最近，忽然发现自己被公司政治给烦的心情很不好。原来经济好的时候，大家都忙，没空斗，现在，稍微出点事，各个部门吵。。 说句时话吧： I am totally lost about my future. 干生物，弄了两个Master，现在这个不知是master (3M)，还是Ph。D。 再往下走，实在不想。读个别的专业，实在不想读书了。不工作，老公很辛苦，且不稳。
刚看到这个，正好对小蓝有用，不知道其他妈妈们需要不？ Your 15-month-old's behavior: More meltdowns New this month: More meltdowns First the bad news: Your toddler's temper is easily aroused. Now the good: His displays of anger or frustration are generally short-lived. Of course it may seem like your child picks the absolute worst times to throw fits — in the middle of the grocery store, at the airport in front of your mother-in-law — and it's up to you to experiment with ways to handle the flare-ups. One reason that children seem to fall apart in public is simply that they're overstimulated: Unfamiliar people, bright lights, and loud noises all at one time can be too much for your child to handle. When you're out and about trying to run errands, your toddler knows he doesn't have your full attention, which is what he wants more than anything else — and will do just about anything to get. What you can do You can often head off meltdowns during errands by staying emotionally connected to your child as best you can, despite all you have to do — which will make errands more fun for both of you. Making up a game like "I see corn flakes, I see ... you!" and then giving him a big nuzzle as you put the box in the shopping cart will head off his frantic feeling that you're putting your attention everywhere but on him. But tantrums are inevitable — every child has to blow off steam sometime. And children struggling through the peaks and valleys of physical and emotional development may need to blow it off every day.
You may have to try several tactics until you find a way of dealing with tantrums that works for you. Try picking up your child and holding him quietly until he settles down — don't yell at him or try to pin his arms down, which will only make him more frustrated. Pick him up and move him to a spot where he can safely have his fit on the ground or in the car, while you sit warmly by, reassuring him that you love him. If you're at home and it's too hard for you to stay and listen to him cry, simply leave the room.
If your toddler's fit attracts attention from other adults in the vicinity, you're likely to be embarrassed, but your child will pick up on that, too and he may increase the intensity of his tantrum. Your best bet in a public setting is to grit your teeth and smile while you take your child away from the scene. Other developments: Looking for limits, testing you One of your most important jobs as a parent is setting limits for your child. At times you may feel like a broken record, but the next time you see your toddler starting to do something you've asked him not to, watch the process. For instance, he'll start to climb onto the dishwasher, which you've asked him not to do several times, but will keep an eye on you the whole time. While you may think he's simply being defiant, he's actually testing you, and waiting for you to step in and say, "Stop, that's far enough."
Try to remember that many of your 15-month-old's seemingly defiant and destructive behaviors are related to his overall development. When he uses a crayon to scribble on the coffee table, he doesn't know that he's ruining a piece of furniture, he's just enjoying his budding fine-motor skills. And when he refuses to go to bed, he's simply aware that being with you is so exciting that he doesn't want to sleep in case he misses something. Establishing routines, like a bath and book before bed, and giving him ample opportunities to test out skills like "drawing," will help make this period less frustrating for you.
First the bad news: Your toddler's temper is easily aroused. Now the good: His displays of anger or frustration are generally short-lived. Of course it may seem like your child picks the absolute worst times to throw fits — in the middle of the grocery store, at the airport in front of your mother-in-law — and it's up to you to experiment with ways to handle the flare-ups. One reason that children seem to fall apart in public is simply that they're overstimulated: Unfamiliar people, bright lights, and loud noises all at one time can be too much for your child to handle. When you're out and about trying to run errands, your toddler knows he doesn't have your full attention, which is what he wants more than anything else — and will do just about anything to get. What you can do You can often head off meltdowns during errands by staying emotionally connected to your child as best you can, despite all you have to do — which will make errands more fun for both of you. Making up a game like "I see corn flakes, I see ... you!" and then giving him a big nuzzle as you put the box in the shopping cart will head off his frantic feeling that you're putting your attention everywhere but on him. But tantrums are inevitable — every child has to blow off steam sometime. And children struggling through the peaks and valleys of physical and emotional development may need to blow it off every day.
You may have to try several tactics until you find a way of dealing with tantrums that works for you. Try picking up your child and holding him quietly until he settles down — don't yell at him or try to pin his arms down, which will only make him more frustrated. Pick him up and move him to a spot where he can safely have his fit on the ground or in the car, while you sit warmly by, reassuring him that you love him. If you're at home and it's too hard for you to stay and listen to him cry, simply leave the room.
If your toddler's fit attracts attention from other adults in the vicinity, you're likely to be embarrassed, but your child will pick up on that, too and he may increase the intensity of his tantrum. Your best bet in a public setting is to grit your teeth and smile while you take your child away from the scene. Other developments: Looking for limits, testing you One of your most important jobs as a parent is setting limits for your child. At times you may feel like a broken record, but the next time you see your toddler starting to do something you've asked him not to, watch the process. For instance, he'll start to climb onto the dishwasher, which you've asked him not to do several times, but will keep an eye on you the whole time. While you may think he's simply being defiant, he's actually testing you, and waiting for you to step in and say, "Stop, that's far enough."
Try to remember that many of your 15-month-old's seemingly defiant and destructive behaviors are related to his overall development. When he uses a crayon to scribble on the coffee table, he doesn't know that he's ruining a piece of furniture, he's just enjoying his budding fine-motor skills. And when he refuses to go to bed, he's simply aware that being with you is so exciting that he doesn't want to sleep in case he misses something. Establishing routines, like a bath and book before bed, and giving him ample opportunities to test out skills like "drawing," will help make this period less frustrating for you.
First the bad news: Your toddler's temper is easily aroused. Now the good: His displays of anger or frustration are generally short-lived. Of course it may seem like your child picks the absolute worst times to throw fits — in the middle of the grocery store, at the airport in front of your mother-in-law — and it's up to you to experiment with ways to handle the flare-ups. One reason that children seem to fall apart in public is simply that they're overstimulated: Unfamiliar people, bright lights, and loud noises all at one time can be too much for your child to handle. When you're out and about trying to run errands, your toddler knows he doesn't have your full attention, which is what he wants more than anything else — and will do just about anything to get. What you can do You can often head off meltdowns during errands by staying emotionally connected to your child as best you can, despite all you have to do — which will make errands more fun for both of you. Making up a game like "I see corn flakes, I see ... you!" and then giving him a big nuzzle as you put the box in the shopping cart will head off his frantic feeling that you're putting your attention everywhere but on him. But tantrums are inevitable — every child has to blow off steam sometime. And children struggling through the peaks and valleys of physical and emotional development may need to blow it off every day.
You may have to try several tactics until you find a way of dealing with tantrums that works for you. Try picking up your child and holding him quietly until he settles down — don't yell at him or try to pin his arms down, which will only make him more frustrated. Pick him up and move him to a spot where he can safely have his fit on the ground or in the car, while you sit warmly by, reassuring him that you love him. If you're at home and it's too hard for you to stay and listen to him cry, simply leave the room.
If your toddler's fit attracts attention from other adults in the vicinity, you're likely to be embarrassed, but your child will pick up on that, too and he may increase the intensity of his tantrum. Your best bet in a public setting is to grit your teeth and smile while you take your child away from the scene. Other developments: Looking for limits, testing you One of your most important jobs as a parent is setting limits for your child. At times you may feel like a broken record, but the next time you see your toddler starting to do something you've asked him not to, watch the process. For instance, he'll start to climb onto the dishwasher, which you've asked him not to do several times, but will keep an eye on you the whole time. While you may think he's simply being defiant, he's actually testing you, and waiting for you to step in and say, "Stop, that's far enough."
Try to remember that many of your 15-month-old's seemingly defiant and destructive behaviors are related to his overall development. When he uses a crayon to scribble on the coffee table, he doesn't know that he's ruining a piece of furniture, he's just enjoying his budding fine-motor skills. And when he refuses to go to bed, he's simply aware that being with you is so exciting that he doesn't want to sleep in case he misses something. Establishing routines, like a bath and book before bed, and giving him ample opportunities to test out skills like "drawing," will help make this period less frustrating for you.
天哪，那是我的1001滴水了。。。献给了小当的妈妈哦。。。
等我去看当当时，当当要带妈妈亲我一下！！
嫩不怕他的口水就好。呵呵呵
又一个burberry“奶包”
尿包， 为啥说‘又‘？
今天休息
哪为什么现在才来？ 打PP...
我给熊熊搞了个blog, http://huaren.us/jennyanderic， 大家无聊可以去踩踩。
我外甥女婆婆就是爽快之人，我喜欢。。。
尿包， 为啥说‘又‘？
童童妈妈也是
哪为什么现在才来？ 打PP...
因为今天下午休息！
refinance真的好烦哦，那么多东西要！我们从来都不用提供这些东西的。早知道不做了。
因为今天下午休息！
refinance真的好烦哦，那么多东西要！我们从来都不用提供这些东西的。早知道不做了。
想想省下钱钱能给当当买白菜，你就忍忍吧
天哪，那是我的1001滴水了。。。献给了小当的妈妈哦。。。
等我去看当当时，当当要带妈妈亲我一下！！
1001滴水，
啥意思？
我给熊熊搞了个blog, http://huaren.us/jennyanderic， 大家无聊可以去踩踩。
加成ｆａｖｏｒｉｔｅ 了。
因为今天下午休息！
refinance真的好烦哦，那么多东西要！我们从来都不用提供这些东西的。早知道不做了。
我也在做，昨天才lock rate,昨晚就来appraisal了, 今早发给agent 一堆东西，累死我了
加成ｆａｖｏｒｉｔｅ 了。
我想要你得blog~
佳妈我也要看哈
http://cid-92824967ede91d11.spaces.live.com/
你们，你们！！！ 我都不好意思跟熊熊妈后面，说我们也有一个了，因为知道我们的太糟了．．．
我是中文打字太慢阿！！！所以干脆用英文。还有，我福建人，拼音不准，打字很吃力。
我歇了８－９年，没打过中文。以前打五笔。
[此贴子已经被作者于2009-2-24 17:30:09编辑过]
是他们先惹得我，我早把话放下了，人不犯我，我不犯人。我现在也很难hold住自己的脾气。唉....好好的，让他们给"逼良为娼"了。
不怕，我们支持你！！！
我给熊熊搞了个blog, http://huaren.us/jennyanderic， 大家无聊可以去踩踩。
去踩了，很不错啊，一定经常去
http://cid-92824967ede91d11.spaces.live.com/
你们，你们！！！ 我都不好意思跟熊熊妈后面，说我们也有一个了，因为知道我们的太糟了．．．
我是中文打字太慢阿！！！所以干脆用英文。还有，我福建人，拼音不准，打字很吃力。
我歇了８－９年，没打过中文。以前打五笔。
[此贴子已经被作者于2009-2-24 17:30:09编辑过]
佳妈不要谦虚嘛，用英文写，我想都没想过。。。
还有，我给你打的广告，广告费便宜点吧，就让佳佳亲亲阿姨（不敢让她亲星星了，怕小蓝吃醋）
1001滴水，
啥意思？
就是灌的第1001篇
哼。。。 有也不敢说！。。。 呵呵呵
你们精神出过轨吗？
哼。。。 有也不敢说！。。。 呵呵呵
你今天可真无聊啊！
你们精神出过轨吗？
哼。。。 有也不敢说！。。。 呵呵呵
结婚以来我还真没有这么出轨过，结婚前就多了去了。
关于那个为什么上班的答案看的我很郁闷啊，我目前一点上班的打算都没有，估计达达上了幼儿园我还要赖在家里，一来也没自信出去找工作，二来么我就喜欢家里蹲，过退休以后的生活。哎。
你的生活这么丰富，家里蹲也没什么不好的，上班也就是一种生活方式而已
你们精神出过轨吗？
哼。。。 有也不敢说！。。。 呵呵呵
有，而且告诉佳爸。
05年俺碰到个法国大帅哥，在开会时。
你的生活这么丰富，家里蹲也没什么不好的，上班也就是一种生活方式而已
我的生活哪里是丰富，是疲于奔命，准备养两孩子的我劝你们还是赶紧生，两孩子差得大，再重来一遍的感觉真不咋地。我现在就盼着达达进幼儿园，这样我就能有点我的“丰富生活”了。
有，而且告诉佳爸。
05年俺碰到个法国大帅哥，在开会时。
能告诉的还不算出轨吧？我觉得要到迷恋那个状态才能算出轨呢。嘿嘿
能告诉的还不算出轨吧？我觉得要到迷恋那个状态才能算出轨呢。嘿嘿
我把任何猗年都告诉他，这样我就不再想了
以下是引用jiessie在2009-2-24 11:34:00的发言：
俺心情不好，completely shut down了，给我几天时间啊，我会重出江湖的。
亲家咋了？等着你哈。
我还在喂奶呢。就是不多了。一边还有letdown,另一边几乎没了。
问大家下：
要催奶呢，还是让慢慢没掉？
太BSO了！我倒是觉得顺其自然吧，怎么催出奶来呢？喝汤就有？
你今天可真无聊啊！
其实我看画皮那天就在想这个问题啦。
活跃一下气氛吧。
看看学名模童童的小宝。。。
此主题相关图片如下img_2210.jpg：
够不够淑女啊？
此主题相关图片如下img_2252.jpg：
真想抱一下！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！ 太美，太可爱了！！！！！！！！！！！！
刚才还跟星星妈说我们落后分子这月没希望会走路了，现在看来还是有希望的！！！
刚才拉着她一只手，她居然会慢慢的走几步了！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！
太BSO了！我倒是觉得顺其自然吧，怎么催出奶来呢？喝汤就有？
fenogreek see tea, 我给国内朋友买，结果就冒了个念头，我也喝点？
还有，mother's milk tea. 还没买。想两个都买都给她寄去。
还有酒酿，我还有几个引子。
其实我看画皮那天就在想这个问题啦。
呵呵，你有没有过？
我还在喂奶呢。就是不多了。一边还有letdown,另一边几乎没了。
问大家下：
要催奶呢，还是让慢慢没掉？
妈呀，你太牛了！！！
其实，我已开始上班主要是为了心底的小野心，要证明自己一定的能力吧。后来，是觉得我呆在家里呆不住。没有耐心。。。
最近，忽然发现自己被公司政治给烦的心情很不好。原来经济好的时候，大家都忙，没空斗，现在，稍微出点事，各个部门吵。。
说句时话吧：
I am totally lost about my future. 干生物，弄了两个Master，现在这个不知是master (3M)，还是Ph。D。 再往下走，实在不想。读个别的专业，实在不想读书了。不工作，老公很辛苦，且不稳。
目前得过且过，咳，再说吧。
他们也未必合格。--- lg, 婆婆，公公。
哼，我做我该做的，谁敢说我，我就
支持！！！！
jms:
刚才还跟星星妈说我们落后分子这月没希望会走路了，现在看来还是有希望的！！！
刚才拉着她一只手，她居然会慢慢的走几步了！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！
那是，短短的几个小时写那么多。
不时地，每天写一点的
[此贴子已经被作者于2009-2-24 21:52:12编辑过]
你们精神出过轨吗？
哼。。。 有也不敢说！。。。 呵呵呵
你为什么 这么问？ 自己先说。。
呵呵，你有没有过？
现在没有！
jms:
刚才还跟星星妈说我们落后分子这月没希望会走路了，现在看来还是有希望的！！！
刚才拉着她一只手，她居然会慢慢的走几步了！！！！！！！！！！！！！！！
恭喜！恭喜！
关于那个为什么上班的答案看的我很郁闷啊，我目前一点上班的打算都没有，估计达达上了幼儿园我还要赖在家里，一来也没自信出去找工作，二来么我就喜欢家里蹲，过退休以后的生活。哎。
没有上班的打算，在家里呆着，只要开心，真的就很好。
我这个人，呆不住家里。。以前，一上班，就被充了电，可精神了。就是最近，忽然发现自己的一些专业准则，和以利益为中心的公司文化下的职业操守有所出入，所以很不爽。。
你为什么 这么问？ 自己先说。。
我开了水贴专门讨论呢，去看看就知道了。
不时地，每天写一点的
[此贴子已经被作者于2009-2-24 21:52:12编辑过]
我开了多久我还是知道地，所以觉得你真的很棒呢
你们精神出过轨吗？
哼。。。 有也不敢说！。。。 呵呵呵
我不敢说啊。。 特别有你这个育才之后，怕是敌人派过来的特务，打死我也不说！！
我不敢说啊。。 特别有你这个育才之后，怕是敌人派过来的特务，打死我也不说！！
俺就知道你有故事！呵呵呵
俺就知道你有故事！呵呵呵
不上你的当，坚决不说！
http://cid-92824967ede91d11.spaces.live.com/
你们，你们！！！ 我都不好意思跟熊熊妈后面，说我们也有一个了，因为知道我们的太糟了．．．
我是中文打字太慢阿！！！所以干脆用英文。还有，我福建人，拼音不准，打字很吃力。
我歇了８－９年，没打过中文。以前打五笔。
http://cacherie.spaces.live.com/
其实，我也写的，偶尔想起来的时候。
http://cacherie.spaces.live.com/
添到ｆａｖｏｒｉｔｅ去了！！！
我觉定往我们的不咯个加锁，等我觉得可以见人才打开 （不知何时），或者只丢脸在十月楼 （看看怎么做到），反正你们有的已经见到那所谓的英文了。
谁是猫猫？
其实，我也写的，偶尔想起来的时候。
http://cacherie.spaces.live.com/
兜妈，那浴袍太ｃｏｏｌ了！！！ 我们佳佳的浴巾小了，我在找一个，你这真好，哪买的？
其实，我也写的，偶尔想起来的时候。
http://cacherie.spaces.live.com/
我都是n年前搞的list了，等我看看哈。
你现在blog上只有network，好像只能加msn自己的blog链接。我是用的custom list。在customize--add modules--lists--custom list--add。然后编辑，把名字和网址输入进去。其实就是相当于加了一个模块。
我也觉得你应该上班。 你那么漂亮/利索（我觉得你做事一定是那种高效的人），整天呆在家里，给一两个人看，不是很浪费吗？
其实８个小时中的６个小时我都在灌水，
还有１个小时发呆
剩下的才干活
活跃一下气氛吧。
看看学名模童童的小宝。。。
此主题相关图片如下img_2210.jpg：
够不够淑女啊？
此主题相关图片如下img_2252.jpg：
超模气质
是他们先惹得我，我早把话放下了，人不犯我，我不犯人。我现在也很难hold住自己的脾气。唉....好好的，让他们给"逼良为娼"了。
你这个性格，我喜欢！
佳妈我也要看哈
我也要看
我给熊熊搞了个blog, http://huaren.us/jennyanderic， 大家无聊可以去踩踩。
收藏了，这就去看
因为今天下午休息！
refinance真的好烦哦，那么多东西要！我们从来都不用提供这些东西的。早知道不做了。
是很烦
我们的刚搞定
http://cid-92824967ede91d11.spaces.live.com/
你们，你们！！！ 我都不好意思跟熊熊妈后面，说我们也有一个了，因为知道我们的太糟了．．．
我是中文打字太慢阿！！！所以干脆用英文。还有，我福建人，拼音不准，打字很吃力。
我歇了８－９年，没打过中文。以前打五笔。
[此贴子已经被作者于2009-2-24 17:30:09编辑过]
读了两篇，觉得头很昏～～～～～
膜拜中
你们精神出过轨吗？
哼。。。 有也不敢说！。。。 呵呵呵
靠，我还真没有，偶尔搞个春梦了无痕吧，男猪脚还是他！
亏大发了！
关于那个为什么上班的答案看的我很郁闷啊，我目前一点上班的打算都没有，估计达达上了幼儿园我还要赖在家里，一来也没自信出去找工作，二来么我就喜欢家里蹲，过退休以后的生活。哎。
真让人羡慕
你以后就在家码码字，出出书，绝对销量好
其实，我也写的，偶尔想起来的时候。
http://cacherie.spaces.live.com/
兜兜的表情太可爱了， 浴袍哪里买的？
其实８个小时中的６个小时我都在灌水，
还有１个小时发呆
剩下的才干活
什么工作那么好啊，羡慕啊
现在没有！
这个周六咋样啊
能告诉的还不算出轨吧？我觉得要到迷恋那个状态才能算出轨呢。嘿嘿
嗯，同意
什么工作那么好啊，羡慕啊
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如果我想干活，一天２４小时都干也干不完，干脆悠着点算了，活要是都被我干了，其它人怎么办啊，哈哈
http://cid-92824967ede91d11.spaces.live.com/
你们，你们！！！ 我都不好意思跟熊熊妈后面，说我们也有一个了，因为知道我们的太糟了．．．
我是中文打字太慢阿！！！所以干脆用英文。还有，我福建人，拼音不准，打字很吃力。
我歇了８－９年，没打过中文。以前打五笔。
[此贴子已经被作者于2009-2-24 17:30:09编辑过]
我老公说我是中英都不好，所以就不搞什么博客来自取其辱了。
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如果我想干活，一天２４小时都干也干不完，干脆悠着点算了，活要是都被我干了，其它人怎么办啊，哈哈
哦，那保税可以问你了
哦，那保税可以问你了
公司税问我
个人税我每年冒充专家，其实一窍不通
公司税问我
个人税我每年冒充专家，其实一窍不通
只有个人的，每年的这时候最烦啦，要搞保税
Your 15-month-old's behavior: More meltdowns
New this month: More meltdowns
First the bad news: Your
toddler's temper is easily aroused. Now the good: His displays of anger
or frustration are generally short-lived. Of course it may seem like
your child picks the absolute worst times to throw fits — in the middle
of the grocery store, at the airport in front of your mother-in-law —
and it's up to you to experiment with ways to handle the flare-ups. One
reason that children seem to fall apart in public is simply that
they're overstimulated: Unfamiliar people, bright lights, and loud
noises all at one time can be too much for your child to handle. When
you're out and about trying to run errands, your toddler knows he
doesn't have your full attention, which is what he wants more than
anything else — and will do just about anything to get. What you can do You
can often head off meltdowns during errands by staying emotionally
connected to your child as best you can, despite all you have to do —
which will make errands more fun for both of you. Making up a game like
"I see corn flakes, I see ... you!" and then giving him a big nuzzle as
you put the box in the shopping cart will head off his frantic feeling
that you're putting your attention everywhere but on him. But tantrums
are inevitable — every child has to blow off steam sometime. And
children struggling through the peaks and valleys of physical and
emotional development may need to blow it off every day.
You may
have to try several tactics until you find a way of dealing with
tantrums that works for you. Try picking up your child and holding him
quietly until he settles down — don't yell at him or try to pin his
arms down, which will only make him more frustrated. Pick him up and
move him to a spot where he can safely have his fit on the ground or in
the car, while you sit warmly by, reassuring him that you love him. If
you're at home and it's too hard for you to stay and listen to him cry,
simply leave the room.
If your toddler's fit attracts attention
from other adults in the vicinity, you're likely to be embarrassed, but
your child will pick up on that, too and he may increase the intensity
of his tantrum. Your best bet in a public setting is to grit your teeth
and smile while you take your child away from the scene. Other developments: Looking for limits, testing you One
of your most important jobs as a parent is setting limits for your
child. At times you may feel like a broken record, but the next time
you see your toddler starting to do something you've asked him not to,
watch the process. For instance, he'll start to climb onto the
dishwasher, which you've asked him not to do several times, but will
keep an eye on you the whole time. While you may think he's simply
being defiant, he's actually testing you, and waiting for you to step
in and say, "Stop, that's far enough."
Try to remember that many
of your 15-month-old's seemingly defiant and destructive behaviors are
related to his overall development. When he uses a crayon to scribble
on the coffee table, he doesn't know that he's ruining a piece of
furniture, he's just enjoying his budding fine-motor skills. And when
he refuses to go to bed, he's simply aware that being with you is so
exciting that he doesn't want to sleep in case he misses something.
Establishing routines, like a bath and book before bed, and giving him
ample opportunities to test out skills like "drawing," will help make
this period less frustrating for you.
当妈在外面开贴了。
换了一家代理，买的东航的，大人795，小孩305。
刚看到这个，正好对小蓝有用，不知道其他妈妈们需要不？
Your 15-month-old's behavior: More meltdowns
New this month: More meltdowns
First the bad news: Your toddler's temper is easily aroused. Now the good: His displays of anger or frustration are generally short-lived. Of course it may seem like your child picks the absolute worst times to throw fits — in the middle of the grocery store, at the airport in front of your mother-in-law — and it's up to you to experiment with ways to handle the flare-ups. One reason that children seem to fall apart in public is simply that they're overstimulated: Unfamiliar people, bright lights, and loud noises all at one time can be too much for your child to handle. When you're out and about trying to run errands, your toddler knows he doesn't have your full attention, which is what he wants more than anything else — and will do just about anything to get.
What you can do
You can often head off meltdowns during errands by staying emotionally connected to your child as best you can, despite all you have to do — which will make errands more fun for both of you. Making up a game like "I see corn flakes, I see ... you!" and then giving him a big nuzzle as you put the box in the shopping cart will head off his frantic feeling that you're putting your attention everywhere but on him. But tantrums are inevitable — every child has to blow off steam sometime. And children struggling through the peaks and valleys of physical and emotional development may need to blow it off every day.
You may have to try several tactics until you find a way of dealing with tantrums that works for you. Try picking up your child and holding him quietly until he settles down — don't yell at him or try to pin his arms down, which will only make him more frustrated. Pick him up and move him to a spot where he can safely have his fit on the ground or in the car, while you sit warmly by, reassuring him that you love him. If you're at home and it's too hard for you to stay and listen to him cry, simply leave the room.
If your toddler's fit attracts attention from other adults in the vicinity, you're likely to be embarrassed, but your child will pick up on that, too and he may increase the intensity of his tantrum. Your best bet in a public setting is to grit your teeth and smile while you take your child away from the scene.
Other developments: Looking for limits, testing you One of your most important jobs as a parent is setting limits for your child. At times you may feel like a broken record, but the next time you see your toddler starting to do something you've asked him not to, watch the process. For instance, he'll start to climb onto the dishwasher, which you've asked him not to do several times, but will keep an eye on you the whole time. While you may think he's simply being defiant, he's actually testing you, and waiting for you to step in and say, "Stop, that's far enough."
Try to remember that many of your 15-month-old's seemingly defiant and destructive behaviors are related to his overall development. When he uses a crayon to scribble on the coffee table, he doesn't know that he's ruining a piece of furniture, he's just enjoying his budding fine-motor skills. And when he refuses to go to bed, he's simply aware that being with you is so exciting that he doesn't want to sleep in case he misses something. Establishing routines, like a bath and book before bed, and giving him ample opportunities to test out skills like "drawing," will help make this period less frustrating for you.
小妹也用得着！
只有个人的，每年的这时候最烦啦，要搞保税
用软件吧。
来报告一下，我的机票定了，3/9-4/29。因为LG决定不回，所以我和小妹回去呆1个半月。
换了一家代理，买的东航的，大人795，小孩305。
好幸福，又可以回去了！机票价钱真好。
鞋子已经在路上了，到了我告诉你。可惜又有一段时间看不到小妹了。
用软件吧。
一直都是的
好幸福，又可以回去了！机票价钱真好。
鞋子已经在路上了，到了我告诉你。可惜又有一段时间看不到小妹了。
什么鞋子？秀秀？
刚看到这个，正好对小蓝有用，不知道其他妈妈们需要不？
Your 15-month-old's behavior: More meltdowns
New this month: More meltdowns
First the bad news: Your toddler's temper is easily aroused. Now the good: His displays of anger or frustration are generally short-lived. Of course it may seem like your child picks the absolute worst times to throw fits — in the middle of the grocery store, at the airport in front of your mother-in-law — and it's up to you to experiment with ways to handle the flare-ups. One reason that children seem to fall apart in public is simply that they're overstimulated: Unfamiliar people, bright lights, and loud noises all at one time can be too much for your child to handle. When you're out and about trying to run errands, your toddler knows he doesn't have your full attention, which is what he wants more than anything else — and will do just about anything to get.
What you can do
You can often head off meltdowns during errands by staying emotionally connected to your child as best you can, despite all you have to do — which will make errands more fun for both of you. Making up a game like "I see corn flakes, I see ... you!" and then giving him a big nuzzle as you put the box in the shopping cart will head off his frantic feeling that you're putting your attention everywhere but on him. But tantrums are inevitable — every child has to blow off steam sometime. And children struggling through the peaks and valleys of physical and emotional development may need to blow it off every day.
You may have to try several tactics until you find a way of dealing with tantrums that works for you. Try picking up your child and holding him quietly until he settles down — don't yell at him or try to pin his arms down, which will only make him more frustrated. Pick him up and move him to a spot where he can safely have his fit on the ground or in the car, while you sit warmly by, reassuring him that you love him. If you're at home and it's too hard for you to stay and listen to him cry, simply leave the room.
If your toddler's fit attracts attention from other adults in the vicinity, you're likely to be embarrassed, but your child will pick up on that, too and he may increase the intensity of his tantrum. Your best bet in a public setting is to grit your teeth and smile while you take your child away from the scene.
Other developments: Looking for limits, testing you One of your most important jobs as a parent is setting limits for your child. At times you may feel like a broken record, but the next time you see your toddler starting to do something you've asked him not to, watch the process. For instance, he'll start to climb onto the dishwasher, which you've asked him not to do several times, but will keep an eye on you the whole time. While you may think he's simply being defiant, he's actually testing you, and waiting for you to step in and say, "Stop, that's far enough."
Try to remember that many of your 15-month-old's seemingly defiant and destructive behaviors are related to his overall development. When he uses a crayon to scribble on the coffee table, he doesn't know that he's ruining a piece of furniture, he's just enjoying his budding fine-motor skills. And when he refuses to go to bed, he's simply aware that being with you is so exciting that he doesn't want to sleep in case he misses something. Establishing routines, like a bath and book before bed, and giving him ample opportunities to test out skills like "drawing," will help make this period less frustrating for you.
谢谢小蓝妈的分享。
来报告一下，我的机票定了，3/9-4/29。因为LG决定不回，所以我和小妹回去呆1个半月。
换了一家代理，买的东航的，大人795，小孩305。
这么快？价格真不错。
用软件吧。
用软件也很麻烦。
不上你的当，坚决不说！
看来小宝妈有问题。
其实８个小时中的６个小时我都在灌水，
还有１个小时发呆
剩下的才干活
理想生活啊！！！
我开了水贴专门讨论呢，去看看就知道了。
看了你的水贴了，LG要是那样就太令人伤心了。
关于那个为什么上班的答案看的我很郁闷啊，我目前一点上班的打算都没有，估计达达上了幼儿园我还要赖在家里，一来也没自信出去找工作，二来么我就喜欢家里蹲，过退休以后的生活。哎。
感觉你在国内的生活超滋润，羡慕得紧啊！
我也在做，昨天才lock rate,昨晚就来appraisal了, 今早发给agent 一堆东西，累死我了
我们也想refinance，可惜房价掉得厉害，要做的话要补交好多钱。
今天休息
对了，当妈做什么工作啊？感觉也很轻松。
我们也想refinance，可惜房价掉得厉害，要做的话要补交好多钱。
找个中国人做估价师，他们都很灵活的。他都问我要贷多少钱，估多少够用，然后在他的能力范围内尽量帮忙。
来报告一下，我的机票定了，3/9-4/29。因为LG决定不回，所以我和小妹回去呆1个半月。
换了一家代理，买的东航的，大人795，小孩305。
大人的票真便宜，你一个人带小妹回去路上辛苦了。
找个中国人做估价师，他们都很灵活的。他都问我要贷多少钱，估多少够用，然后在他的能力范围内尽量帮忙。
这样子啊，可以试试。
什么鞋子？秀秀？
娃们的白菜鳄鱼鞋，其实加上运费和税也不是很白了，但我们这个地儿白菜难求啊
看来小宝妈有问题。
我们也想refinance，可惜房价掉得厉害，要做的话要补交好多钱。
最好房价再掉掉，我就买得起了
娃们的白菜鳄鱼鞋，其实加上运费和税也不是很白了，但我们这个地儿白菜难求啊
一样一样
我最近收山不买了，前几天收衣柜发现很多以前给星星买的还没洗过的，再不穿就要小了
以下是引用夕颜在2009-2-24 20:07:00的发言：
关于那个为什么上班的答案看的我很郁闷啊，我目前一点上班的打算都没有，估计达达上了幼儿园我还要赖在家里，一来也没自信出去找工作，二来么我就喜欢家里蹲，过退休以后的生活。哎。
娃们的白菜鳄鱼鞋，其实加上运费和税也不是很白了，但我们这个地儿白菜难求啊
两眼放光啊，赶紧秀秀!