如果楼主遇到的是海王玩家， 恭喜楼主，至少没有生命危险。 贴上旧闻一则， 关系比较乱啊， 大意是某女和她的未婚夫被该女的前男友杀了， 前男友杀人后自杀， 报案的是该女前夫….. Man who killed Westlake couple in double murder-suicide was woman’s ex-boyfriend, police say Updated: Nov. 03, 2021, 5:02 p.m.|Published: Nov. 03, 2021, 4:09 p.m. Authorities said a 45-year-old man who killed a woman and her fiancé in Westlake is the woman's ex-boyfriend. By Adam Ferrise, cleveland.com WESTLAKE, Ohio — The man who killed a Westlake woman and her fiancée on Monday was the woman’s ex-boyfriend, police said. Investigators believe Brent Shira, 45, of Jefferson killed his ex-girlfriend, Yi Chai, and her fiancé, Nathan Demetra, before Shira took his own life, Westlake police Capt. Gerald Vogel said. Police are investigating the connection between Shira and Chai’s history as a possible motive for the shooting, Vogel said. Police officials previously only said that all three knew each other. Chai, 35, and Shira had been broken up for several years, Vogel said. Chai and Demetra, 31, were recently engaged, Vogel said. Shira had no known criminal history. Investigators are combing through cellphone and other digital records seized from Shira’s home in Jefferson, Vogel said. Officers discovered Shira had recently made funeral plans when they searched his home late Monday, Vogel said. Authorities found all three dead inside Chai’s home on Willow Run near Cinnamon Way. Chai’s employer, the Federal Reserve Bank of Cleveland, called her ex-husband because she didn’t show up to work, according to 911 calls and police dispatch reports. The ex-husband went to the home about 11 a.m. Monday, found Demetra’s body on the kitchen floor and called 911. Police searched the home and found Chai dead in an upstairs bedroom. Shira was found dead in the basement. Demetra was shot in the head and left hand, and Chai was shot in the head and upper right arm, according to the Cuyahoga County Medical Examine. Their deaths were ruled homicides. Shira was shot in the head, and his death was officially ruled a suicide, according to the medical examiner. There were no signs of forced entry into the home, police said.
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Man who killed Westlake couple in double murder-suicide was woman’s ex-boyfriend, police say Updated: Nov. 03, 2021, 5:02 p.m.|Published: Nov. 03, 2021, 4:09 p.m.
By Adam Ferrise, cleveland.com
WESTLAKE, Ohio — The man who killed a Westlake woman and her fiancée on Monday was the woman’s ex-boyfriend, police said. Investigators believe Brent Shira, 45, of Jefferson killed his ex-girlfriend, Yi Chai, and her fiancé, Nathan Demetra, before Shira took his own life, Westlake police Capt. Gerald Vogel said.
Police are investigating the connection between Shira and Chai’s history as a possible motive for the shooting, Vogel said. Police officials previously only said that all three knew each other.
Chai, 35, and Shira had been broken up for several years, Vogel said. Chai and Demetra, 31, were recently engaged, Vogel said. Shira had no known criminal history. Investigators are combing through cellphone and other digital records seized from Shira’s home in Jefferson, Vogel said. Officers discovered Shira had recently made funeral plans when they searched his home late Monday, Vogel said. Authorities found all three dead inside Chai’s home on Willow Run near Cinnamon Way. Chai’s employer, the Federal Reserve Bank of Cleveland, called her ex-husband because she didn’t show up to work, according to 911 calls and police dispatch reports. The ex-husband went to the home about 11 a.m. Monday, found Demetra’s body on the kitchen floor and called 911. Police searched the home and found Chai dead in an upstairs bedroom. Shira was found dead in the basement. Demetra was shot in the head and left hand, and Chai was shot in the head and upper right arm, according to the Cuyahoga County Medical Examine. Their deaths were ruled homicides. Shira was shot in the head, and his death was officially ruled a suicide, according to the medical examiner. There were no signs of forced entry into the home, police said.
我担心那个对你最好的情人永远保持情人，不愿意结婚。
🛋️ 沙发板凳
有家可以回，出门可以浪
简直完美人生
但是如何让人爱你愿意为你付出一切是个千古难题，我觉得网友没办法帮你。
我自己经历过的有用的办法是找到一个 对珍惜你付出的人进行大量付出和投资 那么他也会回报。但是你和你老公感觉已经错过这个机会了。情人当然也不可能了。所以其实你找到爱的可能性不高啊。
他也有过，离婚不是我想讨论的，我的问题是不知道自己到底想要什么。。。。
如果婚姻不幸，或者说当下迷茫期暂时出轨，说实话我可以理解人性和感情在不同阶段不同需求不同状态下的复杂性，人生难能无瑕疵。 但你的case是同时拥有3个情人，还自觉痛苦，我觉得你是整个对人生很迷茫吧，通过情人来找存在感。 整体上你通过情人满足性和情感需求，通过老公满足养娃和经济上的互助需求，其实也挺好的，如果这ABCDEF几方不会穿帮或者也不在乎其他，但偏偏你作为始作俑者觉得矛盾和痛苦了。 中文博大精深，一个字就能概括：作。
心定不定，静不静有什么所谓，要求有点多吧？ 你这混乱的关系，咱小老百姓没经验，不懂。
9年级了
哈哈哈哈
前两天看一个视频说，人的男女关系断了的要及时做清理，否则都缠在身上很多，人会运气不好。而且一段关系断了，不要马上开启另一段，给自己一点时间。不了解你的具体情况，但是虽然因为无性婚姻，你在外面有情人可以理解，但是太多了不好。
我也有刷到这样子的视频，感觉太影响自己磁场了，我感觉自己心里真的有病……现在4年的那位对我很好，情绪和物质都很满足的男人
尤其是国内的情人一年还能见面1，2次！ 显然有钱又有闲啊 以后离婚退休回国还有人接收……
这样啊，那你具体说一说怎么痛苦了，心理描写细腻一点 各种修辞手法，举例，排比，拟人，对比。。。。。。。能用的都用上 开篇我是一点都看不出来你有什么痛苦
为啥？就因为情人很多？
会患得患失，比如昨天结束的这个，删除拉黑后，心里很难受，我开始复盘到底为什么难受，是喜欢他还是在乎他，分析下都不是，但就是很难受！
恶心部分男女，只分人
哈哈哈 大姐你太有才了 我见过欲扬先抑的，但没见过你这么猛的
说回正题，你老公要是知道你这样玩，还能跟你过下去吗？你孩子要是知道你这样玩，还能正视你吗？ 结了婚就有点道德底线，守不住就赶紧离，又装又立真恶心
那要看是坐的商务舱还是经济舱
无法理解，能不能解释一下为什么飘，和痛苦
lz的写作水平不行，写了半天，无法共情这么性福的痛苦 😄😄
因为无法从自身获取能量，只能从不同的人索取不同的能量
楼主这是典型的向外求但是又得不到…
还是红姐和那些男的更恶心
人的磁场会互相影响，尤其是有过男女关系的，多了就紊乱了
我好像理解你说的是什么，其实不光NPD是这样，很多精神有问题的都是
所以lz确实精神出了问题，躁郁症 狂躁过后是抑郁，反复，所以痛苦 从lz的文字可以看出来，有些问题，描述不清楚自己的痛苦 lz需要看看心理医生，或者自己静静的想一想自己的人生
以己之力，同时和 四个男的，
然后时候 还自己装作有 愧疚感，
你不需要心理医生，你就是天生 基本道德底线 底 而已，
无所谓，这不不犯法，
你就想着里 得到网友的一些同情，使得 你更有 动力 继续跑出去 胡搞而已
挺可怜的~ 想有人爱，先自爱吧 如果你觉得不快乐 就先改变自己
他对他老婆一定不好，不忠加转移婚内财产。你们都不是什么好人，别给自己贴金了。男人不挑。
有没有心理学家来分析分析，这是因为在亲密关系里没有安全感和自信，所以总要通过发展新关系来找寻吗？
因为中年男人伺候不了四个女人？
你不怕得HPV吗
爱首先是信任，然后是强烈的占有。你这不痛不痒的关系咋能给你这种感觉呢？你不属于他们，他们也不属于你。你不信任他们，他们也不必信任你。凑一起解决下生理需要，完了大家该干嘛干嘛。跟陌生人没区别。这样的关系来一打你也还是孤苦伶仃的
楼主看似有4个男人，其实两手空空。确实是有心理问题
美国的四年婚外男友怎么满足不了你 退一万步想想 你是不是喜欢女的😂
其实楼主我觉得一个男人也没有，老公只是名义上的，国内那个算是远程偶然接项目，美国长期情人算是短期合同工，最后这个不就是个ONS.... 这很显然哪个都不行啊，但凡有一个行的，就不会有最后这个ONS.......不如全部甩了换人。
国内这个根本就是出差见个面，平时又不联系又不维护。 最后这个就是个ONS嘛。
这根本不花什么时间。
你要追求纯真的爱情，早点全甩了换人吧......这几个明显都不行。
看到楼主觉得对不起小三和小四，竟然有点感动。做人，要是要有底线的，毕竟还是要有点道德感的！
可能老公家务照顾孩子很给力
离了就没有钱了呗
你的情人们都是单身吗
感情上不去judge. 但是楼主一定要做好保护措施，一旦感染上hpv hiv hbv 那就更加痛苦了。