Do you ever feel like a plastic bag Drifting through the wind, wanting to start again? Do you ever feel, feel so paper thin Like a house of cards, one blow from cavin' in? Do you ever feel already buried deep? Six feet under screams, but no one seems to hear a thing Do you know that there's still a chance for you? 'Cause there's a spark in you. 系统提示:若遇到视频无法播放请点击下方链接 https://www.youtube.com/embed/QGJuMBdaqIw?si=3OKrRI4jOgp-Krff
不去对别人寄予希望就不会失望到绝望的地步。 若指望别人,别人帮自己是客气,不帮是本份。 如果碰到难事了,上来吐个槽,网友帮帮忙出点主意。 若事尚可为,云何不欢喜。若事已无济,绝望有何用。 人生总有起起伏伏高高低低。一切都会好起来的。Everything will be ok,you will be all right.
Do you ever feel like a plastic bag Drifting through the wind, wanting to start again? Do you ever feel, feel so paper thin Like a house of cards, one blow from cavin' in? Do you ever feel already buried deep? Six feet under screams, but no one seems to hear a thing Do you know that there's still a chance for you? 'Cause there's a spark in you. 系统提示:若遇到视频无法播放请点击下方链接 https://www.youtube.com/embed/QGJuMBdaqIw?si=3OKrRI4jOgp-Krff SSBN826 发表于 2023-12-08 21:22
Do you ever feel like a plastic bag Drifting through the wind, wanting to start again? Do you ever feel, feel so paper thin Like a house of cards, one blow from cavin' in? Do you ever feel already buried deep? Six feet under screams, but no one seems to hear a thing Do you know that there's still a chance for you? 'Cause there's a spark in you. 系统提示:若遇到视频无法播放请点击下方链接 https://www.youtube.com/embed/QGJuMBdaqIw?si=3OKrRI4jOgp-Krff SSBN826 发表于 2023-12-08 21:22
这个选的好,把歌词贴在下面,希望楼主被感染到 Do you ever feel like a plastic bag Drifting through the wind, wanting to start again? Do you ever feel, feel so paper thin Like a house of cards, one blow from cavin' in? Do you ever feel already buried deep? Six feet under screams, but no one seems to hear a thing Do you know that there's still a chance for you? 'Cause there's a spark in you You just gotta ignite the light And let it shine Just own the night Like the Fourth of July 'Cause baby, you're a firework Come on, show 'em what you're worth Make 'em go, "Oh, oh, oh" As you shoot across the sky Baby, you're a firework Come on, let your colors burst Make 'em go, "Oh, oh, oh" You're gonna leave 'em all in awe, awe, awe You don't have to feel like a waste of space You're original, cannot be replaced If you only knew what the future holds After a hurricane comes a rainbow Maybe a reason why all the doors are closed So you could open one that leads you to the perfect road Like a lightning bolt, your heart will glow And when it's time, you'll know You just gotta ignite the light And let it shine Just own the night Like the Fourth of July 'Cause baby, you're a firework Come on, show 'em what you're worth Make 'em go, "Oh, oh, oh" As you shoot across the sky Baby, you're a firework Come on, let your colors burst Make 'em go, "Oh, oh, oh" You're gonna leave 'em all in awe, awe, awe Boom, boom, boom Even brighter than the moon, moon, moon It's always been inside of you, you, you And now it's time to let it through
买彩票去。 说不定你就中了。 记住分我点啊
不要放弃挣扎
过几年回来看看发现这都不是事儿
你为啥对别人寄以厚望?这样的帖子看得我绝望。
人性确实黑暗,人类本身是让人看不到希望的。圣经里老早就写了,罪带来的就是人性的堕落败坏。但是好在还有耶稣,上帝送进黑暗世界的真光。楼主不要把目光只局限在人身上,当你环顾四周只能看到一片漆黑时,就是该向上仰望(上帝)的时候了。求主带你走出这段人生的黑暗,这不是你生命的终结,而是上帝给你新生命的起点。
“太初有道,道与 神同在,道就是 神。这道太初与 神同在。万物是藉着他造的;凡被造的,没有一样不是藉着他造的。生命在他里头,这生命就是人的光。光照在黑暗里,黑暗却不接受光。……那光是真光,照亮一切生在世上的人。他在世界,世界也是藉着他造的,世界却不认识他。” (约翰福音 1:1-5,9-10 和合本) 耶稣又对众人说:“我是世界的光。跟从我的,就不在黑暗里走,必要得着生命的光。”(约翰福音 8:12 和合本)
那就自己好好享受一下独处。快年底了,正好可以把年假全休了,听听音乐逛逛街,看看电影吃吃饭,又或者自己出去旅个游。
干嘛减肥?抑郁得吃药。
那就远离这些人
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就是,越减肥越抑郁
若事尚可为,云何不欢喜。若事已无济,绝望有何用。
人生总有起起伏伏高高低低。一切都会好起来的。Everything will be ok,you will be all right.
加油,你这么努力,好工作大包裹很快就会来的。照顾好自己和猫猫,big bless.
好歌,我娃学前班的周五晨会集体常唱的。
下馆子,刷剧,睡懒觉。 享受一下,想想火锅川菜早茶包子多好吃。
千万别,年末了,看看外面的节日装饰,听听节日音乐,开心起来。如果有party参加,那就更好了。
期望太高 降低期望 你要把对别人的期望变成,每个人都非常不地道,不nice,不是个东西 然后发现,他们都还凑合呢
bless 早日康复。一个人更要爱惜自己。 身体好了心情就也好了
这个选的好,把歌词贴在下面,希望楼主被感染到
Do you ever feel like a plastic bag Drifting through the wind, wanting to start again? Do you ever feel, feel so paper thin Like a house of cards, one blow from cavin' in? Do you ever feel already buried deep? Six feet under screams, but no one seems to hear a thing Do you know that there's still a chance for you? 'Cause there's a spark in you You just gotta ignite the light And let it shine Just own the night Like the Fourth of July 'Cause baby, you're a firework Come on, show 'em what you're worth Make 'em go, "Oh, oh, oh" As you shoot across the sky Baby, you're a firework Come on, let your colors burst Make 'em go, "Oh, oh, oh" You're gonna leave 'em all in awe, awe, awe You don't have to feel like a waste of space You're original, cannot be replaced If you only knew what the future holds After a hurricane comes a rainbow Maybe a reason why all the doors are closed So you could open one that leads you to the perfect road Like a lightning bolt, your heart will glow And when it's time, you'll know You just gotta ignite the light And let it shine Just own the night Like the Fourth of July 'Cause baby, you're a firework Come on, show 'em what you're worth Make 'em go, "Oh, oh, oh" As you shoot across the sky Baby, you're a firework Come on, let your colors burst Make 'em go, "Oh, oh, oh" You're gonna leave 'em all in awe, awe, awe Boom, boom, boom Even brighter than the moon, moon, moon It's always been inside of you, you, you And now it's time to let it through
那就把希望收回来放在自己身上。人能控制的只有自己,你可以努力不让自己失望,爱自己,收到的爱永远不会少于你给出去的。
你至少还有自己可以依靠的
人生如果一直一成不变,是很容易乏味无聊,觉得没意思。需要一些motivation 。
今年初我觉得人生没什么意义,果断折腾买了个房子,心情因为新房子又high起来,兴奋了几个月。
最近心情又down了,果断准备卖个低点买入的投资房,蹭一把房市高涨的红利,心情又因为准备要到手的几十万现金红利high起来。 你也干点什么让自己high 一 high.
那就离开身边的人呗。身边的人又不代表整个世界。入戏太深都是不好的。
妹子坚强乐观,best of luck to you~~
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非常有用!
试一试!
自己爱自己,这一点绝对重要!对别人,别那么重视!
外加买买买,做做做吃的。我天天就在这么过,觉得开心极了。对自己pay attention,就开心了
身边的人性跟你说到底没什么太大关系。。。绝望个啥。
你对它们失望就拼命挤兑自己干嘛?对它们失望,就在它们面前彻底invisible。有被看见的需要并没有问题,但是也要被值得的人看见才行啊。
人性这东西,就别报太大希望
真是这样,年纪大了,绝望的力气都没了
减肥确实可以心情变好,不过lz不一定需要减肥
风轻云淡
人生除了生死,无大事
是呀,看到大家的回复,都能感觉到温暖
理解楼主非常为难。
给自己放个假,出去旅游一下,或者就是换个环境,走走休息吃点好的,买点平常舍不得买的。心情也许会不一样了
人各有命。承认自己既不是医生也不是上帝,这并不可耻。
你若真的了解人性,就不会对人性感到绝望了;人性本就是无法直视的,你感到绝望,还是因为你寄希望于所谓的人性。若遇到人性之善,应该感恩,因为善良是一种选择……楼主坚持下去✊
发生啥了, 这里说说说完好一半。
那就对自己好一点 自私一点 把对别人的期望都放在自己身上
猜测,回避型?
极度自卑导致的各种心理变态,靠折磨自己身边的人获取一些心理上的满足感
回避要有自我醒悟自我疗愈才行,自己不醒悟,别人很难渡,但是回避自己通常意识不到自己有问题的
又是一个NPD吧。姐妹看看版上讨论过的,很多人都会遇到NPD的,认识到了就赶紧拉黑远离得了
好死不如赖活着
活着就有转机,蹬腿就盖棺论定没有机会了
碰到就赶紧跑,即使鱼死网破也要跑。
幸存之余也可以思考一下,自己内心有哪些按钮是一旦被人按到就会触发非理性行为,然后这个按钮能不能彻底拆了。
摸摸妹妹,有重大心理疾病的人要赶快远离,保护自己。妹妹能有这样的认识,是新生活的起点呀。不要绝望,以后会越来越好的。