我一直说男人活得比较难

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楼主 (北美华人网)
今天看到这句话,我觉得很好的说了我想说的。就是女人咋活都挺开心的。男人只有一种活法,如果不成功,就惨了。
https://apple.news/AAnRc0jh7QByuYQkcUBserg

Sociologist Zygmunt Bauman explains in his book Liquid Modernity that, in the shift from the manufacturing economy to the cognitive economy, men lost their social role as producers and providers, while women shifted away from being caretakers, and both became consumers.  However, Bauman missed that traditional gender norms make taking an identity as “consumers” less attractive to men since men, perhaps influenced by psychological differences in attitudes around money, tend to spend less than women on “frivolous” items such as clothing or entertainment. Feminist messages, such as those seen in books like Lean In and the “girlboss” trope, empowered women to take pride in their role as employees and in business. Likewise, traditional roles as caretakers have not actually been rejected to a large extent, leaving women with many avenues to personal satisfaction while also abandoning men “in crisis.”
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niuniudabao
#boyshelpboys
大衣被禁
总结一下,就是说男人要快乐,要多带娃爱带娃。