回复 1楼 学谦为小家 的帖子 I Allow I allow it, that's how it started, such a development, Such an ending. Because I know, All things come from karma and harmony, Everything that happens is inevitable. If I think there should be another possibility, The only one who hurts is himself. The only thing I can do, Just allow. I allow others to be who he is. I allow him to think like this, so judge me, Treat me like this. Because I know, He was like this, With him, he was right. If I think he should be another way, The only one who hurts is himself. The only thing I can do, Just allow. I allow me to have this thought. I allow every thought that arises, let it exist, Let it go. Because I know, Thought itself is meaningless, it has nothing to do with me, It should come, it should go, it should go. If I don't think such thoughts should arise, The only one who hurts is himself. The only thing I can do, Just allow. I allow this emotion to arise. I allow every emotion to happen, let it develop, Let it pass. Because I know, Emotions are just physical sensations, There is no good or bad. The more resisted, the stronger. If I don't think I should be feeling this way, The only one who hurts is himself. The only thing I can do, Just allow. I allow me to be like this. I allow it, that's how I behave, How do I behave, Whatever I do. Because I know, What it looks like on the outside is just the accumulation of self. The real me, full of wisdom. If I think it should be another way, The only one who hurts is himself. The only thing I can do, Just allow. I know, I am here for the experience of life in the present moment. in every present moment. The only thing I have to do is fully allow, experience completely, experience fully, Enjoy completely. Look, just look. allow everything, As it is. https://www.jianshu.com/p/23fa21e36e7b
回复 2楼 学谦为小家 的帖子 1 Corinthians 13:4-8 English Standard Version 4 Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant 5 or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful;[a] 6 it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. 7 Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. 8 Love never ends. As for prophecies, they will pass away; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away.
* 我允许 --伯特·海灵格
我允许任何事情的发生。 我允许，事情是如此的开始， 如此的发展， 如此的结局。 因为我知道，所有的事情， 都是因缘和合而来， 一切的发生，都是必然。 若我觉得应该是另外一种可能， 伤害的，只是自己。 我唯一能做的， 就是允许。
我允许别人如他所是。 我允许，他会有这样的所思所想， 如此的评判我， 如此的对待我。 因为我知道， 他本来就是这个样子， 在他那里，他是对的。 若我觉得他应该是另外一种样子， 伤害的，只是自己。 我唯一能做的， 就是允许。
我允许我有了这样的念头。 我允许，每一个念头的出现， 任它存在， 任它消失。 因为我知道， 念头本身本无意义，与我无关， 它该来会来，该走会走。 若我觉得不应该出现这样的念头， 伤害的，只是自己。 我唯一能做的， 就是允许。
我允许我升起了这样的情绪。 我允许，每一种情绪的发生， 任其发展， 任其穿过。 因为我知道， 情绪只是身体上的觉受，本无好坏。 越是抗拒，越是强烈。 若我觉得不应该出现这样的情绪， 伤害的，只是自己。 我唯一能做的 就是允许
我允许，我就是这个样子 我允许，我就是这样的表现 我表现如何 就任我表现如何 因为我知道，外在是什么样子， 只是自我的积淀而已。 真正的我，智慧俱足。 若我觉得应该是另外一个样子， 伤害的，只是自己。 我唯一能做的， 就是允许。
我知道， 我是为了生命在当下的体验而来。 在每一个当下时刻， 我唯一要做的，就是 全然地允许， 全然地经历， 全然地体验， 全然地享受。 看，只是看。 允许一切如其所是。
I Allow
I allow it, that's how it started, such a development, Such an ending. Because I know, All things come from karma and harmony, Everything that happens is inevitable. If I think there should be another possibility, The only one who hurts is himself. The only thing I can do, Just allow.
I allow others to be who he is. I allow him to think like this, so judge me, Treat me like this. Because I know, He was like this, With him, he was right. If I think he should be another way, The only one who hurts is himself. The only thing I can do, Just allow.
I allow me to have this thought. I allow every thought that arises, let it exist, Let it go. Because I know, Thought itself is meaningless, it has nothing to do with me, It should come, it should go, it should go. If I don't think such thoughts should arise, The only one who hurts is himself. The only thing I can do, Just allow.
I allow this emotion to arise. I allow every emotion to happen, let it develop, Let it pass. Because I know, Emotions are just physical sensations, There is no good or bad. The more resisted, the stronger. If I don't think I should be feeling this way, The only one who hurts is himself. The only thing I can do, Just allow. I allow me to be like this. I allow it, that's how I behave, How do I behave, Whatever I do. Because I know, What it looks like on the outside is just the accumulation of self. The real me, full of wisdom. If I think it should be another way, The only one who hurts is himself. The only thing I can do, Just allow.
I know, I am here for the experience of life in the present moment. in every present moment. The only thing I have to do is fully allow, experience completely, experience fully, Enjoy completely. Look, just look. allow everything, As it is.
https://www.jianshu.com/p/23fa21e36e7b
分享海灵格90岁时写给父亲的一封信。
亲爱的爸爸 有很长的一段时间 我不都知道自己缺失的是什么 我把您那么久的拒在我的心门之外
因为我把目光投向了 我认为更伟大的事情 我渴望拥有更多
我曾经是那么惧怕您 因为您曾狠狠地打我 打得很疼
我则拒您于我的心之门外 是的 我无别选择 就像活鲜的生命分开了 就像妈妈站在了我们中间
直到现在我还能感觉到 那个时候的我 是多么的空虚和孤独
我离圆满的人生是那么远
但是现在 您从很远的地方回来 怀着爱 保持着并不打扰我的距离
直到如今我才明白 是您确保着 我们日复一日的生存 我们却没有在内心深处意识到
有那么多的爱 从您那里向我们涌来 我们可曾告诉过您 作为我们的父亲 您是多么伟大！
您笼罩在一种孤独感里 可是您留在了我们身边
您一直努力而又慈爱的 服务着我们的生命和未来 我们却把这一切 都所理应当的接受了
从未感谢过对您的索求 现在 热涌泪上我的双眼 亲爱的爱爸爸 我向您的伟大鞠躬 我把您纳入我的心
很久以来 您都被排除在我的心门之外 没有了您的心 如此虚空 即使是现在 您也和我保持着友好的距离
对我没有任何期待 毫不失您的伟大与尊严 作为我的父亲 您一直是伟大的 作为您亲爱的孩子 我接受您 以及您所给予我的一切！
1 Corinthians 13:4-8 English Standard Version
4 Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant 5 or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful;[a] 6 it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. 7 Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things. 8 Love never ends. As for prophecies, they will pass away; as for tongues, they will cease; as for knowledge, it will pass away.
嗯，是的。
“漫天飞舞的银杏叶的特征在于，
事实上，
在每一刻，
每一片正在飘落的叶子，
出现在与其他叶子不同的高度，
因此视觉感官所坐落的空洞而没有感觉的空间，
可以区分为一系列的连续平面，
在每一平面，
我们发现一小片叶子在旋转，
而且只有单独的一片”。
---卡尔维诺《月光映照的银杏叶地毯》