About Relationships: Family, Friends, and Work

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今天跟8年级小孩散步,跟她讲:In any relationship—whether with family, friends, or customers—the key is not to force anyone to do anything. Instead, people are drawn closer through mutual attraction, based on shared values and principles. I can’t force a student to take my course; that approach doesn’t work. Instead, I focus on making my classes high-quality and engaging to attract them naturally.
Instead of trying to pull people in, often—if not most of the time—it’s actually better to push them away. If they’re truly interested and a good fit, they’ll come back on their own. You just have to be patient.
其实我甚至会刻意让他们不容易找到我们,蜿蜒曲折找到你,然后发现是一片桃源,那种惊喜感肯定让人开心坏了。。。
Many couples have asked for my advice on their family relationships and marriages. The principle is always the same: mutual attraction. When attraction fades, the relationship becomes more of a burden, and it’s often easier for everyone involved to maintain some distance.
曾经被小十几岁的小弟弟暗恋得死去活来的,也被大叔喜欢过。。。Life is full of adventures. Enjoy every moment...
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