我看到这幅画就乐得不要不要的,立马想起了Watson的雄心壮志,一个量子物理学家就要诞生了。 “Give me a dozen healthy infants, well-formed, and my own specified world to bring them up in and I’ll guarantee to take any one at random and train him to become any type of specialist I might select—doctor, lawyer, artist, merchant-chief and, yes, even beggar-man and thief, regardless of his talents, penchants, tendencies, abilities, vocations, and race of his ancestors. ” ― John Broadus Watson, Behaviorism
我看到这幅画就乐得不要不要的,立马想起了Watson的雄心壮志,一个量子物理学家就要诞生了。 “Give me a dozen healthy infants, well-formed, and my own specified world to bring them up in and I’ll guarantee to take any one at random and train him to become any type of specialist I might select—doctor, lawyer, artist, merchant-chief and, yes, even beggar-man and thief, regardless of his talents, penchants, tendencies, abilities, vocations, and race of his ancestors. ” ― John Broadus Watson, Behaviorism 学谦为小家 发表于 2024-03-29 10:53
这就是典型妄想症 看看他自己的家庭生活和子女: Watson married Mary Ickes, sister of politician Harold L. Ickes, while he was in graduate school.[9] They had two children, also named John and Mary Ickes Watson,[10][8] the latter of whom attempted suicide later in life.[11] Young Mary and her husband, Paul Hartley, had a daughter, Mariette Hartley, an actor who suffered from psychological issues that she attributed to her being raised according to her grandfather''s theories.[12][13] Watson''s wife later sought divorce due to his ongoing affair with a student, Rosalie Rayner (1898–1935).[9] In searching Rayner''s bedroom, Mary discovered love letters from Watson.[7] The affair became front-page news in Baltimore. The publicity resulted in Johns Hopkins University asking Watson to resign his faculty position in October 1920.[14]
wudadan 发表于 2024-03-29 11:57 这就是典型幻想症 看看他自己的家庭生活和子女: Watson married Mary Ickes, sister of politician Harold L. Ickes, while he was in graduate school.[9] They had two children, also named John and Mary Ickes Watson,[10][8] the latter of whom attempted suicide later in life.[11] Young Mary and her husband, Paul Hartley, had a daughter, Mariette Hartley, an actor who suffered from psychological issues that she attributed to her being raised according to her grandfather's theories.[12][13] Watson's wife later sought divorce due to his ongoing affair with a student, Rosalie Rayner (1898–1935).[9] In searching Rayner's bedroom, Mary discovered love letters from Watson.[7] The affair became front-page news in Baltimore. The publicity resulted in Johns Hopkins University asking Watson to resign his faculty position in October 1920.[14]
Gates的没有
客观得讲应该主要出自“富”养的家庭,我这里的“富”是指精神层面的:1)孩子接触社会、生活的面广,家长也给机会在社会里锻炼,孩子容易对未来形成自己的想法; 2)给自由选择的空间大。资产多的人容易做到,穷人也是可以做到的。那些小镇做题家这两样一般都没有。
具体怎么一个富养法?你给大伙儿介绍介绍
这类话题总有你这种 绝顶聪明 跑出来做总结, 我也是服了
问题就是很多老中家庭自己替娃定目标,小学还没毕业呢就教唆要么当医生要么去华尔街,最不济也得去IT大厂。。。这样的家庭太多太多了,问题非常大
那如果娃一路公校,但是过程中爹妈资产过亿了,是不是孩子就不行了!从小没得到好的培养,配不上过亿身价啊
所以说现在巨富在卷 穷人在躺平 只有中产 躺又躺不平 卷又卷不赢
对啊,推网球来说,一般中产你要考虑因素很多(场地,教练,时间), 富人就是请好教练就行了,就在家里网球场练,人家那可能真是私教, 和那种一次1-2小时的私教区别还是很大的.
热天打个网球都能拿出来说说? 那看来我有当富人的潜质
楼主贫限想。巨富家培养娃,付出的心血完全是你不能想象的。人家财富积累到一定程度,当然希望自己的孩子更好,怎么可能随便“自由宽松”。继承家业需要本事的。
认识一家全国排100多还是200多的家族,每个小孩请两个月薪8万的阿姨,那的确是不鸡娃,数学体育阅读啥都不管,见世面多是肯定的,连和我们这种屌丝的饭局也会带出来给大家看看。自由选择那也是没有的,22岁就进家族业务没啥可商量的。
巨富家是怎么培养孩子的? 介绍一下让我们开开眼
哈哈😃
把孩子鸡到名校CS,自己至少得通过圈子,安排好2-3个大厂实习,保证毕业保送大厂。
把孩子鸡到藤校,那自己就得保证孩子有几个熟识的大佬叔叔,毕业了起码空降startup或VC,手里得要有几十几百M的起始资金才能施展才华。
家长没有相应的能力,没有铺好路,把孩子鸡到一个不属于自己的高度,很快就会掉下来, 干一番事业就不谈了,按现在行情,找个正经公司上班都悬。
一个简单例子。不是巨富,只是有点钱,爸妈财富自由了。孩子踢球,从7岁开始,每年去巴塞罗那camp踢球一个月。私校比较自由,训练完自己补学校的东西。连续7,8年。
然后呢?
你的发言就像我一个不上班的高中同学 自己不上班 老公也赚的一般 然后对我们上班的指指点点 说我们行业只看数据说话 冷冰冰没有一点理想一点情怀 说人做的事要为国家做贡献 然后报一堆数字 说中国还有多少贫困家庭Blabla 那也没见你捐助任何人啊 你先给小家做点贡献吧
你的发言和她的发言给我的体感是差不多的
真心请教1-5亿,靠鸡啥能帮助守住财? 琴棋书画?打网球?
Exactly
绝对有。热天打网球太不容易了。这种精神就很值得赞美。
我一直都是报的NTC的室内网球课。完全没有任何吃苦精神。
反过来另一面,如果小孩出生时家境很好,资产过亿,但是大学没读完就破产了。小孩能靠从小鸡出来的本事,把钱重新赚回来吗? 就糊个口那种不算哈,有钱人看起来应该太low了
不过花时间不应该是卷娃鸡娃吧,而是帮娃一起构建内驱力好奇心和探索的热情。这和家长是不是资产够自己还是自己加孩子一辈子财富自由没啥关系,因为目标是孩子能过有意义的一生。继承的财富并不能帮娃实现这个目标,甚至对不同的娃这些财富对这个目标可以是正面的也可以是负面的因素。
富人里也不是做的事情就是相对更正确的选择。最终还是看每个人的智慧。
拉你个倒吧!我们这里前两年intern的一个小朋友,家里有N个庄园N个企业, 人家很努力的上了MIT,毕业以后在Citadel当portfolio manager;再有一个去年来的analyst,父亲在法国有酒庄,同时做一个大规模酒类进出口的公司的CEO,母亲是某个大型资管的general counsel,美国和欧洲房产很多,他从小私校,母亲一路规划他的课外活动和夏令营,直到进了Harvard。后面这个我很熟,他说他小时候的什么poster之类的,都是母亲手把手教着做的,因为自己哪能做那么好?他工作了两三个月,母亲已经天天在问他打算什么时候去读 MBA。
基数太小。而且即使鸡娃,也不代表就有效
这谁P的?找小扎和华裔真是找对了
富人 卷的是 怎么把钱生钱 至少留住
英国伊顿公学没有倒闭吧 四岁的就开始读金融时报 不是假的 其他的 就不知道了
其实最不鸡娃的是穷人,一没钱二没闲来卷娃。。。
为什么小镇做题家这两样都没有,是不是因为大部分中国的小城市要啥没啥?不玩命学习就没啥出路,要继续种地打工摆摊,所以小镇做题家的家庭即使想富养也是做不到的吧,对吧
如果自己本身不爱鸡血上来的 觉得钱够了也不会鸡娃(比如我)
对 习惯性鸡娃的都是小富,或者新钱
是这个道理的
说到天 除了你自己穷这一点是真的 其他都是你的想象😂
也不一定,有的父母自己欠缺这个就想娃实现。有个熟人很有钱但夫妻都没读过多少书就爱卷孩子学习,还总爱夸耀自己孩子基因好…
同意。
我周围有钱人,没有对孩子的培养不上心的。
我看到这幅画就乐得不要不要的,立马想起了Watson的雄心壮志,一个量子物理学家就要诞生了。
“Give me a dozen healthy infants, well-formed, and my own specified world to bring them up in and I’ll guarantee to take any one at random and train him to become any type of specialist I might select—doctor, lawyer, artist, merchant-chief and, yes, even beggar-man and thief, regardless of his talents, penchants, tendencies, abilities, vocations, and race of his ancestors. ” ― John Broadus Watson, Behaviorism
资产多的家庭不好好教育子女,到时候来一堆纨绔子弟,再多的资产也没有用。
应该不是的,古代皇帝家更卷,卷不好了还可能死。
这就是典型妄想症 看看他自己的家庭生活和子女:
Watson married Mary Ickes, sister of politician Harold L. Ickes, while he was in graduate school.[9] They had two children, also named John and Mary Ickes Watson,[10][8] the latter of whom attempted suicide later in life.[11] Young Mary and her husband, Paul Hartley, had a daughter, Mariette Hartley, an actor who suffered from psychological issues that she attributed to her being raised according to her grandfather''s theories.[12][13]
Watson''s wife later sought divorce due to his ongoing affair with a student, Rosalie Rayner (1898–1935).[9] In searching Rayner''s bedroom, Mary discovered love letters from Watson.[7] The affair became front-page news in Baltimore. The publicity resulted in Johns Hopkins University asking Watson to resign his faculty position in October 1920.[14]
是啊。在判定恋爱的二人是否有爱需要依靠吞噬巧克力的量的时代,什么不能被量化地拥有确定性呢。