数学在情商面前什么都不是,看看这才叫牛蛙

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zhuanbian
楼主 (北美华人网)
Asking my Princeton interviewer to be my valentine Fluff
Js had my Princeton interview and after talking abt Princeton for like 5 minutes I asked him why he didn’t have anything better to do for Valentine’s Day. This started a whole rant and him talking abt his dating life but I naturally eventually told him he could be my valentine if he’s lonely… He laughed a lot but said he’s good but at the end he told me he’s gonna write a good rec for his valentine. Gonna do this for all my interviews now.
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mingcedargrove
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热脸贴了个冷东东?和数学/牛蛙貌似不沾啊。
呵呵笑
zhuanbian 发表于 2025-02-15 11:47
Asking my Princeton interviewer to be my valentine Fluff
Js had my Princeton interview and after talking abt Princeton for like 5 minutes I asked him why he didn’t have anything better to do for Valentine’s Day. This started a whole rant and him talking abt his dating life but I naturally eventually told him he could be my valentine if he’s lonely… He laughed a lot but said he’s good but at the end he told me he’s gonna write a good rec for his valentine. Gonna do this for all my interviews now.
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不觉得情商高。
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zz99
so cringe
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Iwkhx
数学躺枪了。
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MegMegMeg
Creeps. Both of them.
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dryad
This is called using female advantage...big no no
阿呆啦
什么鬼?如果面试官和面试学生性别对调一下,看看这算不算是性骚扰?
魏大爷的邻居
不适合
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jeso1
这是个whore吧
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cleveri
楼主这价值观歪的….
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georgeanna
感觉不太professional。这种时候调情。
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mtwash
这年头,所以跟女同事谈话最好把办公室的门敞开,如果冷不丁来这么一位,自己说不清楚的话谁吃得消?
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Skipper
太“牛”啦,可以 skip college
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pululu
这家家长怎么教的女孩,为了一封推荐信就这样,可以预料以后会干些啥
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miaommiaomm
还以为是多好的情商进来学习一下,结果是这?!这种连情商都不算吧,妥妥的轻佻不自重。
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falcon1
zhuanbian 发表于 2025-02-15 11:47
Asking my Princeton interviewer to be my valentine Fluff
Js had my Princeton interview and after talking abt Princeton for like 5 minutes I asked him why he didn’t have anything better to do for Valentine’s Day. This started a whole rant and him talking abt his dating life but I naturally eventually told him he could be my valentine if he’s lonely… He laughed a lot but said he’s good but at the end he told me he’s gonna write a good rec for his valentine. Gonna do this for all my interviews now.
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这叫情商高? 神经病! 情商当然重要,但是社会发展光靠情商,就行了? 总要有人会数学,搞工程,踏踏实实把产品做出来把?不然跟印度有啥区别? 美国这些年的衰败,就是太重视所谓的leadership和EQ,忽视了基础教育。
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falcon1
zhuanbian 发表于 2025-02-15 11:47
Asking my Princeton interviewer to be my valentine Fluff
Js had my Princeton interview and after talking abt Princeton for like 5 minutes I asked him why he didn’t have anything better to do for Valentine’s Day. This started a whole rant and him talking abt his dating life but I naturally eventually told him he could be my valentine if he’s lonely… He laughed a lot but said he’s good but at the end he told me he’s gonna write a good rec for his valentine. Gonna do this for all my interviews now.
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另外,这些藤校的面试,屁用没有,就是走个形式而已。
樱桃猫
就是找个乐子
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laqyx6
阿呆啦 发表于 2025-02-15 12:11
什么鬼?如果面试官和面试学生性别对调一下,看看这算不算是性骚扰?

性别不对调就不算性骚扰?男性好像在这方面都要算弱势群体了,都被骚扰成这样了还不算吗?如果这样的话张柏芝是不是可以对中国百分之八十的男性随心所欲啊?
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narrowgate
这个不是情商
但回到原来讨论,因为对小镇做题家来说,他们懂怎么教数学,但不懂怎么教情商啊,很多人自己本来情商就不高。而且情商比数学难教多了。
你为啥不上清华?是不愿意吗? =)




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pcln
藤校面试,他把你夸成花对你录取也基本没啥帮助,当然他如果说的一文不值那是有影响的。reddit上有人说他给10几个他面试的都写了极高的评价,没有一个人被录取的
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largepotato
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别侮辱牛蛙和数学了!being slutty in interview? 什么三观啊?
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goneaway
Iwkhx 发表于 2025-02-15 12:09
数学躺枪了。

别听楼主瞎胡扯,数学这东西基本上是永恒的,其它的都是过眼云烟,说基本呢是留一点余地,例如即使像牛顿三大定律看起来那么稳固的理论,到后来发现也是有瑕疵的
当然我觉得勾股定理这种基本是永恒的
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SheldonCooper
情商比起三观才是什么都不是
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delicacy
这叫情商高? 神经病! 情商当然重要,但是社会发展光靠情商,就行了? 总要有人会数学,搞工程,踏踏实实把产品做出来把?不然跟印度有啥区别? 美国这些年的衰败,就是太重视所谓的leadership和EQ,忽视了基础教育。
falcon1 发表于 2025-02-15 13:21

主要是“会数学,搞工程,踏踏实实把产品做出来”的人赚钱并没有其他的来钱快啊,所以就没人愿意学了。国内很多年也是都一窝蜂的做金融。国内是因为人多,不管任何行业总有人还在做,喜欢也好不得不做也好。而美国人口不够多,工程类的薪资不够就更没人了
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delicacy
laqyx6 发表于 2025-02-15 16:03
性别不对调就不算性骚扰?男性好像在这方面都要算弱势群体了,都被骚扰成这样了还不算吗?如果这样的话张柏芝是不是可以对中国百分之八十的男性随心所欲啊?

不但被骚扰还被bully呢,这天也不是法定假日,怎么面试就说明人家没有date了,也太自以为是了,可能人家只是不想说具体的情况。而且自己几斤几两就自荐了。人家估计听了很尬,勉强糊弄过去说给好评。实际上可能就都不会给好评,可能不给差评最多了
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JBJ17
我也觉得这个面试官可能情商比这个学生高。
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Prionlike
性别or角色对换怕不是直接上 metoo
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babyduck
楼主不是挖坑的就是三观太歪,贴的这段跟情商没啥关系,有句难听但是特别贴切可以描述这段的话,“人至贱则无敌”,没有下限了,其他什么都是浮云
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semiotics
这个interviewer 完全是工作中行为不端吧。