家庭收入30万,两娃,是否值得咬牙送一个顶私

公用马甲41
楼主 (北美华人网)
妻子收入12万,老公20万多,每月最后到手妻子5000,老公12000,家庭到手17000每月 开支主要是5500的房贷和稅,买了个1百万的房子,稅也高 平时其他开销大约是5000 每月 这个顶私叫Pingry ,在新泽西州,学费一年4万2,再加上杂费,大约每年4万5,每个月要付3800左右 先不讨论能不能考上,假设小娃考上了学前班,我们基本就是月光,以后大学学费只能靠孩子自己申请贷款,或者大房换小房。如果不去读,又觉得没有尽到一个家长的努力。之所以考虑从小读是因为据说到了高年级人数更少,更难考上了
更新一下:一天没看帖子,回来竟然被打了悲情的标志,想我们夫妻也是受了高等教育,还是faculty比较受人尊敬,竟然混到了悲情。诶

 

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5littlemonkeys
470 楼
听个实话玻璃心了?那多灌点鸡汤,自己抱团取暖就好了。
saynomore 发表于 2023-12-09 11:32

三个小孩这样养很不错了。 你说那种课外班的搞法,就算一娃家庭,或许没有单项一万两万的课时费压力,但要达到那个人力,可能要辞职一个或者请很多的help,一样很吃力的。 孩子是否喜欢和受得住这种课外的精心培养也是两说。
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baicaiye
469 楼
Pingry附近的公校估计还达不到17%吧。
无欲则刚 发表于 2023-12-08 08:52

公校不能比这个,私校都是预选一遍好学生的,要不高的话就是不行啊。公校参差不齐,没有选的权利
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saynomore
468 楼
真是扯淡,很多ec不需要花多少钱就可以搞得好的。你没有不等于别人做不出来。怎么满篇鄙视人家经费有限的,真够low的.

songriver 发表于 2023-12-09 08:47

听个实话玻璃心了?那多灌点鸡汤,自己抱团取暖就好了。
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guppyff
467 楼
NJ 顶私就那几所,怎么可能二三名与藤无缘。
章鱼小丸子_V 发表于 2023-12-08 19:18

我就讲事实而已。这是个学习毫不费劲的工科阳光大男生,可能课外活动少了点,但高中时候也去过顶级大学lab实习啥的,爬藤就是没准的事儿。我觉得他留在十分公立也一样出路很好
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pearleaf2018
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大娃不读私立 小娃一路私立的话 他们长大了关系能亲密吗?

 

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AlaskaNYC
考上了再说
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sssccc
为啥只送一个?
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rsbljsycx8bzbbx
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pop
只送一个那另一个娃就上公立了?
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Sunnyynnus
两娃要公平啊
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rsbljsycx8bzbbx
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桃花朵朵
一路私立然后到了大学要自己挣学费?
公用马甲41
为啥只送一个?
sssccc 发表于 2023-12-07 22:32

另一个太调皮,肯定没戏
这个收入你家的孩子在这种顶私需要心理比较强大,因为可能是收入低的人群。
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Inferno
回复 1楼公用马甲41的帖子
有啥必要。 如果高年级考不上,说明在里边也就是一般般水平。去了对以后有多大帮助呢。 如果真的出色,高年级一样能考上
公用马甲41
考上了再说
AlaskaNYC 发表于 2023-12-07 22:31

主要是准备工作也很多,推荐信啊,考试啊,为了考试,我肯定要每天抓着5岁的娃补课,也是个辛苦的工作量
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saiguajiataoyan
想太多
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Horsemom
没必要,把钱用在日常生活中,全家都轻松,投资也不错。
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temb
何苦来着。。。。。。
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maomi50zhi
难道不存钱了?
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babywj
回复 1楼公用马甲41的帖子
认真的回复,小的时候考,相对容易。但是交的钱多因为年数多。高中再考,不太容易进。小学的时候4万出一点头。高中差不多要5万了现在每年学费都涨而且Pingry中国人越来越多了。我的建议真的想进Pingry,权衡risk return,建议4年级考。
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The2ndLaw
先不讨论能不能考上?!
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guogai
没必要,大人小孩压力都太大
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pathdream
送两 咬牙
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piggypig90
是这样的,现在的课外班也非常烧钱,就算进了里面各种各样的杂费活动也不少全部都要考虑进去。
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huadragon
这压力太大,好的公校magnet program 也很好
公用马甲41
回复 1楼公用马甲41的帖子
认真的回复,小的时候考,相对容易。但是交的钱多因为年数多。高中再考,不太容易进。小学的时候4万出一点头。高中差不多要5万了现在每年学费都涨而且Pingry中国人越来越多了。我的建议真的想进Pingry,权衡risk return,建议4年级考。
babywj 发表于 2023-12-07 22:38

请问你是说考四年级入学?还是四年级考5年级入学?为什么是4年级考?有什么优势吗
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sober
为什么你每个月到手这么多 前面看到一帖子里夫妻收入高很多也每个月只拿一万八 要看工作前景未来五年收入能涨一半吗?我看着有点吃力 去公校可以省下不少日子过得轻松多了,去私校的话学费这只是最基本的啊 得plan更多的支出
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babywj
回复 23楼公用马甲41的帖子
Pingry 只有K/2/4/6/9年级entry year. 小学考相对容易,班级固定,能快速交到朋友。6年级9年级考相对难一些,而且是像大学选课一样,没有固定的班级,相对不容易交朋友。但6/9年级招的人数相对多一些。但竞争也大。
公用马甲41
为什么你每个月到手这么多 前面看到一帖子里夫妻收入高很多也每个月只拿一万八 要看工作前景未来五年收入能涨一半吗?我看着有点吃力 去公校可以省下不少日子过得轻松多了,去私校的话学费这只是最基本的啊 得plan更多的支出
sober 发表于 2023-12-07 22:43

每个月到手这么多?应该就是正常到手吧,稅也扣了好多。未来也就每年涨个百分之几而已
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zxy2018
回复 1楼公用马甲41的帖子
你这个收入, 真没必要, 不值得。
Pingry 也不算啥顶级私校, 2流吧。顶级的大部分在纽约城里和麻省一带。
上顶级大学可能还比不上纽约城里的几个公立的特殊高中。
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flowingsue
妻子收入12万,老公20万多,每月最后到手妻子5000,老公12000,家庭到手17000每月 开支主要是5500的房贷和稅,买了个1百万的房子,稅也高 平时其他开销大约是5000 每月 这个顶私叫Pingry ,在新泽西州,学费一年4万2,再加上杂费,大约每年4万5,每个月要付3800左右 先不讨论能不能考上,假设小娃考上了学前班,我们基本就是月光,以后大学学费只能靠孩子自己申请贷款,或者大房换小房。如果不去读,又觉得没有尽到一个家长的努力。之所以考虑从小读是因为据说到了高年级人数更少,更难考上了

公用马甲41 发表于 2023-12-07 22:30

学费4万2,还有午餐钱,独立的午餐还挺贵,还有校服开支,每年还有field trip, 再加上donation和after school program, 夏校啥的,实际支出至少是5万5。你自己考虑,如果是我不会去上,这么小上个2-3万的就可以了。
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juliadonaldson
这个价位的学校,不搞烧钱的课外活动,一年的教育开销大概要7万。另一个娃3万,两个娃小学阶段就要10万
湫湫
这么小就紧抠抠地砸钱到私立,万一没读上你们满意的大学,对父母和孩子压力太大了。不如到高中前去申请,高中能申请得进好私立,说明孩子是有潜力,这钱花得值 ,高中时连好私立都申请不进,你们也就省钱了。
木牛流马
我觉得没啥必要
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vanny886
你先考上再说……pingry一年就收俩亚裔小男孩/女孩吧,多少人盯着哟!回到你的问题,考得上就去呗
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fxiyz
没必要,这钱留给娃学东西吧。
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alittlefox
不值得
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saiguajiataoyan
送两 咬牙
pathdream 发表于 2023-12-07 22:39

把牙咬碎了,种牙又是一笔开销
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abmm
我个人觉得Princeton day school更好,学校环境非常好。
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fukktuzi
有这些钱干啥不好🤣。这要是娃考了个B回来,还不得心疼钱心疼的全家鸡飞狗跳的。何必呢!你要是每年有四万块的闲钱就往里扔。娃的开销可不止学费
心澄
NO, 把钱存着。等以后再看家庭财务情况。财务健康更重要。
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HHW13
妻子收入12万,老公20万多,每月最后到手妻子5000,老公12000,家庭到手17000每月 开支主要是5500的房贷和稅,买了个1百万的房子,稅也高 平时其他开销大约是5000 每月 这个顶私叫Pingry ,在新泽西州,学费一年4万2,再加上杂费,大约每年4万5,每个月要付3800左右 先不讨论能不能考上,假设小娃考上了学前班,我们基本就是月光,以后大学学费只能靠孩子自己申请贷款,或者大房换小房。如果不去读,又觉得没有尽到一个家长的努力。之所以考虑从小读是因为据说到了高年级人数更少,更难考上了

公用马甲41 发表于 2023-12-07 22:30

顶私又不是必须的。 如果父母的收入不是顶级的,为什么期望孩子去顶级私立学校呢?消费欲望和能力要一致啊。而且孩子在一个不属于自己收入层次的学校里学习不见得是好事情,会出现一些心理问题。家长如果砸锅卖铁送孩子上学,如果得不到预期收益心理也会失衡。 这个收入去好学区公立学校就挺好的。
大衣被禁
我听说,现在非常难考。特别是k,还要看你的家庭住址。你这个收入,不如找个好学区吧。要不然,你这收入,送了私校,住不起好学区,另一个去哪里呢?
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jellynsyrup
太撑太撑了,除非你们以后收入有质的飞跃,否则这个开支,你们年薪50万再考虑两个私立
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180maidenlane
我就问,花了120万,最后去了rutgers, 你后悔吗? 不后悔,果断上顶私。
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fitfitfit
你先扪心自问一下,如果一路读到高中毕业,最后上个很一般的大学,这个结果你能不能心平气和的接受。不能就算了,别折腾,对孩子对你都好
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water48334
有压力,最好不去
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uswhy
我就想问问 家庭收入多少可以供两个娃一块上私立 ,每年一人五万的那种私立
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raennie
不应该去。如果你的娃真的很优秀,到长大点让他自己考(虽然难点,但也不是不可能),就算考不上私立高中也可以考好的大学。等娃长大了,你们的经济上应该也更宽裕了,可以支持他上私校。
东亚家长喜欢自己吃冷饭让娃吃肉,顺便guilt trip自己的娃。我知道lz不是这么想的,但不要让娃潜意识里觉得家里过得紧张“都是因为自己”,这样的亲子关系不太健康。
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Yesterdayom
不值得, 私校还很多隐形花销,这是税后4万多, 而且两个孩子要送就都要送。顶私不是普通中产上的, 如果是高中上还可以。
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saynomore
本地最好的私校之一,不少家长的观察,是很多好学生是高中考进来的。从很小就交钱站位的学生,基本就是个分母。何苦呢。
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QQer
首先要一碗水端平,另一娃不上私校你也得给他准备一样的钱
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Momo99
不。字数字数
公用马甲38
有什么好想东想西的,先被录取了再犯愁还差不多。听说好几百申请K的,能进去的可能性微乎其微,被录了不想去还可以傲娇的说不去
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sober
高中再考上以后能进好大学吗?如果能全年级第一就还好 要是全年级中等还不如在公校考第一 容易一点出路可能还好点
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Mdx123
NJ的公校不是还不错的吗,为什么要送私校?留着钱给孩子付大学学费不好吗?再说,私校每年都有捐款活动,其他家长都捐你们不捐行吗?
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Stream211
pingry周围的公立还不错啊。没必要砸锅卖铁去。以后大点再看看。哪怕去公立课后班还得差不多两万。算上after care, summer camp这些。也很烧钱。
金生水起
回复 1楼公用马甲41的帖子
你这个收入, 真没必要, 不值得。
Pingry 也不算啥顶级私校, 2流吧。顶级的大部分在纽约城里和麻省一带。
上顶级大学可能还比不上纽约城里的几个公立的特殊高中。
zxy2018 发表于 2023-12-07 22:46

口气真大呀!Pingry都算二流私校了?
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saynomore
或者你们看看学校的financial aid要求,干脆你辞职,可能够免学费呢。
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The2ndLaw
单纯说一下楼主一个月3800的算法不太科学 两个娃的其他教育费用大概也要4000-5000 这样一个月其实是8000-9000了
螂臂挡车
看楼里普通穷人还真是没资格养娃了,如果娃天分高,耽误了娃,如果娃天分低,没钱就给不了孩子好的未来,穷二代。
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noideaforname
看年纪还年轻啊,收入还有进步空间吗,比如跳个槽可以拿个10万sign on收入涨50%之类的
要是收入还能保证涨可以试试,要是一直就30万左右建议还是算了太入不敷出了
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kingboo
才三千杂费?我印象中这学校捐款捐得挺猛的
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pathdream
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girlinblack
我有时候觉得国内是不是教育太便宜了。我在国内的时候还没有学区房概念,上得我爸妈单位的小学中学。高中考了我们当地最好的高中,一年学费八百,然后大学一年学费4000左右。然后美国这边读硕士的时候免了学费。工作之后很多藤校和top公校的同事。我要是告诉他们我小学初中没花钱,高中一个学年学费120美金他们是不是得疯了😅
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waterji
高中考不进,只能小学考进,那不就是去给人当分母吗?又不是所有孩子都可以藤校,你这钱不够又何必呢?
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2wawa
Pingry 附近公校都挺好的. 没必要咬牙进Pingry.
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brewhaha
太紧了,认识一家收入是这个几倍不止的,男的是大公司president, 买的6米房子,唯一的儿子也在公校呢。
桃花朵朵
我有时候觉得国内是不是教育太便宜了。我在国内的时候还没有学区房概念,上得我爸妈单位的小学中学。高中考了我们当地最好的高中,一年学费八百,然后大学一年学费4000左右。然后美国这边读硕士的时候免了学费。工作之后很多藤校和top公校的同事。我要是告诉他们我小学初中没花钱,高中一个学年学费120美金他们是不是得疯了😅
girlinblack 发表于 2023-12-07 23:12

难道不是大学5~600美金的学费让他们疯得想跳楼吗
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Yesterdayom
看楼里普通穷人还真是没资格养娃了,如果娃天分高,耽误了娃,如果娃天分低,没钱就给不了孩子好的未来,穷二代。

螂臂挡车 发表于 2023-12-07 23:10


公校去大藤的也不少,真有天份的孩子, 在好公校一样可以。普通穷人去顶私做什么? 父母没钱, 孩子靠自己跨越阶级的多了, 做不到就别说天份了。 这不跟月薪1000 买爱马仕包一样吗? 有意义吗, 背个包就成富人了?
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girlinblack
难道不是大学5~600美金的学费让他们疯得想跳楼吗
桃花朵朵 发表于 2023-12-07 23:17

所以我从来不敢说😅我怕刺激到他们。尤其还学贷的
公用马甲41
单纯说一下楼主一个月3800的算法不太科学 两个娃的其他教育费用大概也要4000-5000 这样一个月其实是8000-9000了
The2ndLaw 发表于 2023-12-07 23:10

我是算只送小的那一个,大娃太调皮了
公用马甲41
看年纪还年轻啊,收入还有进步空间吗,比如跳个槽可以拿个10万sign on收入涨50%之类的
要是收入还能保证涨可以试试,要是一直就30万左右建议还是算了太入不敷出了
noideaforname 发表于 2023-12-07 23:12

工资很难有大幅上涨
公用马甲41
才三千杂费?我印象中这学校捐款捐得挺猛的
kingboo 发表于 2023-12-07 23:12

我就每次捐几百不行吗?
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jc255
这个收入,真的没必要。太紧张了,对一家人都不好。优秀的孩子,在公校一样成才。
顶级私校,更适合私校学费只占税后收入零头,想培养孩子好习惯的家庭。如果孩子足够优秀,倒是可以申请减免学费。认识一个孩子,去了全美排第一的顶私,学费全免。
无欲则刚
NJ的公校不是还不错的吗,为什么要送私校?留着钱给孩子付大学学费不好吗?再说,私校每年都有捐款活动,其他家长都捐你们不捐行吗?
Mdx123 发表于 2023-12-07 23:04


其实捐款并不太多。捐点是个意思,一般也就是几千,少数上万的大款。不要买包就把捐款钱省出来了。
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最讨厌那种说能不能考上和考上再说的人,你们规划一件事的时候是啥逻辑,考是有成本的,楼主这样想一想是0成本,当然要先做0成本的部分,想了后发现不可行就不用浪费考的成本了
似曾相识燕归来啊
这个收入你家的孩子在这种顶私需要心理比较强大,因为可能是收入低的人群。
悬 发表于 2023-12-07 22:33

不光如此,还要有思想准备会看到很多家庭是单职工还家里雇保姆而且小孩去了rutgers家长也兴高采烈 :-(
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sunnyday18
啊?你确定要给5岁娃补课?5岁娃能补个什么?坐的住么?

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ecolock
这个收入,真的没必要。太紧张了,对一家人都不好。优秀的孩子,在公校一样成才。
顶级私校,更适合私校学费只占税后收入零头,想培养孩子好习惯的家庭。如果孩子足够优秀,倒是可以申请减免学费。认识一个孩子,去了全美排第一的顶私,学费全免。
jc255 发表于 2023-12-07 23:31

k申请想拿助学金比较难,毕竟一大堆教育工作金钱背景很强的家庭想去,初高中孩子牛,家庭收入这样进去会拿助学金的
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ecolock
我就每次捐几百不行吗?
公用马甲41 发表于 2023-12-07 23:31

不捐也没什么,一般中国父母还是捐的不错的,有有钱的非华裔不怎么捐的,完全看个人
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我是算只送小的那一个,大娃太调皮了
公用马甲41 发表于 2023-12-07 23:29

没必要。要送一起送。公校好的话真没必要。你现在为了学费就月光,万一孩子以后还有啥突出的课外活动,有钱请私教吗?你私校一路供到大,这笔钱你打算以后一样的分量给老大吗?你有这笔钱吗
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ecolock
没必要。要送一起送。公校好的话真没必要。你现在为了学费就月光,万一孩子以后还有啥突出的课外活动,有钱请私教吗?你私校一路供到大,这笔钱你打算以后一样的分量给老大吗?你有这笔钱吗
shoeholic 发表于 2023-12-07 23:41

不一定要一起送。认识人两娃一个顶级公立要考的那种,一个顶级私立,俩孩子喜欢的不一样。楼主要实地考察一下。
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不一定要一起送。认识人两娃一个顶级公立要考的那种,一个顶级私立,俩孩子喜欢的不一样。楼主要实地考察一下。
ecolock 发表于 2023-12-07 23:44

两个娃肯定要端平的 大娃或许适合二档私利,又或许大娃喜欢吃美食想要下馆子, 喜欢父母的陪伴希望父母外包家务,喜欢度假,或者擅长某个课外活动,一样都可以花钱啊
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何必呢,五岁娃为了考上父母咬牙才能供的学校,还得每天补课,大人孩子都累,还造成两娃不公平,读公立一家都轻松愉快不好么
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好像一般私校捐款有个起步价,3000?捐款人的名字会按数目分类印在小册子上。
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redwendy
不值得,你这个收入孩子上大学应该拿不到什么aid,到时咋办?这个钱不如付孩子大学学费,如果有剩还能付医学院、法学院什么的学费
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lianzi
考上了申请financial aid啊。这种收入肯定可以免不少。
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俩娃只送一个去私立,还不如都不送
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red_is_bright
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This is not accurate; Pingry is among the top private schools- many Pingry grads would rather point out they are from Pingry rather than which Ivy they attended for college. On the contrary, majority of the graduates from the top public high schools do not end up in top universities. There used to be some kind of quota with the public schools, not sure if it's still the case anymore.
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whatever.
另一个太调皮,肯定没戏
公用马甲41 发表于 2023-12-07 22:33

但是这个调皮的娃也要承受家里月光的后果
另外两个娃就一点课外兴趣都不安排了?私校里学才艺也得花钱啊
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公校私校都可以吧,看家长怎么想了。
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你真的有点多虑了 Pingry没那么容易考的。 先考考吧 准备考试也是成长 面试家长和孩子也是个体验 写家长statement也是个好好观察了解娃的过程。 参观学校面试也能感受下顶私氛围。 连这个过程都不愿意开始,就想要不要去上,真的有点多虑。
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This is not accurate; Pingry is among the top private schools- many Pingry grads would rather point out they are from Pingry rather than which Ivy they attended for college. On the contrary, majority of the graduates from the top public high schools do not end up in top universities. There used to be some kind of quota with the public schools, not sure if it''''''''s still the case anymore.
red_is_bright 发表于 2023-12-07 23:58

看看藤校录取比例最高的顶级私校, 这个排名最客观, 最靠谱。这14家里, 纽约城里7个, MA 3个, NH 2个, CA 2个
www.thestreet.com/personal-finance/top-us-private-schools-with-the-most-graduates-getting-into-ivy-league-universities-13325695
Top US Private Schools with the Most Graduates Getting Into Ivy League Universities
14. The College Preparatory School, Oakland, CA Percentage admitted to Ivy League ~ 29% Tuition (2015-2016): Grades 9-12: $38,670 Student Body: Co-ed Student/faculty ratio: 8:1 Notable Alumni: HTC founder Cher Wang and video game pioneer Mark Cerny
Though it''''''''s the newest school on the list, founded in 1960, College Prep has a distinguished reputation and is giving the East Coast establishment schools some competition to reckon with. At College Prep, 132 students of the Class of 2015 took 251 AP exams in 18 different subjects. 93% of the scores received were a 4 or a 5. It is no wonder, then, that the school boasts a 100% college matriculation rate for all students.
Image placeholder title 13. Phillips Exeter Academy, Exeter, NH Percentage admitted to Ivy League ~ 29% Tuition (2015-2016): Grades 9-12 and postgrad, $47,790 boarding. Day, $36,800. Student Body: Co-ed Student/faculty ratio: 5:1 Notable Alumni: Author Gore Vidal and Facebook founder Mark Zuckerberg

Primarily a boarding school, Exeter was founded in 1781 specifically to prepare students for admission to Harvard University. Exeter''''''''s commitment to diversity is unparalleled; 46 different states and 34 different countries are represented in the student body. It''''''''s known for the Harkness plan, a participatory teaching method that fosters collaboration and support in the learning process. A key tenant to the Harkness Plan is that all classes must take place at a special oval Harkness Table, so that each class size is limited to 12.
Image placeholder title 12. Harvard-Westlake School, Los Angeles, CA Percentage admitted to Ivy League ~ 30% Tuition (2015-2016): Grades 7-12, $34,700 Student Body: Co-ed Student/faculty ratio: 8:1 Notable Alumni: Candice Bergen, Jake Gyllenhaal, Marc Harmon, Shirley Temple, Myrna Loy and astronaut Sally Ride
This is only one of two schools on the list located on the West Coast. Harvard-Westlake boasts a stellar academic reputation, as evidenced by the performance of this year''''''''s graduates on the ACT/SAT. 2016 graduates scored on average 697 on the SAT in critical reading, 710 on math and 707 on the writing portion of the exam. HW''''''''s students both past and present include countless glittering Hollywood surnames, and it also boasts a championship water polo team.

Image placeholder title 11. Chapin, New York, NY Percentage admitted to Ivy League ~ 30% Tuition (2015-2016): Grades K-12, $41,100 Student Body: All girls Student/faculty ratio: 7:1 Notable Alumni: Jacqueline Onassis Kennedy, Sigourney Weaver, Ivanka Trump and fashion designer Vera Wang
Founded over a century ago, Chapin is located on the Upper East Side of Manhattan, overlooking the East River. The all-female independent day school, while incredibly strong in academics, places a great emphasis on learning fostered outside of the classroom. For instance, seniors are encouraged to pursue independent study in a topic of their choosing. Recent examples have included in-depth studies of: leukemia stem cells, photographic images of wildlife in Greenland and Iceland, videogame design, and Biblical allusions in Shakespeare.
Image placeholder title 10. St. Paul''''''''s School, Concord, NH Percentage admitted to Ivy League ~ 30% Tuition (2015-2016): $57,985 (includes, room, fees and expenses) Student Body: Co-ed Student/faculty ratio: 5:1 Notable Alumni: Secretary of State John Kerry, former FBI director Robert Mueller and banker J. P. Morgan, Jr.

By far the most expensive school on this list, St. Paul''''''''s is a boarding school set on 2,000 pastoral acres. It boasts state-of-the art facilities that include a performing arts center, 95,000 square-foot athletic and fitness center, two ice hockey rinks, nine athletic fields and more.
Image placeholder title 9. The Dalton School, New York, NY Percentage admitted to Ivy League ~ 31% Tuition (2015-2016): Grades K-12: $42,960 Student Body: Co-ed Student/faculty ratio: 7:1 Notable Alumni: Anderson Cooper, Christian Slater, Chevy Chase, Claire Danes and sci-fi author Samuel R. Delany
The Dalton School is located off Manhattan''''''''s Park Avenue, just a few blocks from the Spence School. It''''''''s known for a teaching approach called the Dalton Plan, which adapts education to each child''''''''s needs and fosters choice and responsibility.
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8. The Winsor School, Boston, MA Percentage admitted to Ivy League ~31% Tuition (2015-2016): Grades 5-12, $42,400 Student Body: All girls Student/faculty ratio: 7:1 Notable alumni: Celebrated sixties socialite Babe Paley and entrepreneur Lesley Dewan, one of Time magazine''''''''s "30 People Under 30 Changing the World"
Once known as Miss Winsor''''''''s School, the school has long-standing Ivy League ties, and Harvard president Charles William Eliot was one of its original incorporators. Ahead of its time, this school, which predates the suffragette movement, was founded to "prepare women to be self-supporting." In addition to its long-standing standard of academic excellence, Winsor encourages its students to be leaders by participating in national conferences, including the Student Diversity Leadership conference and the National Coalition of Girls'''''''' Schools conference.
Image placeholder title 7. The Spence School, New York, NY Percentage admitted to Ivy League ~ 33% Tuition (2015-2016): Grades K-12, $45,150 Student Body: All girls Student/faculty ratio: 7:1 Notable Alumni: Gwyneth Paltrow, Jade Jagger (daughter of Mick), and author Francine du Plessix Gray

The Spence School was founded in 1892, based on what was then a forward-thinking belief - that women should have the opportunity to receive a quality education. It''''''''s located just steps from New York''''''''s Central Park and a short walk from the Guggenheim Museum and the Metropolitan Museum of Art. Spence has a long-standing tradition of academic excellence, admitting only one of every 10 applicants.
Image placeholder title 6. Phillips Academy Andover, Andover, MA Percentage admitted to Ivy League ~ 33% Student Body: Co-ed Student/faculty ratio: 5:1 Tuition (2015-2016): Grades 9-12 Boarding, $48,850. Day, $38,000. Notable Alumni: George H.W. Bush, George W. Bush, Jeb Bush and Humphrey Bogart
Known simply as Andover, this school has deep roots in American history. John Hancock signed its articles of incorporation, Paul Revere engraved its seal, and George Washington sent his nephews there. The student body today is equally impressive. In 2013, 455 candidates sat for 897 AP examinations. Of those, 59% scored a 5, the highest possible score, and 27% received a 4. Moreover, of the graduating class of 2014, 28 students were nominated as Merit Semifinalists and 2 students were named as Achievement Semifinalists in the National Merit Scholarship Program.
5. Roxbury Latin School, West Roxbury, MA Percentage admitted to Ivy League ~ 36% Tuition (2015-2016): Grades 7-12, $29,300 Student Body: All boys Student/faculty ratio: 7:1 Notable Alumni: Yale founder, James Pierpont, and former Harvard president, James Bryant Conant
This prep school in was founded in 1645, during the reign of King Charles I - more than a century before the American Revolution. It is, in fact, the oldest continuously operating school in the U.S. It''s commitment to academics is evidenced by the median SAT scores of the graduating class of 2015, boasting a 720 in critical reading, 750 in math, and an average score of 740 in writing. 89% of the scores of the AP courses generated by the class of 2015 were either a 4 or 5 (61% scored the highest mark, 5). It''s also one of the least expensive of our Top 14.
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4. Horace Mann School, The Bronx, NY Percentage admitted to Ivy League ~ 36% Tuition (2015-2016): Half-Day Nursery, $32,300. Nursery-Grade 12, $45,000. Student Body: Co-ed Student/faculty ratio: 12:1 Notable alumni: Jack Kerouac and former NY Governor Eliot Spitzer
Horace Mann School''s Ivy League ties go back to 1887, when it was founded as an educational experiment at the Columbia University Teachers College. The coed, independent day school not only focuses on preparation for the Ivy League, but their stated mission also emphasizes caring for others, with 80 hours of community service required for graduation.
Image placeholder title 3. Brearly School, New York, NY Percentage admitted to Ivy League ~ 37 Tuition (2015-2016): Grades K-12, $43,680 Student Body: All girls Student/faculty ratio: 6:1 Notable Alumni: Kyra Sedgwick, classic movie star Anne Baxter and model Kim Stolz.
Brearly, located on Manhattan''s posh Upper East Side, has long-standing Ivy League ties and was founded in 1871 by Harvard graduate Samuel A. Brearley, Jr. The all-female day school holds true to its commitment to diversity, with 44% of the student body comprised of students of color. The school fosters an "adventurous intellect" and stresses critical thinking and creativity.

Image placeholder title 2. Collegiate School, New York, NY Percentage admitted to Ivy League ~ 40% Tuition (2015-2016): Grades K-12, $43,400 Student Body: All boys Student/Faculty Ratio: 5:1 Notable Alumni: John F. Kennedy, Jr. and David Duchovny
Another venerable institution on New York''s Upper West Side, Collegiate School, was established in 1628. The all-boys preparatory school is known for its small collaborative class sizes, boasting an average student to teacher ratio of 5:1. Collegiate School is known not only for academic achievement, evidenced by the average combined SAT score of (2195), but also for its outstanding soccer team, ranked as the best amongst private schools in New York State.
Image placeholder title 1. Trinity School, New York, NY Percentage admitted to Ivy League ~ 40% Tuition (2015-2016): Grades K-11, $42,540. Grade 12, $43,320. Student/Faculty ratio: 6:1 Student Body: Co-ed Notable Alumni: John McEnroe and Larry Hagman

Located on Manhattan''s Upper West Side, Trinity is notably at the top of the list. The institution was founded more than 300 years ago as a school for the poor and was originally supported by charity. Its classes are considered the best in the nation, with its core curriculum focused on "inquiry-based" learning. Catering to grades K-12, Trinity now has an average enrollment of 960. The senior class is compromised of 113 students, 28% of which receive financial aid. Of the 214 students who took Advanced Placement classes in 2013, 93% received grades of 3 or higher. 77% received grades of 4 or 5. Approximately 41% of its graduates attended prestigious Ivy League colleges.

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red_is_bright
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If your end goal is Ivy, going through Pingry is pretty much guaranteed. The school is very focused on students being well rounded with heavy emphasis on writing and grammar. It's a great option if you can swing it. Oh, you may want to consider Lawrenceville too.
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Pingry好像不容易考呀!当年我二娃7年级就没考上,现在Newark academy 也火起来。如果夫妻两有人有希望升职的话可以试试。人生怎么能说清楚呢?我大娃上寄宿高中时收入是40+万,单收入,压力很大。后来很快升职涨薪,就没什么钱上压力。
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red_is_bright
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All of the schools from this list are great. But Pingry is among the top too, you can take a look at their website and you'll see the number of students accepted at Ivies. Pingry is definitely NOT a second tier private school.
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zxy2018
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5. Roxbury Latin School, West Roxbury, MA Percentage admitted to Ivy League ~ 36% Tuition (2015-2016): Grades 7-12, $29,300 Student Body: All boys Student/faculty ratio: 7:1 Notable Alumni: Yale founder, James Pierpont, and former Harvard president, James Bryant Conant
This prep school in was founded in 1645, during the reign of King Charles I - more than a century before the American Revolution. It is, in fact, the oldest continuously operating school in the U.S. It's commitment to academics is evidenced by the median SAT scores of the graduating class of 2015, boasting a 720 in critical reading, 750 in math, and an average score of 740 in writing. 89% of the scores of the AP courses generated by the class of 2015 were either a 4 or 5 (61% scored the highest mark, 5). It's also one of the least expensive of our Top 14.
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4. Horace Mann School, The Bronx, NY Percentage admitted to Ivy League ~ 36% Tuition (2015-2016): Half-Day Nursery, $32,300. Nursery-Grade 12, $45,000. Student Body: Co-ed Student/faculty ratio: 12:1 Notable alumni: Jack Kerouac and former NY Governor Eliot Spitzer
Horace Mann School's Ivy League ties go back to 1887, when it was founded as an educational experiment at the Columbia University Teachers College. The coed, independent day school not only focuses on preparation for the Ivy League, but their stated mission also emphasizes caring for others, with 80 hours of community service required for graduation.
Image placeholder title 3. Brearly School, New York, NY Percentage admitted to Ivy League ~ 37 Tuition (2015-2016): Grades K-12, $43,680 Student Body: All girls Student/faculty ratio: 6:1 Notable Alumni: Kyra Sedgwick, classic movie star Anne Baxter and model Kim Stolz.
Brearly, located on Manhattan's posh Upper East Side, has long-standing Ivy League ties and was founded in 1871 by Harvard graduate Samuel A. Brearley, Jr. The all-female day school holds true to its commitment to diversity, with 44% of the student body comprised of students of color. The school fosters an "adventurous intellect" and stresses critical thinking and creativity.

Image placeholder title 2. Collegiate School, New York, NY Percentage admitted to Ivy League ~ 40% Tuition (2015-2016): Grades K-12, $43,400 Student Body: All boys Student/Faculty Ratio: 5:1 Notable Alumni: John F. Kennedy, Jr. and David Duchovny
Another venerable institution on New York's Upper West Side, Collegiate School, was established in 1628. The all-boys preparatory school is known for its small collaborative class sizes, boasting an average student to teacher ratio of 5:1. Collegiate School is known not only for academic achievement, evidenced by the average combined SAT score of (2195), but also for its outstanding soccer team, ranked as the best amongst private schools in New York State.
Image placeholder title 1. Trinity School, New York, NY Percentage admitted to Ivy League ~ 40% Tuition (2015-2016): Grades K-11, $42,540. Grade 12, $43,320. Student/Faculty ratio: 6:1 Student Body: Co-ed Notable Alumni: John McEnroe and Larry Hagman

Located on Manhattan's Upper West Side, Trinity is notably at the top of the list. The institution was founded more than 300 years ago as a school for the poor and was originally supported by charity. Its classes are considered the best in the nation, with its core curriculum focused on "inquiry-based" learning. Catering to grades K-12, Trinity now has an average enrollment of 960. The senior class is compromised of 113 students, 28% of which receive financial aid. Of the 214 students who took Advanced Placement classes in 2013, 93% received grades of 3 or higher. 77% received grades of 4 or 5. Approximately 41% of its graduates attended prestigious Ivy League colleges.
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有个帖子的思路不是普私比顶私好么?顶私里学费只是门票,里面要卷的太多,你愿意孩子啥啥都不如别人么?
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zxy2018
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If your end goal is Ivy, going through Pingry is pretty much guaranteed. The school is very focused on students being well rounded with heavy emphasis on writing and grammar. It''''s a great option if you can swing it. Oh, you may want to consider Lawrenceville too.
red_is_bright 发表于 2023-12-08 00:06

你别在这里忽悠楼主了。 人家年收入才30万出头, 就算从小学上起,谁来guarantee 藤校?
上了Trinity School都不能保证, 更何况Pingry这种2流私校?(在New Jersey 确实算顶级, 我说的2流是全美国 )
你知道Trinity School的家长都是些什么背景吗?要录取多么难吗?
“If your end goal is Ivy, going through Pingry is pretty much guaranteed.” 
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别折腾,穷人家孩子应该知道早当家,而不是打肿脸充胖子。现在什么都贵,这点收入真的上不了私校