大家参考...有些信息其实在医生的bio里面就有, 比如毕业的时间和学校, 不过作为暖场的话题也可以借此发挥一下, 找找感觉...
Interviewing Doctors and Pediatricians
For first-time parents, the best time to find a doctor for your child is before birth. Your pediatrician will need to come check your baby at the hospital before he or she is discharged.
Start asking family, friends and co-workers -- and even from your own healthcare provider -- for recommendations in your second trimester, and begin calling and interviewing in your third trimester. A typical interview takes 15-20 minutes and is either free or at a nominal cost. If a physician is unwilling or "too busy" to meet with you, take that as a sign that they're not the best candidate to handle your child's care.
Some interview questions are designed as much to give you information as to help you decide whether you are compatible and comfortable with this person.
Here are some interview questions to get you started:
1. What are the office hours? Do you have evening or Saturday hours?
2. If I called for a routine visit right now, how soon could I be seen?
3. How much time is allowed for a routine visit?
4. Will you or other physicians/nurses in the practice discuss health problems over the phone? Do you charge for such "telephone time?"
5. What happens if I have an emergency outside of office hours?
6. Are you a member of the health plan I belong to?
7. Does my health plan provide you with financial incentives?
8. How must I pay for care?
9. Will my child see you each time we have an appointment, or will other physicians in the practice see him/her?
10. If my child needs hospitalization, which hospital will he/she be admitted to?
11. How do you feel about obtaining a second opinion?
12. What is your medical training and where did you go to medical school?
13. Are you board certified in your specialty?
Questions of philosophy?
It's important to have a healthcare provider you feel comfortable with -- after all, this person will be making important decisions about your child. Here are some additional topics you might want to bring up during the interview, focusing on how he or she gels with your philosophy.
? What are your views on breastfeeding?
? When do you recommend starting solid foods?
? Do you recommend circumcision?
? What are your thoughts on vaccinations?
? How often do you prescribe antibiotics?
我还会问医生关于alternative medicine的看法, 比如我们会用中药之类的...
Overview and assessment
?After the interview, it's time to take stock of what you learned. Make some notes and consider a few more topics, including:
? Do you have a compatible philosophy on medical care?
? How do your personalities and styles of handling situations mesh?
? Do you feel comfortable with this person making healthcare decisions for your child?
? How did your child react to the doctor?
? Were the office staff friendly and helpful?
? Was the waiting room and office clean and child-friendly?
? How convenient was the location? Was parking or public transport available?
mm准备的太详细了，俺真是太粗了
俺今天见了一个ped
就问了要不要给男宝宝割皮，问了问生后检查的schedule，还问了问黄疸的事儿
女医生看起来挺舒服的，她说她的grand grand father是从中国来的，我们决定就用她了
嘿嘿
For Mom:
? Maxipads (Hospital will provide some – ask for extras to take home - but you may prefer your own)
? Underwear (Hospital may provide disposable maternity underwear, they’re surprising comfortable and you don’t have to wash them! Ask for extras to take home.)
? Bathrobe & Nursing Pajamas (Hospital gowns are great for nursing and you don’t have to wash them! Not enough coverage? Put a second one on backwards to cover your back side.;)
? Nursing (sleep/comfort) bras & breast pads
? Socks & Slippers
? Loose, comfortable outfit to go home (You’ll still feel about 6 months pregnant.)
我还准备带上奶泵去...虽然很大可能啥也泵不出来
医院有微波炉冰箱, 所以打算带点便当和水果去给LG吃
For baby:
? Car seat installed in car (rear facing!) tour的时候护士建议把car seat先拿到房间里来调整带子, 把宝宝放好, 盖上毯子, 这样放进车里就不用再调整了
? Receiving blankets (这个我们医院是要收回去的, 所以自己得备一条出院用.我准备了一条fleece的swaddle me套在外面)
? Going-home outfit with hat/cap (医院给小帽子和贴身衣服 )
? Hospital may provide the following – ask during hospital tour: o Clothes o Hat/Cap o Diapers & Wipes (我的医院给液体奶, tour的时候护士说尽量多拿)
http://www.huaren.us/dispbbs.asp?boardid=333&Id=683817
楼外convertible car seat 的deal 好不好啊？
http://www.huaren.us/dispbbs.asp?boardid=333&Id=683817
好象说最便宜的大概160.在等等?infant car seat 可以用好几个月.
楼外convertible car seat 的deal 好不好啊？
http://www.huaren.us/dispbbs.asp?boardid=333&Id=683817
觉得现在屯有点早了, 我打算现在这个infant carseat用到一岁
Postpartum Bag Suggestions The Postpartum bag you can leave in your car until after the baby is born.
For Mom:
? Maxipads (Hospital will provide some – ask for extras to take home - but you may prefer your own)
? Underwear (Hospital may provide disposable maternity underwear, they’re surprising comfortable and you don’t have to wash them! Ask for extras to take home.)
? Bathrobe & Nursing Pajamas (Hospital gowns are great for nursing and you don’t have to wash them! Not enough coverage? Put a second one on backwards to cover your back side.;)
? Nursing (sleep/comfort) bras & breast pads
? Socks & Slippers
? Loose, comfortable outfit to go home (You’ll still feel about 6 months pregnant.)
我还准备带上奶泵去...虽然很大可能啥也泵不出来
医院有微波炉冰箱, 所以打算带点便当和水果去给LG吃
For baby:
? Car seat installed in car (rear facing!) tour的时候护士建议把car seat先拿到房间里来调整带子, 把宝宝放好, 盖上毯子, 这样放进车里就不用再调整了
? Receiving blankets (这个我们医院是要收回去的, 所以自己得备一条出院用.我准备了一条fleece的swaddle me套在外面)
? Going-home outfit with hat/cap (医院给小帽子和贴身衣服 )
? Hospital may provide the following – ask during hospital tour: o Clothes o Hat/Cap o Diapers & Wipes (我的医院给液体奶, tour的时候护士说尽量多拿)
mm是不是学管理的，我看着都晕啦
我们这没有bru, 这是我能找到最便宜的了。
刚刚在http://www.bestbuybaby.com 定了medela breast pump. $ 205， no tax, no shipping fee
我们这没有bru, 这是我能找到最便宜的了。
bru没有deal的时候不一定便宜呢
觉得现在屯有点早了, 我打算现在这个infant carseat用到一岁
那我可以暂时省点银子阿。赫赫
楼外convertible car seat 的deal 好不好啊？
http://www.huaren.us/dispbbs.asp?boardid=333&Id=683817
都说不要用6年前生产的car seat，所以不用急着买，
infant car seat 用到32lb有好久呢。
mm是不是学管理的，我看着都晕啦
啊, 被看出来了, 虽然不是学管理的, 没辞职以前倒是管几个人的. LG说我就是典型的control freak,所有的东西都要列个清单来实行, 狂喜欢paper work...
刚刚在http://www.bestbuybaby.com 定了medela breast pump. $ 205， no tax, no shipping fee
我们这没有bru, 这是我能找到最便宜的了。
价钱真不错，是哪一款的？
价钱真不错，是哪一款的？
就是style in advance , backpack 和 shoulder bag 一个价钱。
就是style in advance , backpack 和 shoulder bag 一个价钱。
嫩打过去他就直接给的这个价钱么？然后直接电话付credit card?
就是style in advance , backpack 和 shoulder bag 一个价钱。
哈，我也订了free style的，那里的shopping cart cover和postpartum belt价格也不错。还订了个玩具镜子，sassy me in the mirror，好像价格都不错。
哈，我也订了free style的，那里的shopping cart cover和postpartum belt价格也不错。还订了个玩具镜子，sassy me in the mirror，好像价格都不错。
free style多少银子？
嫩打过去他就直接给的这个价钱么？然后直接电话付credit card?
nod nod. 打了两次，不同的两个sales, 都是这个价格，我就给信用卡信息，他说今天寄出来
啊, 被看出来了, 虽然不是学管理的, 没辞职以前倒是管几个人的. LG说我就是典型的control freak,所有的东西都要列个清单来实行, 狂喜欢paper work...
我把周mm提供的信息放第一页了。
mm多多发挥吧。你应该有mj id/password，可以直接打理楼里信息。
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是不是以后就在这个楼里活动了？
就在这儿吧，省得两边跑。
这些信息都太有用了。
free style多少银子？
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小芳妹，你们car seat inspection做了吗？ 我这打了快一个月电话了，还没约上。
好像也可以找bru的人帮忙检查呢。
小芳妹，你们car seat inspection做了吗？ 我这打了快一个月电话了，还没约上。
不能自己装吗？我看着觉得很简单呀，装错的几率为0。是不是不检查，医院就不让出院呀？
不能自己装吗？我看着觉得很简单呀，装错的几率为0。是不是不检查，医院就不让出院呀？
同问
还有尿检结果说我有些缺铁，开了补铁的药。不知道吃这个药，胃会不会难受呀？现在吃了东西还是觉得胃有些不舒服。
还有这两周我竟然长了6磅，吓了一跳，不过好象医生也没说我长得多了，不过我觉得我应该开始注意节食了，免得到时候不好生呀。
不能自己装吗？我看着觉得很简单呀，装错的几率为0。是不是不检查，医院就不让出院呀？
是自己装，装好后最好是去认证过的部门检查，象high way patrol或者指定的几个AAA exchange点。
我们没经验，也没人帮忙，全靠自己，所以希望生之前做到充分准备，不想出来再抓瞎。
装的不够安全的几率还是挺大的，医院不管检查，只看你有没有装上。
BrU不在gov 认证list上，所以现在我们还是趁1月每个周一打电话试着约，到月底如果再约不到，只好见到胡子就是爸，哪里能帮我们确认一下，哪里去了。
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这个好便宜呀，我看商店里都400
是自己装，装好后最好是去认证过的部门检查，象high way patrol或者指定的几个AAA exchange点。
我们没经验，也没人帮忙，全靠自己，所以希望生之前做到充分准备，不想出来再抓瞎。
装的不够安全的几率还是挺大的，医院不管检查，只看你有没有装上。
BrU不在gov 认证list上，所以现在我们还是趁1月每个周一打电话试着约，到月底如果再约不到，只好见到胡子就是爸，哪里能帮我们确认一下，哪里去了。
谢谢墙角MM，看来我还是要去检查一下比较好。
http://www.nhtsa.dot.gov/cps/cpsfitting/Index.cfm
不能自己装吗？我看着觉得很简单呀，装错的几率为0。是不是不检查，医院就不让出院呀？
俺们这儿做完inspection，要给个证书啥的，到时候出院的时候医院要看的。
今天去检查了，32周，基本一切正常，医生说宝宝的头在下面了，不知道还有两月，会不会又游上来了。
还有尿检结果说我有些缺铁，开了补铁的药。不知道吃这个药，胃会不会难受呀？现在吃了东西还是觉得胃有些不舒服。
还有这两周我竟然长了6磅，吓了一跳，不过好象医生也没说我长得多了，不过我觉得我应该开始注意节食了，免得到时候不好生呀。
正常就好！我33周的时候检查头就下去了，到目前为止好像还没上来过。
觉得现在屯有点早了, 我打算现在这个infant carseat用到一岁
如果宝宝长得快,好像6个月就要换了
刚刚在http://www.bestbuybaby.com 定了medela breast pump. $ 205， no tax, no shipping fee
我们这没有bru, 这是我能找到最便宜的了。
真便宜阿
小芳妹，你们car seat inspection做了吗？ 我这打了快一个月电话了，还没约上。
俺打了两次电话,约上了,这周四去做
不能自己装吗？我看着觉得很简单呀，装错的几率为0。是不是不检查，医院就不让出院呀？
可以的,俺朋友就是自己装的
今天去检查了，32周，基本一切正常，医生说宝宝的头在下面了，不知道还有两月，会不会又游上来了。
还有尿检结果说我有些缺铁，开了补铁的药。不知道吃这个药，胃会不会难受呀？现在吃了东西还是觉得胃有些不舒服。
还有这两周我竟然长了6磅，吓了一跳，不过好象医生也没说我长得多了，不过我觉得我应该开始注意节食了，免得到时候不好生呀。
为啥俺的医生都不告诉俺胎位呢
你之前长得多么?不多的话问题不大吧,有人会后长的
为啥俺的医生都不告诉俺胎位呢
你之前长得多么?不多的话问题不大吧,有人会后长的
一般医生也没告诉的，今天是她带了个实习的，两人在我肚子上摸了好一阵呢。我LG说我现在就是小白鼠，我到是觉得没关系，这样告诉我的东西还要多一些，不象平时就听听心跳，其它的什么都没有。
还好，现在总共长了30磅，就怕剩下的这两月按这速度长就麻烦啦，呵呵。
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正常就好！我33周的时候检查头就下去了，到目前为止好像还没上来过。
贝贝真乖
我老感觉俺家小子是横在肚子里的
还好，现在总共长了30磅，就怕剩下的这两月按这速度长就麻烦啦，呵呵。
不会不会,据说最后增长速度会慢的
为啥俺的医生都不告诉俺胎位呢
你之前长得多么?不多的话问题不大吧,有人会后长的
不急不急,俺ob也是等到36周才看得胎位,太早了娃没准还会转的
不能自己装吗？我看着觉得很简单呀，装错的几率为0。是不是不检查，医院就不让出院呀？
上次我们去上那个infant CPR，说到carseat，有个已经检查过的宝爸说那个检查的人一脚踏在座位上，然后死命地拽carseat.....看是不是安装合格
结果猪头回来装，我没去看，跟我说我也死命拽了，我说你劲儿不够大，还是检查一下吧，好在生娃的医院有carseat clinic，不知道是不是得预约
这个先往后面排排，今天本来约的ped的什么supervisor要打电话给俺好约见面的，我们好选ped，也没给打，nnd，明天打电话问问
贝贝真乖
我老感觉俺家小子是横在肚子里的
我也是这么感觉的，但是医生和b超说是头在下就头在下吧
嗬嗬，这下要两个楼灌了！
就这个楼灌吧呵呵
我觉得主题改为新生儿还得有一段时间，刚生的几个宝妈肯定还没有休息过来的，俺们先继续yy吧
啊, 被看出来了, 虽然不是学管理的, 没辞职以前倒是管几个人的. LG说我就是典型的control freak,所有的东西都要列个清单来实行, 狂喜欢paper work...
井井有条啊
话说今天猪头要去买菜了，说你给个list吧，我的list部分是这样写的：
中国店：
汤圆（芝麻）
看着办
想起来真shame啊
井井有条啊
话说今天猪头要去买菜了，说你给个list吧，我的list部分是这样写的：
中国店：
汤圆（芝麻）
看着办
想起来真shame啊
又看到一个想吃不能吃的东西
真郁闷,晚上吃了1/3cup的brown rice,血糖一点儿也不低,貌似比吃白米饭还高
感情我现在最好死吃菜也不能吃饭了
又看到一个想吃不能吃的东西
真郁闷,晚上吃了1/3cup的brown rice,血糖一点儿也不低,貌似比吃白米饭还高
感情我现在最好死吃菜也不能吃饭了
那还真跟减肥似的吃了，就是会咸吧，多喝水
贝贝真乖
我老感觉俺家小子是横在肚子里的
这两天胎动幅度很大，肚子经常都是歪的。
上次我们去上那个infant CPR，说到carseat，有个已经检查过的宝爸说那个检查的人一脚踏在座位上，然后死命地拽carseat.....看是不是安装合格
结果猪头回来装，我没去看，跟我说我也死命拽了，我说你劲儿不够大，还是检查一下吧，好在生娃的医院有carseat clinic，不知道是不是得预约
这个先往后面排排，今天本来约的ped的什么supervisor要打电话给俺好约见面的，我们好选ped，也没给打，nnd，明天打电话问问
今天也给选中的一家ped center打电话想见面谈谈，结果人家说没有必要，因为是个group，等出生的时候谁当班谁就去医院，但可以去tour一下office，俺估计犯懒就不去了。
井井有条啊
话说今天猪头要去买菜了，说你给个list吧，我的list部分是这样写的：
中国店：
汤圆（芝麻）
看着办
想起来真shame啊
俺也想吃汤圆了。
又看到一个想吃不能吃的东西
真郁闷,晚上吃了1/3cup的brown rice,血糖一点儿也不低,貌似比吃白米饭还高
感情我现在最好死吃菜也不能吃饭了
亲家太可怜了，pat pat！
等娃出生了就可以吃酒酿汤圆了，还有好多好吃的，再忍忍。
大家知道huggies 的尿布怎么样啊？俺家是女娃娃。 这期ｃｏｓｔｃｏ的coupon有ｈｕｇｇｉｅｓ ９块钱ｏｆｆ
我买了一包， 据说较厚，尺寸偏小， 没敢多屯。
这两天胎动幅度很大，肚子经常都是歪的。
俺的肚子也是歪的,右边老高了
我买了一包， 据说较厚，尺寸偏小， 没敢多屯。
mm屯的几号的？
亲家太可怜了，pat pat！
等娃出生了就可以吃酒酿汤圆了，还有好多好吃的，再忍忍。
我也想吃吃酒酿汤圆了，大家一起再忍忍。
俺的肚子也是歪的,右边老高了
有没有人跟我一样，肚子中间那根线是歪的？
而且是非常歪的?
有没有人跟我一样，肚子中间那根线是歪的？
而且是非常歪的?
我的七扭八扭的。
mm屯的几号的？
newborn最小的那种。 听说因为比较厚所以给新生儿穿不容易漏， 等娃的双腿肉多了可以穿薄一点的其他牌子。
但是也有妈妈说娃出生就比较胖乎乎的用Huggies最小号， 腿那里太勒了。
大家知道huggies 的尿布怎么样啊？俺家是女娃娃。 这期ｃｏｓｔｃｏ的coupon有ｈｕｇｇｉｅｓ ９块钱ｏｆｆ
我也刚看到那个，还想上来问问呢。
newborn最小的那种。 听说因为比较厚所以给新生儿穿不容易漏， 等娃的双腿肉多了可以穿薄一点的其他牌子。
但是也有妈妈说娃出生就比较胖乎乎的用Huggies最小号， 腿那里太勒了。
俺已经屯了最小号和1号了， 琢磨着要不要屯大一点的。。。
newborn最小的那种。 听说因为比较厚所以给新生儿穿不容易漏， 等娃的双腿肉多了可以穿薄一点的其他牌子。
但是也有妈妈说娃出生就比较胖乎乎的用Huggies最小号， 腿那里太勒了。
我也屯了huggies的newborn一个jumbo，不过是男娃
剩下的就是pampers1234各一箱，是跟随芳mm给娃买的的第一批东东啦
有没有人跟我一样，肚子中间那根线是歪的？
而且是非常歪的?
我是直的，但是非常偏左，肚脐上猛拐一个大弯然后打直