以下是引用Dharma在2007-10-18 1:33:00的发言： 她的新鞋子． ooh and i also found a pair of the cambon ballerinas, even if they are not my first choice in beige/beige or brown/brown...they feel wider than the regular ballerinas but length is same: 有双很类似的，就是没有huge logo 阶级差别啊
以下是引用Dharma在2007-10-18 1:21:00的发言： 能干啊, 项链上的硬币是她自己焊上去的. so here is the modelling for Day 15. I woke up feeling like a gypsy so that explains the gold coin necklace (they are gold turkish coins i had welded to a 24k rosary bead necklace) and the suede pants!! I think she meant 'had them welded', I dont think she did it herself... wow, what does she do? or she has a rich husband. she got an expensive taste! envying...
以下是引用Steffe在2007-10-18 9:25:00的发言： I think she meant 'had them welded', I dont think she did it herself... wow, what does she do? or she has a rich husband. she got an expensive taste! envying... You are probably right. Just by taking the face value of her words, I thought she did herself a while ago.
以下是引用Dharma在2007-10-18 1:28:00的发言： 她新买的CHANEL BOOTIES, 前面买的那双太大退了. guess what just arrived today...the other pair of runway boots that i was gaga over. the tall ones went back b/c they were just uncomfortably loose and my SA couldn't locate a half size down.
the heels are pretty killer (shiny quilting in beige) and the CC is stamped on the buckle tab just like the tall pair:
My NM SA waitlisted me for those boots a few months ago as soon as we saw the runway list. The tall ones are already sold out so I realy want to make these work. Here are pix from all angles...do they look as big/loose as the other pair?? 再不厚道一下， 她这小细腿穿这靴子看起来实在不配， 怎么看怎么像日本宪兵穿的大皮靴。
以下是引用Dharma在2007-10-18 1:33:00的发言： 她的新鞋子． ooh and i also found a pair of the cambon ballerinas, even if they are not my first choice in beige/beige or brown/brown...they feel wider than the regular ballerinas but length is same: 这个鞋很漂亮.
这个JJ 在EBAY 上捡的DEAL, $125. speaking of gucci and going OT here, do you know what trolling on ebay at 2am will get ya? a pair of python slides for 75% off retail!! how did i survive before ebay and the internet??? i can't wait to wear these:
大家不要觉得买得起奢侈品的女人个个都是有个有钱的LG. 这个世界上有能力能干的女人多了. 他们WORK HARD TO GET WHAT THEY WANT, 这个JJ 就是其中之一个. 这让对她更为欣赏. 靠MARRY UP 得到的, 没什么了不起. 我个人更欣赏那些精神上经济上可以独立的女性. 这是她回答别人的问题. 可以看出来, 她在公司应该还是个头头呢. hi ladies! thank goodness it's friday! it's been a super crazy week at work. to answer some of your questions in no particular order.... my toes are always painted dark, dark red or wine color. for some reason that color goes well with my skintone and makes my shoes pop! i am in-house counsel for a software company so we are pretty casual at work. most of the time we look like a Banana Republic store (well the guys look like that) and i pretty much wear what I want as long as it's appropriate, and to me that means pants most of the time. Let's say I'd feel very uncomfortable wearing a short skirt or dress to lead a staff meeting of men. if i have a meeting or have to be at a client site then it is of course business attire, but even then it depends on the client's environment. the technology industry has redefined corporate dressing. those pearls i wore yesterday are the biggest ones i have. i believe the largest pearl on that strand measures around 23mm or so? it is not a perfect unblemished strand, but i sacrificed "clean" pearls for size & color & luster. a perfect strand of that size would cost more than an expensive car so that might just be a dream for me for now! [此贴子已经被作者于2007-10-19 13:33:19编辑过]
以下是引用Dharma在2007-10-19 13:28:00的发言： 大家不要觉得买得起奢侈品的女人个个都是有个有钱的LG. 这个世界上有能力能干的女人多了. 他们WORK HARD TO GET WHAT THEY WANT, 这个JJ 就是其中之一个. 这让对她更为欣赏. 靠MARRY UP 得到的, 没什么了不起. 我个人更欣赏那些精神上经济上可以独立的女性. 这是她回答别人的问题. 可以看出来, 她在公司应该还是个头头呢. hi ladies! thank goodness it's friday! it's been a super crazy week at work. to answer some of your questions in no particular order.... my toes are always painted dark, dark red or wine color. for some reason that color goes well with my skintone and makes my shoes pop! i am in-house counsel for a software company so we are pretty casual at work. most of the time we look like a Banana Republic store (well the guys look like that) and i pretty much wear what I want as long as it's appropriate, and to me that means pants most of the time. Let's say I'd feel very uncomfortable wearing a short skirt or dress to lead a staff meeting of men. if i have a meeting or have to be at a client site then it is of course business attire, but even then it depends on the client's environment. the technology industry has redefined corporate dressing. those pearls i wore yesterday are the biggest ones i have. i believe the largest pearl on that strand measures around 23mm or so? it is not a perfect unblemished strand, but i sacrificed "clean" pearls for size & color & luster. a perfect strand of that size would cost more than an expensive car so that might just be a dream for me for now! Totally agreed -- 大家不要觉得买得起奢侈品的女人个个都是有个有钱的LG!! In-house Counsel means she is a lawyer. She is just beautiful and elegant! 23mm pearl necklace, stunning, not a pocket change either. Mine is only 12mm
"I'd feel very uncomfortable wearing a short skirt or dress to lead a staff meeting of men." this sounds very convincing.... 至少可以从她的言语和穿着看出来她不是靠SHOW SKIN 来成功的...
以下是引用shaji在2007-10-19 13:52:00的发言： "I'd feel very uncomfortable wearing a short skirt or dress to lead a staff meeting of men." this sounds very convincing.... 至少可以从她的言语和穿着看出来她不是靠SHOW SKIN 来成功的... in general, women in corp. world can't succeed with that kind of tricks. She rocks.
ah, in-house. not surprising then. if she graduated from law school in her mid-20's, then her experience should enable her salary to fall into >300k. oh... why am i so gossip-y different career tracks result in different incomes--that is to be expected, right? the important thing is to be happy about our choices and be a beautiful woman, inside and out :)
以下是引用Dharma在2007-10-19 13:28:00的发言： 大家不要觉得买得起奢侈品的女人个个都是有个有钱的LG. 这个世界上有能力能干的女人多了. 他们WORK HARD TO GET WHAT THEY WANT, 这个JJ 就是其中之一个. 这让对她更为欣赏. 靠MARRY UP 得到的, 没什么了不起. 我个人更欣赏那些精神上经济上可以独立的女性. 呵呵。。。女人们work hard不只是为了买俩chanel,所有漂亮的衣裳都是女人的附属品，而非终极目标。 能够安心的花老公的钱，是一种幸福的骄傲，我觉得挺了不起的。独立并不不是说一定要自己赚钱花，很多在家忙碌的主妇，也是独立的，她们有能力去承担事业上的停顿或者其他为家庭牺牲事业的后果。
以下是引用美丽的野猪在2007-10-19 15:06:00的发言： 呵呵。。。女人们work hard不只是为了买俩chanel,所有漂亮的衣裳都是女人的附属品，而非终极目标。 能够安心的花老公的钱，是一种幸福的骄傲，我觉得挺了不起的。独立并不不是说一定要自己赚钱花，很多在家忙碌的主妇，也是独立的，她们有能力去承担事业上的停顿或者其他为家庭牺牲事业的后果。 it makes sense. Although the degree of sacrifice is to be seen in 20, 30, or 40 years. It's tough.
Dharma说的是"他们WORK HARD TO GET WHAT THEY WANT"。你想要的和她想要的东西可以不一样，只要是你觉得有价值的就可以了，又没说女人们work hard都只是为了买俩chanel呀。后面那句“靠MARRY UP 得到的, 没什么了不起. 我个人更欣赏那些精神上经济上可以独立的女性”直了些，打击面也大了点，俺保留意见。
以下是引用roseprimrose在2007-10-19 17:03:00的发言： Dharma说的是"他们WORK HARD TO GET WHAT THEY WANT"。你想要的和她想要的东西可以不一样，只要是你觉得有价值的就可以了，又没说女人们work hard都只是为了买俩chanel呀。后面那句“靠MARRY UP 得到的, 没什么了不起. 我个人更欣赏那些精神上经济上可以独立的女性”直了些，打击面也大了点，俺保留意见。 每个人都work hard to get what they want,包括那些要找有钱人嫁的。既然每个人要的东西都不一样，何必看谁不起呢。
以下是引用Caffeine在2007-10-19 15:50:00的发言： it makes sense. Although the degree of sacrifice is to be seen in 20, 30, or 40 years. It's tough. yeap..............
以下是引用Dharma在2007-10-19 17:06:00的发言： 说老实话, 我并不认可说夫妻之间, 把为家庭所作出的个人选择当作牺牲来看. 如果抱着英勇就义的心情来对待, 那宁可我不要你觉得你为我牺牲. 因为久而久之, 有这种心态在两个人中间, 夫妻关系会失衡. 最重要的是有选择的自由, 个人选择心甘情愿, 有人要放弃工作在家, 是TEAM 的分工不同, 都是为了MEXMIZE THE TEAM'S BENEFITS. 任何一人都不该TAKE THE OTHER'S WORK AS GRANTED. 我是这样看这个问题的. it's just a definition...I heard some husbands say that their wives sacrificed a lot. but what i mean is... for instance, a woman gave up work for kids for 10 yrs. but she wants to get pension after retirement. That means she needs to retire 10 yrs later in order to get the same benefits she would have (work after 60s it is). I think that 10 yr is indeed a lot. Some might argue that many who stay home don't need to work at all. But money comes and goes, nobody can guarantee anything.
以下是引用美丽的野猪在2007-10-19 17:10:00的发言： 每个人都work hard to get what they want,包括那些要找有钱人嫁的。既然每个人要的东西都不一样，何必看谁不起呢。 Dharma最后一句也许是她没表达清楚也许是她就是那么认为的。俺是针对前面的话哈，后面的俺说了：保留意见。
以下是引用Dharma在2007-10-19 17:22:00的发言： 还是个人选择的问题. 有些女人, 象我这样的, 就算有条件可以在家心安理得的生活, 我也不会. 经济上的独立对我这样的人非常重要, 代表的是自信和SENSE OF SECURITY. 换句话说, 我这样的人是天生劳碌命. Salute to you!! I have a job offer for months now. I shamelessly told LG I am not going to work for a while.
以下是引用美丽的野猪在2007-10-19 17:10:00的发言： 每个人都work hard to get what they want,包括那些要找有钱人嫁的。既然每个人要的东西都不一样，何必看谁不起呢。 对, 并不是每个人想MARRY UP 都能MARRY UP的. 而那些因为MARRY UP, 家里有那个闲钱, 顺带买了很多CHANEL的, 又有什么可令人看不起的呢?
以下是引用美丽的野猪在2007-10-19 15:06:00的发言： 呵呵。。。女人们work hard不只是为了买俩chanel,所有漂亮的衣裳都是女人的附属品，而非终极目标。 能够安心的花老公的钱，是一种幸福的骄傲，我觉得挺了不起的。独立并不不是说一定要自己赚钱花，很多在家忙碌的主妇，也是独立的，她们有能力去承担事业上的停顿或者其他为家庭牺牲事业的后果。 Thank you for saying so...I am a stay home mommy. Even I lost my income but I am happy to be able to spend my time with my beautiful baby.
以下是引用dido在2007-10-19 17:26:00的发言： 个人觉得，当家庭主妇比工作更辛苦，当然，那些什么都不用做的HOUSEWIFE不算那。 Yes. it is true. not an easy thing to be a good housewife! tons of work...unless you dont mind living in a messy enviornment.
a woman can have both a great career and a successful/rich husband... they don't contradict each other.
but if you can ONLY choose one, (in terms of sacrifice ), I'd choose the latter...
look at Jessica Seinfeld, she used to be a PR executive, and now (after marrying Jerry Seinfel) she is engaged in kids charity and her book is a best-seller...
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她的新鞋子． ooh and i also found a pair of the cambon ballerinas, even if they are not my first choice in beige/beige or brown/brown...they feel wider than the regular ballerinas but length is same:
有双很类似的，就是没有huge logo
能干啊, 项链上的硬币是她自己焊上去的. so here is the modelling for Day 15. I woke up feeling like a gypsy so that explains the gold coin necklace (they are gold turkish coins i had welded to a 24k rosary bead necklace) and the suede pants!!
I think she meant 'had them welded', I dont think she did it herself... wow, what does she do? or she has a rich husband. she got an expensive taste! envying...
可惜了，不知道要什么时候呢
I think she meant 'had them welded', I dont think she did it herself... wow, what does she do? or she has a rich husband. she got an expensive taste! envying... You are probably right. Just by taking the face value of her words, I thought she did herself a while ago.
Day 16 真人. 这身太惊艳了!!!!!! Ｉ ＬＯＶＥ ＩＴ！！！！！
人和人的审美观点真差太远了， 这身儿勉强能看， 哪里提得上惊艳二字。
她新买的CHANEL BOOTIES, 前面买的那双太大退了. guess what just arrived today...the other pair of runway boots that i was gaga over. the tall ones went back b/c they were just uncomfortably loose and my SA couldn't locate a half size down.
the heels are pretty killer (shiny quilting in beige) and the CC is stamped on the buckle tab just like the tall pair:
My NM SA waitlisted me for those boots a few months ago as soon as we saw the runway list. The tall ones are already sold out so I realy want to make these work. Here are pix from all angles...do they look as big/loose as the other pair??
再不厚道一下， 她这小细腿穿这靴子看起来实在不配， 怎么看怎么像日本宪兵穿的大皮靴。
有没有跟偶一样觉得楼上的衣服有一种血肉横飞的感觉的？
她的新鞋子． ooh and i also found a pair of the cambon ballerinas, even if they are not my first choice in beige/beige or brown/brown...they feel wider than the regular ballerinas but length is same:
这个鞋很漂亮.
貌似太瘦了吧
经济实力好啊
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大家不要觉得买得起奢侈品的女人个个都是有个有钱的LG. 这个世界上有能力能干的女人多了. 他们WORK HARD TO GET WHAT THEY WANT, 这个JJ 就是其中之一个. 这让对她更为欣赏. 靠MARRY UP 得到的, 没什么了不起. 我个人更欣赏那些精神上经济上可以独立的女性. 这是她回答别人的问题. 可以看出来, 她在公司应该还是个头头呢. hi ladies! thank goodness it's friday! it's been a super crazy week at work. to answer some of your questions in no particular order.... my toes are always painted dark, dark red or wine color. for some reason that color goes well with my skintone and makes my shoes pop! i am in-house counsel for a software company so we are pretty casual at work. most of the time we look like a Banana Republic store (well the guys look like that) and i pretty much wear what I want as long as it's appropriate, and to me that means pants most of the time. Let's say I'd feel very uncomfortable wearing a short skirt or dress to lead a staff meeting of men. if i have a meeting or have to be at a client site then it is of course business attire, but even then it depends on the client's environment. the technology industry has redefined corporate dressing. those pearls i wore yesterday are the biggest ones i have. i believe the largest pearl on that strand measures around 23mm or so? it is not a perfect unblemished strand, but i sacrificed "clean" pearls for size & color & luster. a perfect strand of that size would cost more than an expensive car so that might just be a dream for me for now!
Totally agreed -- 大家不要觉得买得起奢侈品的女人个个都是有个有钱的LG!!
In-house Counsel means she is a lawyer. She is just beautiful and elegant!
23mm pearl necklace, stunning, not a pocket change either. Mine is only 12mm
"I'd feel very uncomfortable wearing a short skirt or dress to lead a staff meeting of men." this sounds very convincing.... 至少可以从她的言语和穿着看出来她不是靠SHOW SKIN 来成功的... in general, women in corp. world can't succeed with that kind of tricks. She rocks.
人和人的审美观点真差太远了， 这身儿勉强能看， 哪里提得上惊艳二字。 这张我也不喜欢。可能样子摆得也怪一点。 有的衣服秀的时侯一定要把脸带上，各人气质不同，有的时侯摆在那里不好，配上人就好了。
大家不要觉得买得起奢侈品的女人个个都是有个有钱的LG. 这个世界上有能力能干的女人多了. 他们WORK HARD TO GET WHAT THEY WANT, 这个JJ 就是其中之一个. 这让对她更为欣赏. 靠MARRY UP 得到的, 没什么了不起. 我个人更欣赏那些精神上经济上可以独立的女性. 呵呵。。。女人们work hard不只是为了买俩chanel,所有漂亮的衣裳都是女人的附属品，而非终极目标。
呵呵。。。女人们work hard不只是为了买俩chanel,所有漂亮的衣裳都是女人的附属品，而非终极目标。
呵呵。。。女人们work hard不只是为了买俩chanel,所有漂亮的衣裳都是女人的附属品，而非终极目标。
呵呵。。。女人们work hard不只是为了买俩chanel,所有漂亮的衣裳都是女人的附属品，而非终极目标。
同意
呵呵。。。女人们work hard不只是为了买俩chanel,所有漂亮的衣裳都是女人的附属品，而非终极目标。
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呵呵。。。女人们work hard不只是为了买俩chanel,所有漂亮的衣裳都是女人的附属品，而非终极目标。
呵呵。。。女人们work hard不只是为了买俩chanel,所有漂亮的衣裳都是女人的附属品，而非终极目标。
呵呵。。。女人们work hard不只是为了买俩chanel,所有漂亮的衣裳都是女人的附属品，而非终极目标。
呵呵。。。女人们work hard不只是为了买俩chanel,所有漂亮的衣裳都是女人的附属品，而非终极目标。
MM 把我的意思理解错了吧. 家庭主妇在我看来也是一种职业, 是个人的选择, 我并没有瞧不起的意思. 我只是针对一些人(有男有女) 看到现象就匆忙下结论有感而发的. 应该有不少MM 看到一个象这位JJ的女人这么有米, 第一个反应是她一定是嫁了个有钱的主. 但是实际上很多女人还是靠自己努力得到她们想要的. 作为女人, 第一个想法是只有男人才来带来女人想要的东西, 在我看来, 岂不是主观上把女人放在一个从属的地位妄自菲薄吗? 我可能有点女权主义吧. 想要的东西在不同人也不同. 我没有专指CHANEL. 总之, 靠自己实现自己的物欲也好, 梦想也好, 是绝对值得骄傲和欣赏的事情.
我没看见这里有谁猜测这位mm嫁给了有钱人...或者我错过了吧，我看见你的大字儿就留意了一下，呵呵。
Dharma说的是"他们WORK HARD TO GET WHAT THEY WANT"。你想要的和她想要的东西可以不一样，只要是你觉得有价值的就可以了，又没说女人们work hard都只是为了买俩chanel呀。后面那句“靠MARRY UP 得到的, 没什么了不起. 我个人更欣赏那些精神上经济上可以独立的女性”直了些，打击面也大了点，俺保留意见。 每个人都work hard to get what they want,包括那些要找有钱人嫁的。既然每个人要的东西都不一样，何必看谁不起呢。
it makes sense. Although the degree of sacrifice is to be seen in 20, 30, or 40 years. It's tough. yeap..............
说老实话, 我并不认可说夫妻之间, 把为家庭所作出的个人选择当作牺牲来看. 如果抱着英勇就义的心情来对待, 那宁可我不要你觉得你为我牺牲. 因为久而久之, 有这种心态在两个人中间, 夫妻关系会失衡. 最重要的是有选择的自由, 个人选择心甘情愿, 有人要放弃工作在家, 是TEAM 的分工不同, 都是为了MEXMIZE THE TEAM'S BENEFITS. 任何一人都不该TAKE THE OTHER'S WORK AS GRANTED. 我是这样看这个问题的. 所以，有能力选择还有承担选择后果的人才是独立的人。现在的社会，男人都可以在不去出工作靠老婆养，在家里作家事，女人做个主妇，花老公的钱买俩包又算啥。。。 女强人和家庭主妇都只是不同的角色，没有谁比较值得敬佩的。 这个op笑容很温柔，虽然事业上独当一面，面相仍然是温柔淡然的，而不是强势狰狞的，字里行间，她对自己的名牌和事业都很淡然，更没有showoff的意思，我觉得挺顺眼的。
说老实话, 我并不认可说夫妻之间, 把为家庭所作出的个人选择当作牺牲来看. 如果抱着英勇就义的心情来对待, 那宁可我不要你觉得你为我牺牲. 因为久而久之, 有这种心态在两个人中间, 夫妻关系会失衡. . 这句话说的不错。
说老实话, 我并不认可说夫妻之间, 把为家庭所作出的个人选择当作牺牲来看. 如果抱着英勇就义的心情来对待, 那宁可我不要你觉得你为我牺牲. 因为久而久之, 有这种心态在两个人中间, 夫妻关系会失衡. 最重要的是有选择的自由, 个人选择心甘情愿, 有人要放弃工作在家, 是TEAM 的分工不同, 都是为了MEXMIZE THE TEAM'S BENEFITS. 任何一人都不该TAKE THE OTHER'S WORK AS GRANTED. 我是这样看这个问题的. it's just a definition...I heard some husbands say that their wives sacrificed a lot. but what i mean is... for instance, a woman gave up work for kids for 10 yrs. but she wants to get pension after retirement. That means she needs to retire 10 yrs later in order to get the same benefits she would have (work after 60s it is). I think that 10 yr is indeed a lot. Some might argue that many who stay home don't need to work at all. But money comes and goes, nobody can guarantee anything.
我没看见这里有谁猜测这位mm嫁给了有钱人...或者我错过了吧，我看见你的大字儿就留意了一下，呵呵。 haha...I think that it was in the previous post.
每个人都work hard to get what they want,包括那些要找有钱人嫁的。既然每个人要的东西都不一样，何必看谁不起呢。 Dharma最后一句也许是她没表达清楚也许是她就是那么认为的。俺是针对前面的话哈，后面的俺说了：保留意见。
不过说到看不起，想做到心态平和地既不会看不起别人也不会看不起自己不容易。人活着都有个比较也都爱比较。很多时候“看不起”的产生是源于对自身状况的评估，自身评估良好就容易看不起别人，自身评估不好就容易看不起自己。
还是个人选择的问题. 有些女人, 象我这样的, 就算有条件可以在家心安理得的生活, 我也不会. 经济上的独立对我这样的人非常重要, 代表的是自信和SENSE OF SECURITY. 换句话说, 我这样的人是天生劳碌命.
还是个人选择的问题. 有些女人, 象我这样的, 就算有条件可以在家心安理得的生活, 我也不会. 经济上的独立对我这样的人非常重要, 代表的是自信和SENSE OF SECURITY. 换句话说, 我这样的人是天生劳碌命.
每个人都work hard to get what they want,包括那些要找有钱人嫁的。既然每个人要的东西都不一样，何必看谁不起呢。 对, 并不是每个人想MARRY UP 都能MARRY UP的. 而那些因为MARRY UP, 家里有那个闲钱, 顺带买了很多CHANEL的, 又有什么可令人看不起的呢?
呵呵。。。女人们work hard不只是为了买俩chanel,所有漂亮的衣裳都是女人的附属品，而非终极目标。
个人觉得，当家庭主妇比工作更辛苦，当然，那些什么都不用做的HOUSEWIFE不算那。 Yes. it is true. not an easy thing to be a good housewife! tons of work...unless you dont mind living in a messy enviornment.
but if you can ONLY choose one, (in terms of sacrifice ), I'd choose the latter...
look at Jessica Seinfeld, she used to be a PR executive, and now (after marrying Jerry Seinfel) she is engaged in kids charity and her book is a best-seller...
没错，既然是个人选择问题，大家只能互相尊重了。 有些人不需要经济上的独立来保持自己的自信和安全感，她们的老公也很宠爱，所以确实有些人天生的富贵命。 其实我真正佩服的是，有些女人结婚后不工作了，家带了几年孩子，然后等孩子上学了，可以出去重新工作，重新当女强人。这样的人就是有能力承担自己的选择。 想得一样. 看得清自己在不同时期的PRIORITY, 有足够的自信重新BUILD UP.
MM 把我的意思理解错了吧. 家庭主妇在我看来也是一种职业, 是个人的选择, 我并没有瞧不起的意思. 我只是针对一些人(有男有女) 看到现象就匆忙下结论有感而发的. 应该有不少MM 看到一个象这位JJ的女人这么有米, 第一个反应是她一定是嫁了个有钱的主. 但是实际上很多女人还是靠自己努力得到她们想要的. 作为女人, 第一个想法是只有男人才来带来女人想要的东西, 在我看来, 岂不是主观上把女人放在一个从属的地位妄自菲薄吗? 我可能有点女权主义吧. 想要的东西在不同人也不同. 我没有专指CHANEL. 总之, 靠自己实现自己的物欲也好, 梦想也好, 是绝对值得骄傲和欣赏的事情.
或许我的想法有些不能被认同。但是我觉得任何东西都是交换，用精力和时间去交换事业上面的成功，和用好好经营的爱情去交换一个好老公，到底哪个就比哪个高级一些呢？我觉得也说不准。再说了，有钱的男人又不是没有脑子，如果你一个女生能marry up一个成功的男人，她肯定也有出色的方面。譬如说她可爱，单纯，善良种种，这些可能都无法反映成事业上面的成功，但是这也是成功的一种。 纯属个人想法。看看就好。
或许我的想法有些不能被认同。但是我觉得任何东西都是交换，用精力和时间去交换事业上面的成功，和用好好经营的爱情去交换一个好老公，到底哪个就比哪个高级一些呢？我觉得也说不准。再说了，有钱的男人又不是没有脑子，如果你一个女生能marry up一个成功的男人，她肯定也有出色的方面。譬如说她可爱，单纯，善良种种，这些可能都无法反映成事业上面的成功，但是这也是成功的一种。 纯属个人想法。看看就好。 哎，工作的人，也是要经营感情的啊！家庭和工作，本来就不是对立的。能有两个，何乐而不为呢？