美国还是最好的,但生活环境体感变差加速

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楼主 (北美华人网)
估计尤其是东西两岸人口密度大的地方 人们的耐心和友好度速减
丁香紫罗兰
美国人很有礼貌
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COHomeSearch
我昨天出门散步看到路边两个建筑工人灰头土脸坐在油漆桶上吃午饭 就是罐头 然后地上放着处方药的橘色瓶子。心头一阵酸。 当然 我这种资本主义农奴也好不到哪去 灵魂层面也差不多就是处方药就着罐头吃混日子
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nbshr
丁香紫罗兰 发表于 2025-08-16 10:55
美国人很有礼貌

这种礼貌是一层纸,就像夫妻俩早上还吻别去上班,晚上回来离婚书就摆在桌子上了
现在你只是看到纸面上,时间久了你就了解美国文化和社会了
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丁香紫罗兰
这种礼貌是一层纸,就像夫妻俩早上还吻别去上班,晚上回来离婚书就摆在桌子上了
现在你只是看到纸面上,时间久了你就了解美国文化和社会了
nbshr 发表于 2025-08-16 11:12

是指公共场合人与人之间的礼貌, 本来就是一层纸的事, 陌生人之间不指望推心置腹。
夫妻的例子不恰当,那是一家人相处。
我在美国读书工作生活很多年了。

笨笨熊
大城市的礼貌和友善就像大城市的闹中取静一样,好的是真好。
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littlecat08
非常同意,现在是有质的改变。
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nbshr
丁香紫罗兰 发表于 2025-08-16 11:19
是指公共场合人与人之间的礼貌, 本来就是一层纸的事, 陌生人之间不指望推心置腹。
夫妻的例子不恰当,那是一家人相处。
我在美国读书工作生活很多年了。


那正说明你的生活和社会接触都是外皮表面
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sandyud
丁香紫罗兰 发表于 2025-08-16 11:19
是指公共场合人与人之间的礼貌, 本来就是一层纸的事, 陌生人之间不指望推心置腹。
夫妻的例子不恰当,那是一家人相处。
我在美国读书工作生活很多年了。


我觉得礼貌还是有的,但感觉陌生人之间那种善意在减少。
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TiantiandeID
美国人对陌生人的礼貌,在全世界也是名列前茅
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nbshr 发表于 2025-08-16 11:46
那正说明你的生活和社会接触都是外皮表面

陌生人之间礼貌不好吗?非要满是戾气? 那原始社会最好了,最真实,连衣服都不用穿
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nazaban
nbshr 发表于 2025-08-16 10:53
估计尤其是东西两岸人口密度大的地方 人们的耐心和友好度速减

治安下降更快
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Ranking countries by how nice they are to strangers is tricky since it’s based on subjective experiences, but surveys like those from InterNations, US News, and Remitly give us a solid starting point. These rankings often focus on expat and tourist experiences, measuring things like local hospitality, ease of settling in, and general warmth toward foreigners. Here’s a synthesized ranking based on the most consistent data from 2024-2025 sources, prioritizing countries that repeatedly show up as welcoming to strangers: Portugal - Frequently tops lists for its warm, talkative locals who make visitors feel at home, whether in cities like Lisbon or rural Algarve. Expats report high satisfaction with the ease of settling in and local friendliness. Mexico - Known for vibrant, family-oriented culture, Mexicans are often described as generous and quick to help strangers, with 89% of expats in 2024 feeling welcomed. Costa Rica - The “pura vida” philosophy shines through, with locals embracing strangers with warmth and a laid-back attitude. It ranks high for hospitality and ease of making friends. Canada - Famous for politeness, Canadians are noted for small acts of kindness like holding doors and helping without being asked. It’s consistently in the top tier for friendliness. Ireland - Locals are chatty and quick to engage strangers in pubs or on the street, with a culture that values humor and warmth. New Zealand - Kiwis are approachable, with the Maori concept of manaakitanga (hospitality) fostering a welcoming vibe for tourists and expats alike. Thailand - The “Land of Smiles” lives up to its name, with locals showing grace and curiosity toward visitors, especially in rural areas. Australia - Known for treating strangers like old friends, Aussies are informal and cheerful, making visitors feel at ease. Philippines - Scores high for friendliness toward expats, with 86% of survey respondents noting locals’ warmth and 72% finding it easy to make connections. South Africa - Despite safety concerns in some areas, locals are described as sociable, humorous, and polite to strangers, scoring 34.63/40 in agreeableness in one study.
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xiaoqiu123
我反而觉得现在是最好的时代。 刚到美国的时候, 大部分白人, 亚裔经常会被当透明, 虽然人家也没什么不礼貌的地方。 现在特别是东西海岸, 有种天下大同的感觉
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COHomeSearch 发表于 2025-08-16 10:58
我昨天出门散步看到路边两个建筑工人灰头土脸坐在油漆桶上吃午饭 就是罐头 然后地上放着处方药的橘色瓶子。心头一阵酸。 当然 我这种资本主义农奴也好不到哪去 灵魂层面也差不多就是处方药就着罐头吃混日子

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sandyud 发表于 2025-08-16 11:53
我觉得礼貌还是有的,但感觉陌生人之间那种善意在减少。

同感
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<South Africa - Despite safety concerns in some areas, locals are described as sociable, humorous, and polite to strangers, scoring 34.63/40 in agreeableness in one study.>
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wonaiwangerxiao
所以大家才热烈地讨论国内哪个城市最宜居啊
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sandyud 发表于 2025-08-16 11:53
我觉得礼貌还是有的,但感觉陌生人之间那种善意在减少。

疫情之后确实是这样。疫情之前散步碰上基本90%以上都要微笑或者说个hi啥的现在一半一半甚至不到一半会对下眼神微笑致意其它那一半就像没看到你一样。
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nbshr 发表于 2025-08-16 11:12
这种礼貌是一层纸,就像夫妻俩早上还吻别去上班,晚上回来离婚书就摆在桌子上了
现在你只是看到纸面上,时间久了你就了解美国文化和社会了

礼貌说的是对外。国内夫妻在外秀恩爱,过几天就离婚的也多的是。
美国的文化是边界感。社恐人士觉得很好。美国现在的问题是,不安全。