Many ENFJs have tremendous power to manipulate others with their phenomenal interpersonal skills and unique salesmanship. But it's usually not meant as manipulation -- ENFJs generally believe in their dreams, and see themselves as helpers and enablers, which they usually are.
Many ENFJs have tremendous power to manipulate others with their phenomenal interpersonal skills and unique salesmanship. But it's usually not meant as manipulation -- ENFJs generally believe in their dreams, and see themselves as helpers and enablers, which they usually are.
这一段又说俺们还是有可能变包子:
ENFJs know and appreciate people. Like most NFs, (and Feelers in general), they are apt to neglect themselves and their own needs for the needs of others. They have thinner psychological boundaries than most, and are at risk for being hurt or even abused by less sensitive people. ENFJs often take on more of the burdens of others than they can bear.
ENFJs know and appreciate people. Like most NFs, (and Feelers in general), they are apt to neglect themselves and their own needs for the needs of others. They have thinner psychological boundaries than most, and are at risk for being hurt or even abused by less sensitive people. ENFJs often take on more of the burdens of others than they can bear.
下面的描述确实很符合我。 ENTJs are often "larger than life" in describing their projects or proposals. This ability may be expressed as salesmanship, story-telling facility or stand-up comedy. In combination with the natural propensity for filibuster, our hero can make it very difficult for the customer to decline.
TRADEMARK: -- "I'm really sorry you have to die." (I realize this is an overstatement. However, most Fs and other gentle souls usually chuckle knowingly at this description.)
ENTJs are decisive. They see what needs to be done, and frequently assign roles to their fellows. Few other types can equal their ability to remain resolute in conflict, sending the valiant (and often leading the charge) into the mouth of hell. When challenged, the ENTJ may by reflex become argumentative. Alternatively (s)he may unleash an icy gaze that serves notice: the ENTJ is not one to be trifled with.
Judgers often: Make most decisions pretty easily Are serious & conventional Pay attention to time & are prompt Prefer to finish projects Work first, play later Want things decided See the need for most rules Like to make & stick with plans Find comfort in schedules
Perceivers often: May have difficulty making decisions Are playful & unconventional Are less aware of time & run late Prefer to start projects Play first, work later Want to keep their options open Question the need for many rules Like to keep plans flexible Want the freedom to be spontaneous
Judgers often: Make most decisions pretty easily Are serious & conventional Pay attention to time & are prompt Prefer to finish projects Work first, play later Want things decided See the need for most rules Like to make & stick with plans Find comfort in schedules Perceivers often: May have difficulty making decisions Are playful & unconventional Are less aware of time & run late Prefer to start projects Play first, work later Want to keep their options open Question the need for many rules Like to keep plans flexible Want the freedom to be spontaneous
Judgers often: Make most decisions pretty easily Are serious & conventional Pay attention to time & are prompt Prefer to finish projects Work first, play later Want things decided See the need for most rules Like to make & stick with plans Find comfort in schedules Perceivers often: May have difficulty making decisions Are playful & unconventional Are less aware of time & run late Prefer to start projects Play first, work later Want to keep their options open Question the need for many rules Like to keep plans flexible Want the freedom to be spontaneous
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Hugo Boss
我家zt也是这个观点。
不过我看着我们俩的皮越来越松，觉得还是需要制造点新鲜血液带来点希望。
我倒是觉得生活挺美好的，而且有了孩子之后的生活更加美好了。
wow.. 怎么减的肥。。。我也想减个10几磅。。。
老公还有小蜜啊。。。
我也想要小蜜
是职场上一个测personality的东西，
http://www.mbtireports.com/mbti-reports.asp?gclid=CJbl8pqx-ZwCFclB5godvCQyag
我google了一个free的，不确定是不是完全符合mbti的
http://www.humanmetrics.com/cgi-win/JTypes2.asp
我做了一下
Your Type is
ENFP
Strength of the preferences %
嗯，有能力的妈咪。
好些小孩看着就觉得很evil.
pia你顺带自pia，心里不能这样想也更不能这样说哇
我做了一下
Your Type is
ENFP
Extraverted
Intuitive
Feeling
Perceiving
你说的是intuitive和sensing？
这两个
Intuitive
Feeling
有详细解释每个类型，点自己的看看
喀喀....俺们不是包子！
Many ENFJs have tremendous power to manipulate others with their
phenomenal interpersonal skills and unique salesmanship. But it's
usually not meant as manipulation -- ENFJs generally believe in their
dreams, and see themselves as helpers and enablers, which they usually
are.
热心人啊
喀喀....俺们不是包子！
Many ENFJs have tremendous power to manipulate others with their
phenomenal interpersonal skills and unique salesmanship. But it's
usually not meant as manipulation -- ENFJs generally believe in their
dreams, and see themselves as helpers and enablers, which they usually
are.
这一段又说俺们还是有可能变包子:
ENFJs know and appreciate people. Like most NFs, (and Feelers in
general), they are apt to neglect themselves and their own needs for
the needs of others. They have thinner psychological boundaries than
most, and are at risk for being hurt or even abused by less sensitive
people. ENFJs often take on more of the burdens of others than they can
bear.
这一段又说俺们还是有可能变包子:
ENFJs know and appreciate people. Like most NFs, (and Feelers in
general), they are apt to neglect themselves and their own needs for
the needs of others. They have thinner psychological boundaries than
most, and are at risk for being hurt or even abused by less sensitive
people. ENFJs often take on more of the burdens of others than they can
bear.
我怀疑我老公就是这种
我怀疑我老公就是这种
怎么Oprah Winfrey也是我们这类的名人啊！
ENTJs are often "larger than life" in describing their projects or proposals. This ability may be expressed as salesmanship, story-telling facility or stand-up comedy. In combination with the natural propensity for filibuster, our hero can make it very difficult for the customer to decline.
TRADEMARK: -- "I'm really sorry you have to die." (I realize this is an overstatement. However, most Fs and other gentle souls usually chuckle knowingly at this description.)
ENTJs are decisive. They see what needs to be done, and frequently assign roles to their fellows. Few other types can equal their ability to remain resolute in conflict, sending the valiant (and often leading the charge) into the mouth of hell. When challenged, the ENTJ may by reflex become argumentative. Alternatively (s)he may unleash an icy gaze that serves notice: the ENTJ is not one to be trifled with.
怎么Oprah Winfrey也是我们这类的名人啊！
INFP
Strength of the preferences %
那句"I'm really sorry you have to die." ，很经典呀。
F 们都在大笑....
Your Type is
INFP
Strength of the preferences %
小时候我还挺外向的呀
以下是引用ilovebluedkk在2009-9-18 14:36:00的发言：
你还真内向啊
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那就多出去走走，多和别人聊天儿，但是别强迫自己，要以自己觉得comfortable为前提。其实你在网上和我们聊天儿就聊得不错呀。
小时候我还挺外向的呀
以下是引用ilovebluedkk在2009-9-18 14:36:00的发言：
你还真内向啊
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不是说了很多次要接受自己么。
内向不代表nerd，不懂得social啊。
不是说了很多次要接受自己么。
内向不代表nerd，不懂得social啊。
是的是的，我老公就是内向但是也social
小red的内心世界一定无比的丰富。能有缘感受到的人一定很幸福。
你真sweet呀
不测不测我就是不测。。。
你不用测，我们都能猜出来你是哪种
不测不测我就是不测。。。
你不想测就不测，跟我和kp不想倒是一个道理。
其实是什么type无所谓，重要的是自己下一步怎么走。而且，这个type也就是个model,不一定符合现实情况的。
S和N弄不清楚
你真sweet呀
那我的没你大，估计是个小型精神病院
你真sweet呀
哈哈，你需要坐下来跟jj们好好谈谈。
你真sweet呀
别这么说呀，干吗说自己是大型精神病院呢。
是的是的，我老公就是内向但是也social
咱们的劳工咋这么象呢？
我是I?FP
S和N弄不清楚
我发现咱们楼里F-type的是多数呢。我和kp肯定是T-type的，不知道还有没有其他的T-type的，maybe 风雪？
Homer
INFP:
Homer
哈哈，为什么都这个反应啊
我发现咱们楼里F-type的是多数呢。我和kp肯定是T-type的，不知道还有没有其他的T-type的，maybe 风雪？
我觉得女人里F都是多数。
INFP:
Homer
INFPs have the ability to see good in almost anyone or anything. Even for the most unlovable the INFP is wont to have pity.
多么好的品质呀。
我发现咱们楼里F-type的是多数呢。我和kp肯定是T-type的，不知道还有没有其他的T-type的，maybe 风雪？
可能男人里t多，女人里f多
哈哈，为什么都这个反应啊
我以为是这个：
哪里可以看到这个distribution呢？
我看的wiki上的描述有。
哈哈，你需要坐下来跟jj们好好谈谈。
那我的没你大，估计是个小型精神病院
我就是一个小型的心理诊所了嘻嘻
我就是一个小型的心理诊所了嘻嘻
那我先过来诊断一下，小red那个让她找个大型心理诊所
我就是一个小型的心理诊所了嘻嘻
我是一个非常visual的人，脑海里马上浮现出concord和xyin跟小red促膝谈心的场景.....
我发现咱们楼里F-type的是多数呢。我和kp肯定是T-type的，不知道还有没有其他的T-type的，maybe 风雪？
yes
I'm very much like KP
我是一个非常visual的人，脑海里马上浮现出concord和xyin跟小red促膝谈心的场景.....
那我先过来诊断一下，小red那个让她找个大型心理诊所
你这个装病的。。。
那就多出去走走，多和别人聊天儿，但是别强迫自己，要以自己觉得comfortable为前提。其实你在网上和我们聊天儿就聊得不错呀。
上次问嗯嗯为啥我在网上话痨、现实里哑巴，她说了空间和预期，我自己总结还有几点。。我的内向好像不是不想说，更多的是不确定能不能说，其中包括是否appropriate，对方是否感兴趣，说出来是否有不良影响。。。脸红
yes
I'm very much like KP
你看到Malibu今天给错先生写的信了么？
我发现咱们楼里F-type的是多数呢。我和kp肯定是T-type的，不知道还有没有其他的T-type的，maybe 风雪？
yes she is T. 我一度万分不理解任何非T type的思维
不是说了很多次要接受自己么。
内向不代表nerd，不懂得social啊。
yes
I'm very much like KP
你其他三个纬度是啥？
上次问嗯嗯为啥我在网上话痨、现实里哑巴，她说了空间和预期，我自己总结还有几点。。我的内向好像不是不想说，更多的是不确定能不能说，其中包括是否appropriate，对方是否感兴趣，说出来是否有不良影响。。。脸红
I/E都不要紧的，我也认识I但是social的人。。。。。。。。不需要强迫自己改变，做适合自己的事情比较好。
你其他三个纬度是啥？
same as u, I suppose
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那我的没你大，估计是个小型精神病院
是的是的，我老公就是内向但是也social
新鲜，内向的social、social的内向啥样呢？我一直把social当做外向的标志来着
same as u
我是啥？我都不知道我应该是istj 还是istp
新鲜，内向的social、social的内向啥样呢？我一直把social当做外向的标志来着
我觉得social是有能力跟人愉快交往，但是I是多数时候prefer自个儿
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哈哈，你需要坐下来跟jj们好好谈谈。
上次问嗯嗯为啥我在网上话痨、现实里哑巴，她说了空间和预期，我自己总结还有几点。。我的内向好像不是不想说，更多的是不确定能不能说，其中包括是否appropriate，对方是否感兴趣，说出来是否有不良影响。。。脸红
大概是I+F的表现吧
新鲜，内向的social、social的内向啥样呢？我一直把social当做外向的标志来着
我觉得social就是能在不同的场合跟非特定的人群有一定的interaction. 对我来说，social更倾向于是一种技能，谈笑风生的人不见得他的内心就是开放的。
上次问嗯嗯为啥我在网上话痨、现实里哑巴，她说了空间和预期，我自己总结还有几点。。我的内向好像不是不想说，更多的是不确定能不能说，其中包括是否appropriate，对方是否感兴趣，说出来是否有不良影响。。。脸红
我认识一个男生，那个内向的，我猜他的内向度是95%。每次他和人说什么，他都长着嘴说不出来，人家急了，就帮他说，猜他意思，猜对了，他就嗯一下，猜错了他就摇一下头...orz
我认识一个男生，那个内向的，我猜他的内向度是95%。每次他和人说什么，他都长着嘴说不出来，人家急了，就帮他说，猜他意思，猜对了，他就嗯一下，猜错了他就摇一下头...orz
这是表达能力障碍吧。
新鲜，内向的social、social的内向啥样呢？我一直把social当做外向的标志来着
内向就是不怎么表达出内心的感觉，social就是不怕和人交往啊
我是啥？我都不知道我应该是istj 还是istp
那你做题测测吧。
我是啥？我都不知道我应该是istj 还是istp
j和p到底是指什么呢？
内向就是不怎么表达出内心的感觉，social就是不怕和人交往啊
我觉得内向的人其实更有表达内心感觉的需要。只不过很多时候他们不倾向于用言语。是这样么？小red ?
那你做题测测吧。
做了，j/p不明显
我是啥？我都不知道我应该是istj 还是istp
Judgers often: Make most decisions pretty easily Are serious & conventional Pay attention to time & are prompt Prefer to finish projects Work first, play later Want things decided See the need for most rules Like to make & stick with plans Find comfort in schedules
Perceivers often: May have difficulty making decisions Are playful & unconventional Are less aware of time & run late Prefer to start projects Play first, work later Want to keep their options open Question the need for many rules Like to keep plans flexible Want the freedom to be spontaneous
别这么说呀，干吗说自己是大型精神病院呢。
就像天涯那个精神病人贴似的，各种奇怪不奇怪的想法，相互矛盾又强烈，互相吵架阿，或者特别high，或者特别low
其实我还挺enjoy我的内心，够热闹，就是想life里也像内心里一样热闹呀。。
你笑啥....我就跟你谈！
Judgers often: Make most decisions pretty easily Are serious & conventional Pay attention to time & are prompt Prefer to finish projects Work first, play later Want things decided See the need for most rules Like to make & stick with plans Find comfort in schedules
Perceivers often: May have difficulty making decisions Are playful & unconventional Are less aware of time & run late Prefer to start projects Play first, work later Want to keep their options open Question the need for many rules Like to keep plans flexible Want the freedom to be spontaneous
我真是大P
大I 大F 大P
我是一个非常visual的人，脑海里马上浮现出concord和xyin跟小red促膝谈心的场景.....
我真是大P
大I 大F 大P
有艺术气质的工程师哇....
Judgers often: Make most decisions pretty easily Are serious & conventional Pay attention to time & are prompt Prefer to finish projects Work first, play later Want things decided See the need for most rules Like to make & stick with plans Find comfort in schedules
Perceivers often: May have difficulty making decisions Are playful & unconventional Are less aware of time & run late Prefer to start projects Play first, work later Want to keep their options open Question the need for many rules Like to keep plans flexible Want the freedom to be spontaneous
o
那我肯定是P
就像天涯那个精神病人贴似的，各种奇怪不奇怪的想法，相互矛盾又强烈，互相吵架阿，或者特别high，或者特别low
其实我还挺enjoy我的内心，够热闹，就是想life里也像内心里一样热闹呀。。
不是说这世间上没有完全心理健康的人吗？所以有些奇怪的想法本身不奇怪
从前教育影响的，强迫自己往J上靠拢，这几年，尤其２５岁之后，老是做特别冲动的事情，老是一分钟激情万丈下一分钟又完全没感觉，完全是P的表现
对，隔段时间再做同样的测试，估计结果又会有点改变。We are shaping who we are constantly.
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I/E都不要紧的，我也认识I但是social的人。。。。。。。。不需要强迫自己改变，做适合自己的事情比较好。
以下是引用kittypeny在2009-9-18 15:00:00的发言：
我觉得social是有能力跟人愉快交往，但是I是多数时候prefer自个儿
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你笑啥....我就跟你谈！
交钱就谈。。
看书的时候看到参加party，i的人会觉得时间够了就想回去了（这个时间，是半小时），e的人，参加一个party回来半夜２－３点了，还觉得精力更充沛了，ready to go to the next party。e是与人交往是recharge，i是需要dispense energy
那就是i吧，我觉得外向的人哭着闹着喊着也要把想法表现不来，不一定用语言说
尼采和霍金都是intj的。恩，比较恐怖。
还好我是entj的，目前来看，思维还算正常。
看书的时候看到参加party，i的人会觉得时间够了就想回去了（这个时间，是半小时），e的人，参加一个party回来半夜２－３点了，还觉得精力更充沛了，ready to go to the next party。e是与人交往是recharge，i是需要dispense energy
那你说的这个是大E，我这个moderate E没有这个需求
还好我是entj的，目前来看，思维还算正常。
霍金怎么不正常了？
What would u do if u were Malibu?
霍金怎么不正常了？
霍金我不了解，尼采后来可是很不正常。不过我读那本尼采哭泣的书，挺待见尼采的，虽然他做事怪了点儿，可是他的思想，真是闪闪发光呀。
那你说的这个是大E，我这个moderate E没有这个需求
我就是一个"一见了人多头就大了"的100% I......
我觉得内向的人其实更有表达内心感觉的需要。只不过很多时候他们不倾向于用言语。是这样么？小red ?
nod nod
至少我是这样
想起有一段我废话特别多，每天晚自习之前都揪住一个朋友说，一直说到上课，现在都想不起来说啥了。。估计不是内心感受
后来好像是对small talk没兴趣，自己又没啥big talk，感兴趣big talk的人又少，就不说了
我真是大P
大I 大F 大P
Xyin,
What would u do if u were Malibu?
霍金我不了解，尼采后来可是很不正常。不过我读那本尼采哭泣的书，挺待见尼采的，虽然他做事怪了点儿，可是他的思想，真是闪闪发光呀。
你咋知道尼采不正常？ 也许是我们不正常呢。。。
xyin will never waste time on someone she does not love
尼采和霍金都是intj的。恩，比较恐怖。
都说尼采疯是因为梅毒
所以intj应该不危险哈
我就是一个"一见了人多头就大了"的100% I......
我比较喜欢小型活动，几个关系好的一起玩，太多人也怵的
xyin will never waste time on someone she does not love
有意思，我基本是100% I, S moderate, 100% T, J/P特征都有，等再过几年搞不好彻底变成P。。。。。
你是istp, 我是entj，貌似只有一个t是相同的，但是我们的思维方式如此相似，为什么呢？
你咋知道尼采不正常？ 也许是我们不正常呢。。。
common sense, common sense.
看书的时候看到参加party，i的人会觉得时间够了就想回去了（这个时间，是半小时），e的人，参加一个party回来半夜２－３点了，还觉得精力更充沛了，ready to go to the next party。e是与人交往是recharge，i是需要dispense energy
你这个描述太精辟了！