回复 1楼学谦为小家的帖子 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ie2Mspukx14 Robert Frost reads The Road Not Taken https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CSxjxhrwg5s What we’ve gotten wrong about this Robert Frost classic https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yGB_K_xlHdI https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KUaQgRiJukA "The Road Not Taken" by Robert Frost (1874 –1963) Two roads diverged in a yellow wood, And sorry I could not travel both And be one traveler, long I stood And looked down one as far as I could To where it bent in the undergrowth; Then took the other, as just as fair, And having perhaps the better claim, Because it was grassy and wanted wear; Though as for that the passing there Had worn them really about the same, And both that morning equally lay In leaves no step had trodden black. Oh, I kept the first for another day! Yet knowing how way leads on to way, I doubted if I should ever come back. I shall be telling this with a sigh Somewhere ages and ages hence: Two roads diverged in a wood, and I— I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference. https://poets.org/poem/road-not-taken
大学时学的这首诗，当时就意识到，今生没有回头路。既然选择了，就不要再想另一条路的风景。每一个选择，都是我在那个时间能做的最好的决定。Decision making skill, 也算一种生存能力。我家娃两岁开始，给孩子两三个选择，选了就要学会承担后果。 水蓝 发表于 2023-10-31 17:38
你说得对，无论在山的哪一边，草都是绿的。生活中的决断能力的确挺重要的，如果从小就有机会练习可能会比较好。 你说的好像是 爱与逻辑 育儿法吧。 https://www.loveandlogic.com/pages/love-and-logic-parenting Love and Logic Parenting Skills and Techniques
纯粹喜欢他是多么美好的情怀。 JFK也喜欢他，请他在总统就职典礼上朗诵自已的诗。 https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AILGO3gVlTU January 20, 1961 - Poet Robert Frost Reads Poem at John F. Kennedy''s Inauguration
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未选择的路
-- 罗伯特·弗罗斯特
中文译文 版本一
黄色的树林里分出两条路， 可惜我不能同时去涉足， 我在那路口久久伫立， 我向着一条路极目望去， 直到它消失在丛林深处。 但我却选了另外一条路， 它荒草萋萋，十分幽寂， 显得更诱人、更美丽， 虽然在这条小路上， 都很少留下旅人的足迹， 虽然那天清晨落叶满地， 两条路都未经脚印污染。 啊，留下一条路等改日再见！ 但我知道路径延绵无尽头， 恐怕我难以再回返。 也许多少年后在某个地方， 我将轻声叹息把往事回顾， 一片树林里分出两条路， 而我选了人迹更少的一条， 因此走出了这迥异的旅途。
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版本二
黄色的林子里有两条路， 很遗憾我无法同时选择两者 身在旅途的我久久站立 对着其中一条极目眺望 直到它蜿蜒拐进远处的树丛。 我选择了另外的一条，天经地义， 也许更为诱人 因为它充满荆棘，需要开拓； 然而这样的路过 并未引起太大的改变。 那天清晨这两条小路一起静卧在 无人踩过的树叶丛中 哦，我把另一条路留给了明天！ 明知路连着路， 我不知是否该回头。 我将轻轻叹息，叙述这一切 许多许多年以后： 林子里有两条路，我—— 选择了行人稀少的那一条 它改变了我的一生。
https://baike.baidu.com/item/%E6%9C%AA%E9%80%89%E6%8B%A9%E7%9A%84%E8%B7%AF/79357?fr=ge_al
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=ie2Mspukx14 Robert Frost reads The Road Not Taken
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=CSxjxhrwg5s What we’ve gotten wrong about this Robert Frost classic
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yGB_K_xlHdI
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KUaQgRiJukA
"The Road Not Taken" by Robert Frost (1874 –1963)
Two roads diverged in a yellow wood, And sorry I could not travel both And be one traveler, long I stood And looked down one as far as I could To where it bent in the undergrowth; Then took the other, as just as fair, And having perhaps the better claim, Because it was grassy and wanted wear; Though as for that the passing there Had worn them really about the same, And both that morning equally lay In leaves no step had trodden black. Oh, I kept the first for another day! Yet knowing how way leads on to way, I doubted if I should ever come back. I shall be telling this with a sigh Somewhere ages and ages hence: Two roads diverged in a wood, and I— I took the one less traveled by, And that has made all the difference.
https://poets.org/poem/road-not-taken
你我皆俗人，其实我们是选择了人比较多的那条路。当年有机会出国而没出国的才是少数
嗯。我觉得其实哪一条路都一样，无论人多人少。 凭借直觉朝着内心真正热爱的方向走， 就是自己该走的唯一的路。
我觉得你这个老师劝人的方式还挺独特的，也比较尊重你，还想用诗打动你 哈哈。 你的选择一定是最适合当时的你的，也就是最佳选择。
我和你想的一样。我觉得人生中没有“如果”，就像历史不能假设一样。哪一条路都一样，就是她/他该走的路。 我觉得我能帮她的就是告诉她，想说话的时候就随时给我打个电话。
嗯，you are your choices. 敢于follow自己内心声音，人生才能无憾
你说得对，无论在山的哪一边，草都是绿的。生活中的决断能力的确挺重要的，如果从小就有机会练习可能会比较好。 你说的好像是 爱与逻辑 育儿法吧。
https://www.loveandlogic.com/pages/love-and-logic-parenting Love and Logic Parenting Skills and Techniques
不客气。分享很快乐。
你说得很好，我们每天都在做很多选择。无憾便能心安。
我在这里说过很多次，
你每个时间点上做的决定，
都是你基于你那个时间点上已知的信息和已有的资源的前提下
为你自己做的，你自己认为的最佳决定，
每天每时每刻都在重复这个过程，
所以往回头看这种行为，基本的逻辑就不成立
Hindsight is 20/20
掷地有声。因此，后悔其实不存在。
纯粹喜欢他是多么美好的情怀。
JFK也喜欢他，请他在总统就职典礼上朗诵自已的诗。
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=AILGO3gVlTU January 20, 1961 - Poet Robert Frost Reads Poem at John F. Kennedy''s Inauguration
你朋友很幸运啊，你有一双愿意倾听的耳朵
我觉得幸运是彼此之间的事。我们俩初中就是同学，那时是纯粹的情感，很珍贵：）