https://youtu.be/gvH9Ccqk5qc Just like a star across my sky Just like an angel off the page You have appeared to my life Feel like I'll never be the same Just like a song in my heart Just like oil on my hands Honor to love you Still I wonder why it is I don't argue like this With anyone but you We do it all the time Blowing out my mind You've got this look I can't describe You make me feel I'm alive When everything else is au fait Without a doubt, you're on my side Heaven has been away too long Can't find the words to write this song Oh, your love Still, I wonder why it is I don't argue like this With anyone but you We do it all the time Blowing out my mind Yeah Now I have come to understand the way it is It's not a secret anymore 'Cause we've been through that before From tonight, I know that you're the only one I've been confused and in the dark Now I understand, yeah, yeah I wonder why it is I don't argue like this With anyone but you I wonder why it is I won't let my guard down For anyone but you We do it all the time Blowing out my mind Just like a star across my sky Just like an angel off the page You have appeared to my life Feel like I'll never be the same Just like a song in my heart Just like oil on my hands
从娃出生开始，感觉每一步都在做选择题，每份选择都会烙上家长和孩子的印记。
对我而言，一个体验一下就行。
一个是赌博，多来几个是风控。
总而言之，尽力而为，别想太多。
哈哈。 确实是这样的， 生的多， 有一个出息的， 家里可能就会大改观。 所以越穷生的越多。
hahaha~~~你太有才啦
赵然的一个视频，公开说：学习好不好就是智商决定的，我深表同意。 她说自己不会飞，指望下个蛋，会飞，自己没有数吗？
有娃后，嗯……尤其是娃没成年前
做人不要横向比较 只能自己和自己比较
哇！ 太正确了啊。 can't agree more with you on that~
发现各位有好有才啊。想到了方方面面。赞！
好的，自然好，差的自然差。担心、辅助，有些作用，但是不大。我家天才娃解题思路，我都惊讶。普娃，你急死也是白搭。
Yes ,学会放手和接受
恭喜！恭喜。可遇不可求。
这得有两个以上孩子才能得出这结论
只能说楼主很牛，只生了一个孩子就得出了我生了三个才得出的结论。这也support了楼主的观点：人和人相差太多
娃和娃天生差别巨大 每天默念，娃是普娃，开心就好 想对孩子提要求时，想想自己是什么样，就能憋回去
羡慕啊！
你太幸福了。 我有了娃之后发现自己简直就是天使娃， 我觉得我娃要是和我小时候一样省心，我做梦都能笑醒
https://youtu.be/gvH9Ccqk5qc
Just like a star across my sky Just like an angel off the page You have appeared to my life Feel like I'll never be the same Just like a song in my heart Just like oil on my hands Honor to love you Still I wonder why it is I don't argue like this With anyone but you We do it all the time Blowing out my mind You've got this look I can't describe You make me feel I'm alive When everything else is au fait Without a doubt, you're on my side Heaven has been away too long Can't find the words to write this song Oh, your love Still, I wonder why it is I don't argue like this With anyone but you We do it all the time Blowing out my mind Yeah Now I have come to understand the way it is It's not a secret anymore 'Cause we've been through that before From tonight, I know that you're the only one I've been confused and in the dark Now I understand, yeah, yeah I wonder why it is I don't argue like this With anyone but you I wonder why it is I won't let my guard down For anyone but you We do it all the time Blowing out my mind Just like a star across my sky Just like an angel off the page You have appeared to my life Feel like I'll never be the same Just like a song in my heart Just like oil on my hands
教育不能照葫芦画瓢 但在培养某些方面的特质还是有一定的方式方法 譬如如何面对挫折的能力 这种能力和智商性格没有太大的关联 家长在培养这些能力起到非常关键的作用
东北话所谓的谁知道哪片云彩能下雨？！
我闺女也很天使，也很独立。
到处都是娃，到处都是家长。
教育非常非常personal，一提养娃，人的多样性体现得淋漓尽致。家长和娃都差别很大。
哈哈哈，理论上这样比较不fair, 为了公平比较看不同人生来的差异，你可以再生一个娃
我有娃后也深刻觉得自己真是天使娃。虽然我娃也还好 但是我小时候五岁就自己走路上学 风雨无阻 我读到高中我妈才知道原来我小学的时候也有家庭作业 只不过我都自己早早做完了 没要他们操过一份心（连家长签字都代替了）。。。
你是单亲生孩子的, 后悔吗? 如果重新选择你会一个人生孩子吗? 一般女的如果有老公起码得到了经济好处.
没娃的话，身强力壮的时候不会想到要立遗嘱。有娃之后，特别是网上看到一些故事后，觉得需要立刻马上立遗嘱，立了安心。Term life也确保能把房贷付清和经济支持娃到18岁。
想想我也爱爸妈，但真心还没有为爸妈考虑那么多，可能是因为娃未成年，但爸妈经济没啥问题，现在身体也都健康。养大娃之后，下一步，就是给父母养老了。人到中年，真的体会到上有老下有小，不敢死。
我和队友小时候，都是不需要父母操心的天使自推娃。当年两边父母都是一样忙工作，不需要咋操心，孩子就顺利长大了。我俩也都没有啥青春期逆反，都算是父母的贴心小棉袄和小棉裤吧。结果我俩对我们的娃们，有时就很没辙，只能抓大放小。我爸妈觉得自己育儿有方，试图指点我怎样养娃时，我真想吐槽说，其实我爸妈养娃经验还没我丰富呢😂