yes, of course you should pay for it. They said the plan is cheap, but not say that it is free for you. I think they are playing nice to you since they thought the plan is cheap, to help you, a exchange student, to save money. They are so nice. Just don't understand why are you so upset about them. Sigh!!!
because a lot things happened, and, i never mean to not pay that money. of course if they can tell me before, that will be much better. i can save money by talking with my family online. actually i did that couple times. my parents can't type fast. and usually i don't use the family phone. i was upset because they said they wanted me be a part of the family, and i tried so hard. finally it turned out to this result. i tried my best to help them, too. i cleaned the house, vacuum the floor, empty the dish washer, translate the english to chinese for their adopting son from china.... the only reason it did upset me was they didn't ask for that money before. now they did. i know they are nice persons... maybe i am still kid. i really wish i can be independent, not depends on anyone else
because a lot things happened, and, i never mean to not pay that money. of course if they can tell me before, that will be much better. i can save money by talking with my family online. actually i did that couple times. my parents can't type fast. and usually i don't use the family phone. i was upset because they said they wanted me be a part of the family, and i tried so hard. finally it turned out to this result. i tried my best to help them, too. i cleaned the house, vacuum the floor, empty the dish washer, translate the english to chinese for their adopting son from china.... the only reason it did upset me was they didn't ask for that money before. now they did. i know they are nice persons... maybe i am still kid. i really wish i can be independent, not depends on anyone else
what do you mean? if you don't want to call your family in china, why did you call? I think you are just want to take advantage of them, you think it is free, like "不打白不打". now it is not free, then you are upset. This is not the correct attitude to your hosting family. For God sake, like you said, they volunteered themseives and tried to play nice to you. You should appreciate their kindness, not whining here. I think I am too old to understand you after 80's maybe after 90's kids. really big sigh!!!
because a lot things happened, and, i never mean to not pay that money. of course if they can tell me before, that will be much better. i can save money by talking with my family online. actually i did that couple times. my parents can't type fast. and usually i don't use the family phone. i was upset because they said they wanted me be a part of the family, and i tried so hard. finally it turned out to this result. i tried my best to help them, too. i cleaned the house, vacuum the floor, empty the dish washer, translate the english to chinese for their adopting son from china.... the only reason it did upset me was they didn't ask for that money before. now they did. i know they are nice persons... maybe i am still kid. i really wish i can be independent, not depends on anyone else
i tried my best to help them, too. i cleaned the house, vacuum the floor, empty the dish washer, translate the english to chinese for their adopting son from china....
because a lot things happened, and, i never mean to not pay that money. of course if they can tell me before, that will be much better. i can save money by talking with my family online. actually i did that couple times. my parents can't type fast. and usually i don't use the family phone. i was upset because they said they wanted me be a part of the family, and i tried so hard. finally it turned out to this result. i tried my best to help them, too. i cleaned the house, vacuum the floor, empty the dish washer, translate the english to chinese for their adopting son from china.... the only reason it did upset me was they didn't ask for that money before. now they did. i know they are nice persons... maybe i am still kid. i really wish i can be independent, not depends on anyone else
This has nothing to do with you paying the phone bill.
"i tried my best to help them, too. i cleaned the house, vacuum the floor, empty the dish washer, translate the english to chinese for their adopting son from china...."
This is the part that you should do, you should appreciate their help. Even if you are in your own house in china, this is the part that you should help your mom. This is a common courtesy, not like you are doing a big favor for your hosting family. Oh, my god, I am speechless.
"i tried my best to help them, too. i cleaned the house, vacuum the floor, empty the dish washer, translate the english to chinese for their adopting son from china...."
This is the part that you should do, you should appreciate their help. Even if you are in your own house in china, this is the part that you should help your mom. This is a common courtesy, not like you are doing a big favor for your hosting family. Oh, my god, I am speechless.
totally agree. lz is still complaining about the hosting family, not checking herself. Oh, I am too old to understand these after 90's kids. speechless!!!
算了，你也是一小姑娘，心疼钱也可以理解。对Host family 的责任义务有误解也可以原谅。不过既然你选择出来做交换学生，就要多通点人情世故，这个不是你认为的虚伪的贬义，而是在社会上生存的必备独立技能。不是说逢人笑脸就是会通人情世故的。学会理解宽容别人的难处比逢迎别人更难以掌握，却是更需要的。如果每个人都能多体谅点别人，做事情的时候考虑别人的感受和付出（包括人情和金钱），就会皆大欢喜。
谢谢大家的指教
好好学习天天向上[跑走]
[此贴子已经被作者于2010/12/9 22:12:45编辑过]
猫是高中交流学生,Forte项目的
上个周末刚刚换接待家庭
以前的接待家庭表面上还很nice的说希望你在那边开心啊什么的
猫走之前还给两个kids留了生日礼物玉坠什么的...自家父母挑选了送过来的...host mother喜欢茶还给她留了猫所有的铁观音
然后今天猫现在的host mother[就是猫的英文老师]查邮箱的时候说...你的lc[就是猫Fort协会的当地负责人]发邮件过来说你在你之前host family家打的电话12月和1月的钱欠着没交,她让你还给他们
大概是60+美元
猫听着非常不是滋味
觉得非常讽刺...因为之前猫到他们家的时候他们就主动说了自己家有打电话到china的plan很便宜...让猫自己可以随便打[于是猫大概每礼拜通一通电话...打到家里(因为只能打固话)每次大概1,2个小时...偶尔有时间长的]
那时猫还好好的问下了的...因为觉得有plan的话不用白不用就用了
猫是8月到的...之前他们提都没提过要付钱这个事
现在一换家庭了就要钱了= =
[钱倒不是什么非常大的问题,虽然是自己不挣钱(当然想为父母省钱)]就是心里堵得慌...难受...
如果他们要收钱的话...早就应该跟猫说好...再说了msn还是免费的呢...skype也绝对比这个便宜
早知道他们要收费的话谁还会打这个电话啊
毕竟60美元对猫这种没有挣钱能力的人来说不是个小数目,加上交流项目花的钱不会少
现在真是像吃了苍蝇一样难过
真是虚伪..
刚刚对现在的host mother说猫会付...但是请跟猫的lc说清楚事实以免人家觉得猫是捐款逃走的小人
但现在有点小不爽了
凭什么没说好的事情要让猫付钱啊
莫名又奇妙
请问大家说这个钱要不要付啊.
[叙述有点乱大家不要介意啊]
[此贴子已经被作者于2009-2-2 19:42:05编辑过]
付。
对他们真是没话讲了
那时猫还好好的问下了的...因为觉得有plan的话不用白不用就用了”
人家说便宜，没说免费。
你一打1，2个小时，你觉得人家应该给你付这个钱吗？
我觉得人家没有任何对不起你的地方。
你的确没啥话可以讲的。
以后类似的事情，要跟人家说清楚，先说清楚了，大家都有共识，就好办
不应该相信他人
的确是自己的不是
不应该相信他人
我觉得这个态度不太好，不是相信别人的问题，是自己假设的对不对，人家房租没说包电话费吧？他们说他家的plan很便宜，我个人觉得如果我刚才的推算正确，如果是座机的plan，确实很便宜了，如果你自己心里价位的便宜跟他们的不一样，当初就应该问多便宜的。另外，人家只是说你可以用他的plan--我理解就是说，他们交了月费的，你不用自己单独申请一个了，人家没说，你可以免费打长途吧，不能心里假设人家是免费的，应该先问清楚是不是免费的
现在信不过人家，还是可以跟人家要账单啊，问他们怎么收费的，怎么算出来60块的，也算弄个明白
我觉得这个态度不太好，不是相信别人的问题，是自己假设的对不对，人家房租没说包电话费吧？他们说他家的plan很便宜，我个人觉得如果我刚才的推算正确，如果是座机的plan，确实很便宜了，如果你自己心里价位的便宜跟他们的不一样，当初就应该问多便宜的。另外，人家只是说你可以用他的plan--我理解就是说，他们交了月费的，你不用自己单独申请一个了，人家没说，你可以免费打长途吧，不能心里假设人家是免费的，应该先问清楚是不是免费的
现在信不过人家，还是可以跟人家要账单啊，问他们怎么收费的，怎么算出来60块的，也算弄个明白
Agree. They never said it was free.
猫问过,他们就说很便宜[以显示他们的友好]
是接待家庭,volunteer性质的
本来打电话就不用申请的,又不是非得打电话不可
心里很可笑的还想帮他们用掉点plan呢
不够世故果然那自己还是很幼稚的人
[各位jjs请不要以大人的标准来带入谢谢]
的确是自己的不是
不应该相信他人
你还是在埋怨别人。
我觉得人家没做错什么。
是你自己take advantage,
我觉得你如果打个几分钟，人家不会好意思跟你要两三块钱。
你上来就打一个小时，两个月打了60多美元。
换成是我，我也要跟你要钱。
谁家的钱都不是天上掉下来的。
另外你自己都知道MSN免费，你为啥要用人家电话？
人家又没说是免费，只是说便宜啊 。
还有啊，mm，我有点不习惯你自称自己的方式，呵呵，总觉得像写小说的第三人称，而且我还常常误以为是真的猫
不是不是房租
猫问过,他们就说很便宜[以显示他们的友好]
是接待家庭,volunteer性质的
本来打电话就不用申请的,又不是非得打电话不可
心里很可笑的还想帮他们用掉点plan呢
不够世故果然那自己还是很幼稚的人
[各位jjs请不要以大人的标准来带入谢谢]
都不知道说什么了。
你叫大家不要用大人的标准来衡量你，
你花钱的时候可跟大人有啥区别？
不是不是房租
猫问过,他们就说很便宜[以显示他们的友好]
是接待家庭,volunteer性质的
本来打电话就不用申请的,又不是非得打电话不可
心里很可笑的还想帮他们用掉点plan呢
不够世故果然那自己还是很幼稚的人
[各位jjs请不要以大人的标准来带入谢谢]
Has nothing to do with being 不够世故, it's pure common sense to me.
不是不是房租
猫问过,他们就说很便宜[以显示他们的友好]
是接待家庭,volunteer性质的
本来打电话就不用申请的,又不是非得打电话不可
心里很可笑的还想帮他们用掉点plan呢
不够世故果然那自己还是很幼稚的人
[各位jjs请不要以大人的标准来带入谢谢]
这段我实在看不懂，大人果然不懂高中生的事情
不是不是房租
猫问过,他们就说很便宜[以显示他们的友好]
是接待家庭,volunteer性质的
本来打电话就不用申请的,又不是非得打电话不可
心里很可笑的还想帮他们用掉点plan呢
不够世故果然那自己还是很幼稚的人
[各位jjs请不要以大人的标准来带入谢谢]
什么叫帮人家用掉点plan啊？你不交钱，光打电话的话，帮人家在哪啊？你一打一两个小时，占着电话线，人家想用电话还不方便呢，说不定还有别人打进来。
你没有不够世故，而是不够成熟吧，的确是比较幼稚。
i can save money by talking with my family online. actually i did that couple times. my parents can't type fast. and usually i don't use the family phone.
i was upset because they said they wanted me be a part of the family, and i tried so hard. finally it turned out to this result.
i tried my best to help them, too. i cleaned the house, vacuum the floor, empty the dish washer, translate the english to chinese for their adopting son from china....
the only reason it did upset me was they didn't ask for that money before. now they did.
i know they are nice persons...
maybe i am still kid. i really wish i can be independent, not depends on anyone else
人家host family热情接待，而且主动把便宜电话给你用，最后还落得这个说法。要是我，我会主动要求付钱的，想当年我刚来美国住host family家，尽量都不用人家家里的东西，怕给别人造成不必要的麻烦。有几次host family要请我出去吃饭我都没去，觉得让我白住已经够好的了，再让人破费真是不好意思。
你这个态度处事，
以后还是要吃苦头的。
如果我猜测错了，你就忽视啊，我确实不懂高中生的想法，就是猜测一下
because a lot things happened, and, i never mean to not pay that money. of course if they can tell me before, that will be much better.
i can save money by talking with my family online. actually i did that couple times. my parents can't type fast. and usually i don't use the family phone.
i was upset because they said they wanted me be a part of the family, and i tried so hard. finally it turned out to this result.
i tried my best to help them, too. i cleaned the house, vacuum the floor, empty the dish washer, translate the english to chinese for their adopting son from china....
the only reason it did upset me was they didn't ask for that money before. now they did.
i know they are nice persons...
maybe i am still kid. i really wish i can be independent, not depends on anyone else
电话帐单都是用掉一个月后，过段时间才会寄出来的。你住的时候，他们帐单还没到，也不知道你用掉多少钱，当然没找你要钱了。现在帐单寄到了，才找你要钱，不是挺合理的么。
现在的小孩都怎么了，真是无语。
人家host family热情接待，而且主动把便宜电话给你用，最后还落得这个说法。要是我，我会主动要求付钱的，想当年我刚来美国住host family家，尽量都不用人家家里的东西，怕给别人造成不必要的麻烦。有几次host family要请我出去吃饭我都没去，觉得让我白住已经够好的了，再让人破费真是不好意思。
恩
其实也并不是每个礼拜都打的算了怎么说都是自己的错[因为是part of the family]
吃饭什么的猫也不想...不这么做他们会认为你不是part of the family= =
猫在他们家中小心翼翼的也很累...不知道什么该做什么不该做
他们还有一个巴西的学生
电话经常打...而且时间都比较长...于是乎才大意了
反省
现在已经冷静下来了
what do you mean? if you don't want to call your family in china, why did you call? I think you are just want to take advantage of them, you think it is free, like "不打白不打". now it is not free, then you are upset. This is not the correct attitude to your hosting family. For God sake, like you said, they volunteered themseives and tried to play nice to you. You should appreciate their kindness, not whining here. I think I am too old to understand you after 80's maybe after 90's kids. really big sigh!!!
because a lot things happened, and, i never mean to not pay that money. of course if they can tell me before, that will be much better.
i can save money by talking with my family online. actually i did that couple times. my parents can't type fast. and usually i don't use the family phone.
i was upset because they said they wanted me be a part of the family, and i tried so hard. finally it turned out to this result.
i tried my best to help them, too. i cleaned the house, vacuum the floor, empty the dish washer, translate the english to chinese for their adopting son from china....
the only reason it did upset me was they didn't ask for that money before. now they did.
i know they are nice persons...
maybe i am still kid. i really wish i can be independent, not depends on anyone else
你的想法有问题。
我也不多说啥问题了。
社会会慢慢告诉你。
从来没说是免费的
当然应该给钱啦
i tried my best to help them, too. i cleaned the house, vacuum the floor, empty the dish washer, translate the english to chinese for their adopting son from china....
人家是volunteer性质的,你这样做是应该的
恩
其实也并不是每个礼拜都打的算了怎么说都是自己的错[因为是part of the family]
吃饭什么的猫也不想...不这么做他们会认为你不是part of the family= =
猫在他们家中小心翼翼的也很累...不知道什么该做什么不该做
他们还有一个巴西的学生
电话经常打...而且时间都比较长...于是乎才大意了
反省
现在已经冷静下来了
放心，那个巴西学生也会收到电话账单的，呵呵。
放心，那个巴西学生也会收到电话账单的，呵呵。
话说回来，巴西学生不收到，也是这个家庭跟巴西学生之间的事情。。。如果这家做的都是义工性质的话，没有说一定要对所有的学生完全一致对待啊。。。。
这个社会没什么人"应该"去照顾你的,你必须学会独立生活.
社会会给你上课的
不是不是房租
猫问过,他们就说很便宜[以显示他们的友好]
是接待家庭,volunteer性质的
本来打电话就不用申请的,又不是非得打电话不可
心里很可笑的还想帮他们用掉点plan呢
不够世故果然那自己还是很幼稚的人
[各位jjs请不要以大人的标准来带入谢谢]
那就更应该付钱了
because a lot things happened, and, i never mean to not pay that money. of course if they can tell me before, that will be much better.
i can save money by talking with my family online. actually i did that couple times. my parents can't type fast. and usually i don't use the family phone.
i was upset because they said they wanted me be a part of the family, and i tried so hard. finally it turned out to this result.
i tried my best to help them, too. i cleaned the house, vacuum the floor, empty the dish washer, translate the english to chinese for their adopting son from china....
the only reason it did upset me was they didn't ask for that money before. now they did.
i know they are nice persons...
maybe i am still kid. i really wish i can be independent, not depends on anyone else
This has nothing to do with you paying the phone bill.
恩之前记得和host mother谈过电话plan...猫说如果给欧洲打怎么样呢?[就是问问]然后她说给欧洲打自己付钱啊
可能因为自己之前做过俩届的host family心里有比较
以为自己做的足够好了
恩之前他们都没说过这件事现在moving on了就跟lc这么提...猫只是觉得不是滋味而已
毕竟一开始真的是全然把他们当做是family
人情世故我一直不是很好
去年才算是比较会装
一当family尾巴都露出来了呵呵...
好好学习下
什么叫帮人家用掉点plan啊？你不交钱，光打电话的话，帮人家在哪啊？你一打一两个小时，占着电话线，人家想用电话还不方便呢，说不定还有别人打进来。
你没有不够世故，而是不够成熟吧，的确是比较幼稚。
人情这方面的确很幼稚
[反省中]
LZMM,你刚一个人出来生活
这个社会没什么人"应该"去照顾你的,你必须学会独立生活.
社会会给你上课的
ｗｅｌｌ ｓａｉｄ
他应该不会被收费的说
恩之前记得和host mother谈过电话plan...猫说如果给欧洲打怎么样呢?[就是问问]然后她说给欧洲打自己付钱啊
可能因为自己之前做过俩届的host family心里有比较
以为自己做的足够好了
恩之前他们都没说过这件事现在moving on了就跟lc这么提...猫只是觉得不是滋味而已
毕竟一开始真的是全然把他们当做是family
人情世故我一直不是很好
去年才算是比较会装
一当family尾巴都露出来了呵呵...
好好学习下
你是不是觉得人家HOST FAMILY应该替你掏这60刀账单？
因为是接待家庭，所以要按家庭标准？
他应该不会被收费的说
恩之前记得和host mother谈过电话plan...猫说如果给欧洲打怎么样呢?[就是问问]然后她说给欧洲打自己付钱啊
可能因为自己之前做过俩届的host family心里有比较
以为自己做的足够好了
恩之前他们都没说过这件事现在moving on了就跟lc这么提...猫只是觉得不是滋味而已
毕竟一开始真的是全然把他们当做是family
人情世故我一直不是很好
去年才算是比较会装
一当family尾巴都露出来了呵呵...
好好学习下
为什么你觉得你这事情是因为你不懂人情世故不会装，
而我觉得是你不懂人情世故不懂得体谅别人和尊重别人的付出
他应该不会被收费的说
恩之前记得和host mother谈过电话plan...猫说如果给欧洲打怎么样呢?[就是问问]然后她说给欧洲打自己付钱啊
可能因为自己之前做过俩届的host family心里有比较
以为自己做的足够好了
恩之前他们都没说过这件事现在moving on了就跟lc这么提...猫只是觉得不是滋味而已
毕竟一开始真的是全然把他们当做是family
人情世故我一直不是很好
去年才算是比较会装
一当family尾巴都露出来了呵呵...
好好学习下
family可和国内的爸妈不一样哦.
另外关于电话,我真觉得是不是交流方面的误解,应该是别人说要付钱的,只是中国的便宜些,其他国家的,他们可能没这个plan,不会有优惠,所以你要自己给钱打,他们不会给你弄plan
这是叫做做人的基本道理。
另，爹妈打字慢，可以视频啊。
不是不是房租
猫问过,他们就说很便宜[以显示他们的友好]
是接待家庭,volunteer性质的
本来打电话就不用申请的,又不是非得打电话不可
心里很可笑的还想帮他们用掉点plan呢
不够世故果然那自己还是很幼稚的人
[各位jjs请不要以大人的标准来带入谢谢]
中年妇女无言地跑开。
心里比较委屈
现在非常后悔没有就用skype什么的
诶
早知如此何必当初
如果真的是大人就好了
中年妇女无言地跑开。
别，你看我还坚持着呢，哎
This is the part that you should do, you should appreciate their help. Even if you are in your own house in china, this is the part that you should help your mom. This is a common courtesy, not like you are doing a big favor for your hosting family. Oh, my god, I am speechless.
你是不是觉得人家HOST FAMILY应该替你掏这60刀账单？
因为是接待家庭，所以要按家庭标准？
不,猫会付钱
主要是他们之前都不说
有点小郁闷了[想为父母省钱呵呵]
中年妇女无言地跑开。
别介.
高中的话,很多人应该都有身份证了吧
在中国,那已经叫成年了,大人了啊
嘻嘻，现在大家讲自己的事都会用第三人称吗。
啊这个是初中时的绰号
用惯了不好意思
她都不说自己是小孩
之前之前发生了太多事[丧失了应有的判断力]
心里比较委屈
现在非常后悔没有就用skype什么的
诶
早知如此何必当初
如果真的是大人就好了
我中年妇女真受不了，你碰到的这事情，不需要有20年的（你定义大人多大？）的人生经历才能应对的
另外不要说人情世故，说的好像你很天真无邪一样。
这是叫做做人的基本道理。
另，爹妈打字慢，可以视频啊。
他们是电脑盲...而且一开始没买笔记本电脑
恩没有这个意思
天真无邪倒好了...也不用难受了
另外, 不知道哦啊是不是猫的俄错觉
大家教训的[或者说教导]的很起劲的说
[此贴子已经被作者于2009-2-2 20:40:07编辑过]
我中年妇女真受不了，你碰到的这事情，不需要有20年的（你定义大人多大？）的人生经历才能应对的
我也要抓狂了
已现在小孩的成熟速度来说,初中都能叫大人了
之前之前发生了太多事[丧失了应有的判断力]
心里比较委屈
现在非常后悔没有就用skype什么的
诶
早知如此何必当初
如果真的是大人就好了
吃一堑，长一智。但是要学习的不是抱怨别人，要学会反省自己。
我看你前前后后都是埋怨人家世故，虚伪，这不是真的反省。
"i tried my best to help them, too. i cleaned the house, vacuum the floor, empty the dish washer, translate the english to chinese for their adopting son from china...."
This is the part that you should do, you should appreciate their help. Even if you are in your own house in china, this is the part that you should help your mom. This is a common courtesy, not like you are doing a big favor for your hosting family. Oh, my god, I am speechless.
可能现在的孩子都一点不做家务？
不,猫会付钱
主要是他们之前都不说
有点小郁闷了[想为父母省钱呵呵]
如果你想省钱，就不要一打打1个小时。
你这是慷他人之慨。
他们是电脑盲...而且一开始没买笔记本电脑
恩没有这个意思
天真无邪倒好了...也不用难受了
另外, 不知道哦啊是不是猫的俄错觉
大家教训的[或者说教导]的很起劲的说
[此贴子已经被作者于2009-2-2 20:40:07编辑过]
因为中年妇女们晚饭吃饱了撑着没事干。
totally agree. lz is still complaining about the hosting family, not checking herself. Oh, I am too old to understand these after 90's kids. speechless!!!
因为中年妇女们晚饭吃饱了撑着没事干。
我还饿着呢。。。。。。。。
但是别太自我了,
没有什么是"应该"的,
zhuxiaodi说的很对,反省不是这样的,不是把责任推给别人
他应该不会被收费的说
恩之前记得和host mother谈过电话plan...猫说如果给欧洲打怎么样呢?[就是问问]然后她说给欧洲打自己付钱啊
可能因为自己之前做过俩届的host family心里有比较
以为自己做的足够好了
恩之前他们都没说过这件事现在moving on了就跟lc这么提...猫只是觉得不是滋味而已
毕竟一开始真的是全然把他们当做是family
人情世故我一直不是很好
去年才算是比较会装
一当family尾巴都露出来了呵呵...
好好学习下
什么叫尾巴都露出来了啊。。。。无语。。。。如果让我当你的host family，我听到会去撞墙。。。
呵呵
不是承认自己的错误还是好孩子嘛
猫妹妹,你要是发去天涯的话,只怕你这只猫已经被人肢解的七七四十九块了
就是猫尾巴[正经]
呵呵
不是承认自己的错误还是好孩子嘛
哦，是说你自己啊，那我听错了。其实你一开始就对你的host family说，你就是一只猫，当猫来养你，就好了。我于猫的关系，从来都是奴隶和奴隶主的关系啊。。。。
他们是电脑盲...而且一开始没买笔记本电脑
恩没有这个意思
天真无邪倒好了...也不用难受了
另外, 不知道哦啊是不是猫的俄错觉
大家教训的[或者说教导]的很起劲的说
[此贴子已经被作者于2009-2-2 20:40:07编辑过]
中年妇女就是负责教导未成年儿童的。
猫并没有推卸责任的意思
事情的确是发生了很多
这里不多说了...毕竟自己还没能好好的理清头绪
说到家务...不好意思会是会...但是以前国内的时候作业实在太多...每天一般能睡4,5小时大概...除了作业基本还是作业
嘛...
[最多周五晚上洗个碗什么的]
[而且那家的小孩不会主动做家务的说]
哦，是说你自己啊，那我听错了。其实你一开始就对你的host family说，你就是一只猫，当猫来养你，就好了。我于猫的关系，从来都是奴隶和奴隶主的关系啊。。。。
= =说这个不是没事找抽么
哈哈哈,改了个标题
猫妹妹,你要是发去天涯的话,只怕你这只猫已经被人肢解的七七四十九块了
不喜欢天涯的说...再说了平时基本不逛论坛
都是一阵一阵的
恩这倒不一定的说...刚刚太激动了
[不是说一面之词的话会有偏袒么][just kidding]
那多谢姐姐教导:)
你可以说，多谢大妈们教导。
恩猫的personality太强了的说
你可以说，多谢大妈们教导。
这个绝对会被拖出去打的
[总体来说,猫还是一个很nice的人呀][掩面跑走]
就是千千风格的说[其实是归纳概括能力不好...语文水平直线下降= =]
恩猫的personality太强了的说
你是说你个性很强？这倒是没有觉得
你是说你个性很强？这倒是没有觉得
呵呵因为对陌生人隐藏的很好~~~
的确是自己的不是
不应该相信他人
天下没有白吃的晚餐，以后你就明白了。在国外，人情是一回事，但是帐人家会算清的。
这楼盖得真快。。。（经常企图盖高楼经常落败的人眼红的留）
这种找骂的帖没什么好眼红的吧
没有看出hosting family有什么明显做得不好的地方，我觉得他们能让人来家里白住，就已经是很有容忍度了~
客客气气的不是挺好嘛,又不要...说猫把他们当hotel...
[打住]接待家庭的情况比较复杂哈
牢骚比较多大家不要介意
[无视就好了的说]
他应该不会被收费的说
恩之前记得和host mother谈过电话plan...猫说如果给欧洲打怎么样呢?[就是问问]然后她说给欧洲打自己付钱啊
可能因为自己之前做过俩届的host family心里有比较
以为自己做的足够好了
恩之前他们都没说过这件事现在moving on了就跟lc这么提...猫只是觉得不是滋味而已
毕竟一开始真的是全然把他们当做是family
人情世故我一直不是很好
去年才算是比较会装
一当family尾巴都露出来了呵呵...
好好学习下
这个根本不是装不装人情世故的问题。美国人一家人也是算的门清儿的。好多小孩在你这个年纪，是自己打工付自己的花费的。爸妈和孩子一家出去吃饭，各付各的都是正常。
吃一堑，长一智。但是要学习的不是抱怨别人，要学会反省自己。
我看你前前后后都是埋怨人家世故，虚伪，这不是真的反省。
agree
我很仔细的爬完了猫的楼。不知道为什么看到的满眼都是jms还有阿姨婶婶们对猫同学的责备以及怪她把自己当小孩。
话说你们之中，多少人当过交换学生？特别是十五六岁的时候？住在陌生的环境里，也许总要被人欺负，也许总要忍气吞声？
这件事情也曾经发生在我身上。只不过不是电话费。而是别的版本。
但让我最反感的是，为什么有话不能当面说，非得一个传一个。这就素所谓的直接么？？？所以我也说，虚伪
我把自己当小孩，也把自己当大人。但我还是在两个世界迷失着的。
我自己身上的。我的朋友身上的。都是真实的不能再真实的故事。
我自己每每想起都会哭。想听什么类型的，说出来，我都能讲给大家听。。。
每一个交换学生背后都有着太多的辛酸和泪水，很多事情都是自己之前未曾想过的，在这个十几岁的年龄。
所以请各位功成名就的姐姐阿姨们不要这么说猫同学。
她的话里边有不对的地方。但这背后，我相信，是有故事的。
大家的一句话一个字都像一根根的刺。虽然很小，但扎进去很痛的。。。
不好意思恩
猫并没有推卸责任的意思
事情的确是发生了很多
这里不多说了...毕竟自己还没能好好的理清头绪
说到家务...不好意思会是会...但是以前国内的时候作业实在太多...每天一般能睡4,5小时大概...除了作业基本还是作业
嘛...
[最多周五晚上洗个碗什么的]
[而且那家的小孩不会主动做家务的说]
睡4、5个小时！岂不是比包身工还惨
我记得我小时候也是这样的（现在不是了啊），一点小事就觉得自己受了天大的委屈。主要是凡是都从自身考虑，多从别人那个角度想想就好了。比如说，你们家是host family，也不是很富裕，结果有个小孩在你们家打电话，打了60多块钱，blahblah
既然一个人出来读书，就要学着赶紧长大，不然日子过得没那么开心。
不过，大妈们说的道理，基本是对的，不是坑你的。
大妈我15，16岁的时候，还成天在操场上疯跑疯玩，的确没有这种提前步入社会的经验。
[此贴子已经被作者于2009-2-2 23:18:38编辑过]
哦，是说你自己啊，那我听错了。其实你一开始就对你的host family说，你就是一只猫，当猫来养你，就好了。我于猫的关系，从来都是奴隶和奴隶主的关系啊。。。。
ps：代沟真大……