问个单词,“被人操控的”怎么说

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shaoshuiyu
楼主 (北美华人网)
一年级小男孩(Mike)在学校recess时被隐形bully. 一个个头很高的小女孩(Thea) 非让Mike加入她的girl's team, 就是几个一起玩的小女孩。“You need to be in Girl's team!" Thea 让Mike一直跟着她们,不让他去别的地方玩。 我告诉Mike, 直接对Thea说 " I don't need listen to you", 然后直接跑开。可Mike始终说不出来,他说Thea会说他是个bad boy. 他已经在recess时被逼哭了几次,现在回来也哭。我想给老师写信,让老师介入。我想说 ”Mike is a little overly submissive in front of Thea", 但我感觉submissive并不准确, 我想表达Thea在 mind control Mike, 但我觉得不能直接这样说。所以想问问用什么词形容Mike比较好。
Mike并不总是这样,知道说不,和男生还动过手,我觉得是Thea超级bossy,控制欲强。
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ChristinaW
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Giovanna
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magnoliaceae
Thea has been pushing Mike to join the girls. When Mike refused, she called Mike names. Mike feels intimidated and bossed around. I believe this is bullying and would like to know the school’s policy regarding this kind of behavior.
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kittenpuppyplay
直接说 Mike has been bullied by Thea during recess. Thea forced Mike to be in her team and didn’t allow Mike to go to anywhere else. Mike cried during recess and cried badly after came back from school. We need your help to separate Thea and Mike.
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kittenpuppyplay
建议写信的时候重点强调:Thea的行为,Mike的感受,以及需要老师/学校做的事情。
其实我觉得可以直接去学校找老师当面说一下。
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shaoshuiyu
回复 5楼 kittenpuppyplay 的帖子
谢谢!你的这些描述很准确,我准备给老师写的太soft了。
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shaoshuiyu
回复 4楼 magnoliaceae 的帖子
谢谢!